Quote: (08-07-2011 01:17 PM)playa_with_a_passport Wrote:
However, a broken clock is still right twice a day. I agree with him that some Bro’s over here are over analyzing their preference of ‘em girls with that light skin complexion.
I've decided to just address this post since I have personally been the most outspoken and critical on the subject of black American women and, therefore, am likely the target of this particular criticism. If I'm not, then keep scrolling and ignore this.
The debate has been extensive and has come up in
more than one
thread. I'm noticing several things about those who oppose me:
1. They never really address the points at hand. Their rebuttals are largely limited to ad-hominems and arguments to tone (read: my personal/character or the way I say things), but they can't seem to challenge any of the actual claims I have made.
Common rebuttals include, but are not limited to:
-"You just prefer white/other women." (A version of this is being used here by pwp. I actually do like black girls, so this is incorrect. I don't discriminate racially.)
-"
That's just your opinion." (An easy way cop out without the need to logically justify your disagreement)
-"
Some black woman just hurt you." (Most commonly delivered by women, but sometimes men as well. Standard shaming tactic-prior relationships are irrelevant to the merits of the points at hand)
-"You haven't dealt with classy black women" (Intl. Swag threw this one out there. Ad-hominem and entirely untrue-I've been exposed to plenty of them at my school)
None of these actually involve a logical deconstruction of my points, which is
very telling.
2. They skew the context of the debate in order to make their ad-hominems and arguments to tone easier to apply, usually over-simplifying my argument.
For instance: My particular criticism has been very specificly targeted.
Most(
not all)
Black American females, aged 40 and under(roughly my generation and the tail end of the one just prior), raised primarily in the USA.
My opponents/critics have responded by taking my rather specifically targeted critique and trying to claim that it indicates a mere revulsion of black women or an overwhelming preference for white women.
But how could that be? By targeting my criticism as I have (and I have been VERY CLEAR about who I'm talking about), I'm essentially excluding over 97% of the world's black female population from the discussion. I'm also excluding every generation of black American women prior to my own and the one immediately before that(that would be the vast majority of black american women who lived before my time).
Furthermore, I have
gone on the record as stating that black women
outside of the specific category I have outlined (under 40, american) are not subject to any of my criticism.
If this were really an issue of racial preference on my part and not a legitimate, objective sociological observation, why would I be so specific? If my problem is with black women in general for just being black women, then wouldn't I open things up a bit more? Taking 97% of a given population out of the equation would seem a bit counter-productive if one is merely expressing a simple dislike for members of that entire population, correct?
Furthermore, why would I limit my critique to intangible/malleable qualities (attitude, materialism, obesity, etc) that are largely not genetic and/or permanent? It would be one thing if I were focusing on traits that were racially specific to black women(example: very dark skin) and could not be altered. Instead, I'm talking about things that can not only be changed depending on culture/circumstance, but that are also unrelated to genes and can exist in any race.
You, as many other black males here have attempted to do, have proceeded to over simplify my argument, claiming that all I have been doing is "over analyzing their[my] preference of ‘em girls with that light skin complexion".
This, as I have shown, is a rather disingenuous and inaccurate claim to make. It not only mis-represents my arguments in a completely illogical fashion, but it dismisses them without making any attempt to address them.
Its a simple ad-hominem, a mere logical fallacy.
As I have said before, those who think that I am incorrect in my statements regarding black American women are free to prove me wrong. Challenge the points I've made and break them down logically and I'd be happy to accept the result if it can be shown to be more accurate. I welcome the opposition, because so far I have yet to really see it (save for perhaps one instance).
Everything else is just a cop out.
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It doesn’t make you an Uncle Tom to come out and admit that you have a preference for White women.
Another false dichotomy.
Who says I care whether or not I am labelled an Uncle Tom? That does not factor into my particular thought process, so any suggestion that I would conjure an entire theory simply to avoid this label is inherently tenuous.
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Just like I never took it personally when Latina tells me "No negros." Latinas are very open about telling you they don't fuck with Black guys as opposed to White chicks who would just let you down gently. If she aint feeling me, she aint feeling me is that simple. I don't need her to come out with wikipedia articles, pie charts and CDC and FBI crime statitics showing me how Black Men are fucked up and that's why she won't give me the pussy.
A final false assumption: you assume here that one who is critical of black american women (or any other specific ethnic/cultural group) is quite opposed to fucking them (as the latinas in your anecdotes were) and cannot maintain any sexual attraction for them.
I have maintained sexual relationships with many black American women and continue to do so. I find them fairly easy to attract, which is unsurprising given my physique.
None of my critique is motivated by a lack sexual/physical attraction to black females as a whole, nor a lack of success with them. I've done better with them than any other group as far as gaining sexual access goes.
Such a situation does not preclude objectively negative sociological critiques. Plenty of men here dislike American or [Insert specific city, nation or locale here] women and still hook up with them.
What's the issue here anyway, playa? Judging from this particular quote...
Quote: (06-09-2011 03:33 PM)playa_with_a_passport Wrote:
So since most Black women are obese, you are right, chances are that most Black women have hoodrat tendencies.
...you largely agree with me.