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#1

Flakes

I have been interested in this chick at work and she knows that I am. I never realized that she was flakey until I read Roosh's most recent e-mail. My problem is this: I really REALLY like this girl. But for some reason, I can't seem to ask her out or anything. One thing may be that she is 17 and I'm 21. But again, I'm bat shit crazy about this girl!!! I could really use some advice here guys. Also, she likes me too, it's just that neither of us know what it is that we want. It's frustrating, so any advice would be appreciated. Thank you.
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#2

Flakes

Quote: (08-22-2008 11:28 PM)pyroman_a7x Wrote:  

I have been interested in this chick at work and she knows that I am. I never realized that she was flakey until I read Roosh's most recent e-mail. My problem is this: I really REALLY like this girl. But for some reason, I can't seem to ask her out or anything. One thing may be that she is 17 and I'm 21. But again, I'm bat shit crazy about this girl!!! I could really use some advice here guys. Also, she likes me too, it's just that neither of us know what it is that we want. It's frustrating, so any advice would be appreciated. Thank you.

How do you know she is flaky if you've never tried to meet up with her outside work?

You need to get your emotions under control because if you're obsessed about her then she's going to pick up on that and it's going to turn her off. Go out and get some other options in your life so there isn't so much riding on this one girl.
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#3

Flakes

Quote: (08-23-2008 09:56 AM)wintergreen Wrote:  

"...I'm bat shit crazy about this girl!!!"

Go back to the bat cave and chill for a couple of days. Then go find a cougar and volunteer your body for sexual experimentation, then borrow/find/buy some porn and make a composite list of the physical traits you want your ideal bedsheet bingo buddy to possess. You can follow this list to the letter or substitute any activity for a totally different one provided it frees you from being head over heels for the 17 year old and brings you to the realization that all women are different, but you shouldn't be overwhelmed by a single one.
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#4

Flakes

Quote: (08-23-2008 09:56 AM)wintergreen Wrote:  

Quote: (08-22-2008 11:28 PM)pyroman_a7x Wrote:  

I have been interested in this chick at work and she knows that I am. I never realized that she was flakey until I read Roosh's most recent e-mail. My problem is this: I really REALLY like this girl. But for some reason, I can't seem to ask her out or anything. One thing may be that she is 17 and I'm 21. But again, I'm bat shit crazy about this girl!!! I could really use some advice here guys. Also, she likes me too, it's just that neither of us know what it is that we want. It's frustrating, so any advice would be appreciated. Thank you.

How do you know she is flaky if you've never tried to meet up with her outside work?

You need to get your emotions under control because if you're obsessed about her then she's going to pick up on that and it's going to turn her off. Go out and get some other options in your life so there isn't so much riding on this one girl.

Allow me to reiterate what I meant. I have tried to hook up with her on several occasions but for one reason or another, they fall through. She cancels randomly and forgets some others. However, I understand why she cancels as she has many younger siblings to watch after. I do know that I need to get my emotions under control though. I have been doing quite good about it recently.
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#5

Flakes

Why would you want to go out with a girl that cancels plans on you all the time? Time to move on to another girl.
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#6

Flakes

Quote: (08-24-2008 10:02 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

Why would you want to go out with a girl that cancels plans on you all the time? Time to move on to another girl.

She's not interested.

But that's not what you want to hear is it? Read some of Roosh's stuff about being alpha.
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#7

Flakes

Quote: (08-25-2008 02:48 AM)Trotter Wrote:  

Quote: (08-24-2008 10:02 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

Why would you want to go out with a girl that cancels plans on you all the time? Time to move on to another girl.

She's not interested.

But that's not what you want to hear is it? Read some of Roosh's stuff about being alpha.

No, it's not what I want to hear. I am not a player. I have game, I just decide to play different. See, I know that she is interested. It;s one of those thing's that are impossible to explain over the internet. And no, I'm not disillusioning myself here. What I would like to hear are some ways that I may be able to make this work out.[Image: dodgy.gif]
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#8

Flakes

Quote: (08-25-2008 04:44 AM)pyroman_a7x Wrote:  

Quote: (08-25-2008 02:48 AM)Trotter Wrote:  

Quote: (08-24-2008 10:02 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

Why would you want to go out with a girl that cancels plans on you all the time? Time to move on to another girl.

She's not interested.

But that's not what you want to hear is it? Read some of Roosh's stuff about being alpha.

No, it's not what I want to hear. I am not a player. I have game, I just decide to play different. See, I know that she is interested. It;s one of those thing's that are impossible to explain over the internet. And no, I'm not disillusioning myself here. What I would like to hear are some ways that I may be able to make this work out.[Image: dodgy.gif]

Fair 'nuff.

It's like I said. Read up on some of Roosh's preachings about being alpha. You should be able to find your answers there.
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#9

Flakes

Well you tried and it didn't work. After multiple flakes you are just beating a dead horse.
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#10

Flakes

Maybe she's liking all the attention you're giving her. Either way, don't waste your time, because even if she does like you back, it's going to be a mission just to set up a date(and the date after that, which I found out the hard way). And there are alot of women out there who won't waste your time.
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#11

Flakes

Quote: (08-25-2008 04:44 AM)pyroman_a7x Wrote:  

What I would like to hear are some ways that I may be able to make this work out.[Image: dodgy.gif]

I aint's got nuthin. [Image: undecided.gif]
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#12

Flakes

Thanks guys. I know that it may have sounded like I was unappreciative. Im not by any means. I was just seeing if this was worth still going after and if anyone had any advice. Since im not even ready to be in another relationship right now of any seriousness I will take your advice and just do whatecer right now. I can always go back to her later when im ready for a real relationship later given we are both available right?
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#13

Flakes

Neh.

It sounds like you're pretty hung up on this girl. The best thing to do is walk away and do your thing. You'd be surprised at the dividends created when she sees you don't need her and that you're off having fun with other girls. Then maybe she'll approach you and say "let's hang out" or something. That's when you give her the brush off and say "I'd like to but I've already made plans with <insert name of girl(s)>", or "Sounds good if I'm free I'll let you know", and leave it at that.

If she comes back great and start the game over. If she doesn't, so what, and get out there and keep doing your thing.
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#14

Flakes

Quote: (08-26-2008 11:24 AM)pyroman_a7x Wrote:  

I can always go back to her later when im ready for a real relationship later given we are both available right?

No guarantee's mate. Don't worry about the future, let go of the past, just focus on the present.
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#15

Flakes

Trotter and duncanidaho: Thank you. The both of you actually put some extra thought into my head on this subject. I know that I have no guarantees and the brush off approach has already crossed my mind. I'm just glad that the two of you put my thoughts into your own words. I won't say i felt like a dick thinking those things but I kinda felt bad until I read them in the words of someone else and realized hey, this is what I need for me!! So thank you. Thank you very much.
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#16

Flakes

Quote: (08-27-2008 03:25 AM)pyroman_a7x Wrote:  

Thank you very much.

You're welcome. [Image: biggrin.gif]
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