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Field Report for First 3 months
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Field Report for First 3 months

I came to know about pick-up during summer 2015. My reason for googling it up was no different from many guys out there, a series of rejections from girls I had crush on. The first PUA I followed was Sasha Daygame. I liked his direct, fun self amused style of approach. After spending lots of my time watching theories and videos, I decided to try out my luck. To my suprise the first girl I approached was receptive, but my lack of game and high approach anxiety screwed me up. I approached a few girls for the next 4 to 5 months since then but most of it ended in failure except for one lucky number.

I then decided to get coaching from Deepak Wayne in Germany as I come from a pretty similar background as him. I believed that the level of game needed in France(where I am currently) and Germany are quite similar as both countries are higky feminized Western European countries. Hence, I made way to Berlin during the Christmas holidays. Being an avid traveller myself, I decided to round Germany.So it should be Berlin,Munich,Stuttgart and Heidelberg followed my a long bus journey back to France. Three days went by fast and after 18 hours of infield and theory, I felt much more confident and learned to hone my game.

I took 2 days off in Munich, not approaching anyone and just relaxed surrounded by the Christmas vibe. I headed to Stuttgart, the city where Posrche and Mercedez were established. I approached couple of girls here, but was rejected as I could not communicated in German and my game was not tight enough. Stuttgart is a city where English is not widely spoken unlike Berlin. With a hinch of dissapointment and also tiredness, I made my way back to the hostel. The hot shower and pizza made my day better ,enhanced by Echo Park(a thriller fiction story). Enjoying my book while sitting at the bar while sipping on a pint of beer,at that moment came Gabriela.

I observed her as she browsed through the drink menu, after 5 minutes she said to the server that she doesn't know what she wants. I smirked and continued to read my book(playing coy). She glanced at me and smiled a little as I returned the favor. She finally decided to go for a Cola with whisky combo which normally has a carmelized taste. The server was from Eritrea, a friendly guy whom I got along quite well since I came to the hostel. He gave us a shot of mint alcohol which I gulped happily. The next second, I opened the girl saying' Mint is okay, I prefer whisky and beer'. Pretty lame but that got us talking about drinks and food.

She was from Peru and came to Germany with her brothers to celebrate Christmas with their uncle. I nearly quit the set as I thought that her brothers were probably lurking around. I was gladly relieved when she told me that her siblings decided to travel solo (including her). No friends, no siblings, no parents, hence no cockblockers at least for now. She was all chatty and energetic, I did not have to build comfort with her as she was talking to me as if she knew me for ages. She even said to me that I should let her talk, I laughed instantly.I decided to just guide the conversation and let her do all the talking.

In between, I used some push and pull routines. For example I would ask a girl if she remembers my name. As I have a complicated one, most girls get it wrong, I would continue with "I was falling in love with you, but you break my heart".I started escalating verbally and started showing more signs of interest in her. Then came the Polish rugs or as I call external cockblockers. Their game was shittier than mine, hence I decided to let them to ruin their own game. I sugessted to Gabriela that we move to a smaller table near the main hall. I was well into my 3rd pint and I could sense that she was interested in me.

After knowing that I am of Indian ethnicity, she said that I reminded her of Rajesh from The Big Bang Thoery and that she likes the character. Knowing that she was hooked and we were about to finish our 3rd drink.,I continued to escalate her a bit further and was touching her hand by now. She than decided to go back to her dorm as she has a train to catch tomorrow morning. I proceded by accompanying her towards her dorm which was on the 2nd floor of the building. We took the lift and as we were about to get out I looked in her eyes and went for the kiss. She stuck all of her tongue in my mouth and was a bad kisser. We continued making out in the corridor and things started getting heated up. She told me that we can have sex if I have a condom which I din't at that time, It was tonight or never but logistics were bad as I was staying in another dorm myself.

I wanted to pull her to the toilet downstairs but I was afraid of getting caught as people were frequently coming in and out. As a group of people started coming into the corridor, we broke apart from the make out session. She went inside her dorm, gave me a flying kiss and told me that we will meet again if it is meant to be. I stopped believing in these bullshits long time ago. Meanwhile, I went back to my bed, lying on in with my eyes open for a moment. I was happy that I managed to pull a girl but at the same time I was dejected as I could not seal the deal. I woke up the next morning, decided not to pay Gabirela a visit in her room and took the bus heading towards Heidelberg. My journey has just begun, its time to roll.

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#2

Field Report for First 3 months

After holidays in Germany......

My real initiation in pick-up started from the begininnig of the year after my trip from Germany. I started approaching more random girls in Grenoble. Being a student, I decided to use the campus as my approaching base. I would spend at least 3 days per week, 2 to 3 hours hours per day practicing and thightening my game. Being a beginner, I knew I needed lots of practicing and I accepted rejections. My biggest problem was my approach anxiety. Couple of years ago I would sweat while sitting beside a girl in my class room. My throat will go dry and I will disappear into shyness.

My French is excellent but it was not my mother tongue, I had more problems. Nevertheless, the first few weeks were spent on opening and talking for a few minutes. I did mostly direct approaches and found that most of them responded postively. However, my approaches were limited. I did not apporach enough girls. I would go out and talk to only 3 to 5 girls during my 2 hours session. I would chicken out on the rest of the hot girls that I see. I came up with a few routines which allows me to plow for around 2 to 3 minutes. RooshVs routines from day bang helped a lot. I would open a girl direct,then start a conversation as though I was looking for a pet shop (Day bang from RooshV)and randomly spotted her.

I continued on, I was improving but very slowly. Towards the end of January, I realised that my conversation skills improved. I managed to talk to girls for about 7 to 10 minutes. I managed to reduce the pressure that I used to feel when talking to random strangers. One day, I managed to get the number of a girl, two days later I went out on my first date from daygame. I was overjoyed. Her name was Chloe, a 19 years old French girl studying medicine. We basicly had very little chemistry and the date wasn’t going anywhere. I came to know that she has a thing for dark guys and I supposed that was the reason she decided to go on a date with me. Assuming that she was interested in me I decidd to escalate verbally 20 minutes into the date, but at one point I escalated to fast where I complimented her ass on our way back to the tram stop. There I lost it, as she started being unreceptive to my rants.

Despite the date failure, I was happy that I got my first date in the first place.I knew I lost it with her, hence I deleted her number. At the end of the month,I analysed my problems during my day sarge.

I am not approaching enough girls(3-5 girls per session is just not enough)
I talk to fast
I need to work on building more comfort
February was a drab month. I strained my thigh when playing football. I was out for 2 months as excess walking or standing increased the pain. So, no day game in February and March. However as I was not totally immobilized, I managed to practice by approaching on the way to school. I did not improve much during this period, but I did enough to stay in the flow so that it will not too difficult after recovering from my injury.

April was unproductive. The month was spent mostly in getting back to the flow of approaching. I can say that, it is compulsary for beginners to practice game continously in the first few months with very little interval. I realise that sometimes even a few days of interval will re-create a certain level of anxiety. I gained a few numbers but all of them flaked. Mixed with bad weather and lack of parties or indoor gaming venues, April was pretty uneventfull. This also came during the time when I resigned from my Phd course. I decided to move out of town at the end of May, travelling while looking for a job.
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#3

Field Report for First 3 months

Congratulations, You go in the right way. I am also a beginner, but i am seeing some results. Good luck man
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Field Report for First 3 months

In May, I saw drastic improvements in my game. I was more relaxed and was approaching more girls during each session. I chicken out less and could at least open 10 -15 girls during 2 hours of session, where at least 3 end up in a solid conversation( about 10 minutes talk). In addition, I feel more relaxed, this helped in reducing my talking speed. I was more calm and was able to make solid eye contact. Once, I timed my approach, I was elated as I managed to talk to a girl for 20 minutes or more. I continued my progress, and managed to do the same since then. During this month, my number count increased but most of it flaked except for 2 girls. I managed to fix a date with a Korean girl but she never showed up. Another French hottie who initally replied my messages ended up flaking when I called her back after a few days.

My progress in number :

Numbers of approaches: 250 (+- 25)

Phone numbers : 15 (+-3)

Number of date : 3

Make outs : 1

Lays : 0

My progress is pretty slow, or at least in the below average speed rate. I would say my main problem is not approaching enough. Sometimes,I am too picky as my level of exceptations are high. Hence, I decided to tone it down until recently I even talked to a few chubby girls who aren't normally my type. Furthermore, I do not approach girs in different situations. I have been too used to stopping girls who walk in the opposite direction that I hesitate to open in other conditions which ends up limiting my approaches. I also realised that I do not persist enough and the set dies fast after the initial rejections. Most of the numbers I obtained were from yes girls. But I am letting the maybe girls slip by me, where are a bit more hard work would have worked wonders. Nevertheless,I came up with the list of things to work on for the next few weeks :

Open at least 20 girls in a session
Open girls in different situations(reading books, eating,playing, on a escalator, taking tram,etc)
Practice sexual escalation
Be more persistance
I will be leaving Grenoble to Lyon for a couple of weeks before enganging in some travelling during the summer. I will be posting my progresses and some of adventures and misadventures during my time in Lyon soon.
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#5

Field Report for First 3 months

Quote: (06-08-2016 03:47 PM)Drix Wrote:  

Congratulations, You go in the right way. I am also a beginner, but i am seeing some results. Good luck man

Thanks man. Nice to get some encouragement man from another part of the world. How long u been gaming?
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#6

Field Report for First 3 months

jaja yeah, sounds crazy, but i have been gaming in a seriously way for 2 weeks. I recently decided to improve myself a lot, i am working out, dressing better, learn about self control, read some seduction books, get a quality life.

In the past, i have banged or kissed girls, but 90% of them were tourist. i had no idea about game, my strong point is that these girls were so atracted to my appareance, i am confident with a lot of knowledge about the world(a little nerd). It was enough, but then i realized that i could increase drastically my possibilities of getting girls with game and I am here.

we have something in common, our standards are so high. Maybe it is arrogant to say that all girls i have banged belong to the range 7-7.5

I am seeing your number of approaches, good job. Personally, i have no time to go out(i work from 8 am to 6 pm and i live 2 hours from my workplace). The thing is that i am approaching girls at gym, bus station,restaurants,streets. Few time ago, one cutie chick smiled me and i went to approached her, she and her cousin was laughing a lot, 20 minutes later, we started to make out.

I use a mix of indirect and direct game, i try to be so funny(tell stories,jokes) and misterious, escalate and put my hands in her shoulder or waist ASAP. I live in Peru, average peruvians don´t look good at all, but i have flirted cute ones. These are my short numbers for now.

Number of Approaches: 20
Phone numbers:5
Make outs: 2
Lays: 0
Dates: 0

I am so sure that i would improve these numbers a lot
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