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Be manly, don't give attention when they ask for it. Be a challenge, be mean in a fun way, don't care too much, don't give them all your time, don't give them all your attention. Don't focus all your energy on just one girl.


If they friendzone you, stop talking to them at once.


If they cheat on you, leave them at once and never think back on it.


If you joke around too much and they get butthurt, use "i can make it up to you, I give great massages" or hug her.


Never explain yourself. Apologize ONLY when needed. Never doubt yourself, EVER.


Believe in everything, every fucking thing you ever do. Visualize and plan what you want, do it. Don't doubt yourself, ever.


Confidence will get you everything you want. Confidence works with girls, dogs, interviews, ever for getting friends. Fuck, you can even use it to get away from cops. Confidence is a virtue which you MUST have. It's a fucking need.


If you want to talk to a girl, go up to her and say Hi, if you have doubts, destroy them.


"What if she laughs at me.." then don't dress like a faggot, don't talk like a faggot and don't act like someone that she'll laugh at. You have a brain, use it, plan, think, believe in your plan, act on it.


Think of what to say, don't just ask everyone, being lazy is easy, being lazy won't get you anywhere. Don't be the person that gets everything handed to him, be the man that gets whatever he wants.


Stand the fuck up and get what you want. Woman want men, not boys with emotions. Woman want men that will change the world. The world wants men that will change it.


Never ask for permission "Do you want to..?" Always assume that they do. Change the question into an order, if they can't or don't want to, they're still going to reject you in the same way. Only difference is you come off as more assertive.


"Do you want to do something this weekend?" Change it to "I'm free tomorrow, let's hangout and have fun"


Look them in the eye when they talk to you , don't shift between eyes, pick one and stick to it, when the topic changes, or when you start talking, it's okay to break contact for a few seconds, but maintain it when you're talking. If it's something sexual, don't you fucking dare break eye contact.


Smile every now and then every so slyly. Don't know how to make a sexy smile? Pretend you're about to fuck the shit out of her.


Always stand with your feet shoulder length apart. Hands with thumb in the pocket, rest of fingers pointing towards to you your crotch. It's sexual and confident, better than hiding your hands in your pockets or just leaving them out there awkwardly.


When you walk, walk slowly and confidently, look people in the eye as you walk, don't you DARE look at the ground at any time ever.


When sitting down, lean back a little, be casual, spread you r legs a little more then shoulder length, don't cross your arms unless if you want to come off as uninviting.


Laugh loudly, don't laugh at everything. Make her work for your attention.


Don't spam them with texts, Don't call them unless if it's to meet up with her. If she calls, talk to her but if you feel the conversation dying out, end it by saying you have something to do. Lie if you have to, but be smart about it.


If she does something awkward or weird, point it out and make fun of her for it, don't over do it, and make sure it's at least a little funny. Woman laugh easily.


No sudden head movements, move slow, and confidently. Walk as if you own the place, always. Take up space.


Touch her, when you're walking, push her jokingly, move her using your hand on her lower back. Open doors for her, guide her away from water or gross things that she might walk into. Always be on the "dangerous" side of the road, be it cars or sketchy people. Make her feel safe and protected.


If it's cold, give her your jacket, don't ask if she wants it. If she's shivering or says "'i'm so cold' take it off and put it on her. Don't ask don't say anything, do it.


If you think something she said is wrong, TELL HER. Woman respect men with opinions, don't agree with everything. Actually talk and discuss with her.


If they talk about their ex, give them cold body language and/or quickly try to change the topic. If it's something sad, say this "Hey, now we're having fun, let's not share sob stories" Be prepared to quickly talk about something else, always have at least 5 backup stories in case the conversation goes stale. Leave sob stories for later on in the relationship.


Don't settle for woman with low standards. If you're not genuinely interested, find someone else.


Don't do the whole '"LOL FUCK FATTIES AND WORK YOUR WAY UP" no. You only deserve the best. Hotter woman are easier and usually bigger sluts. It's shocking, but true.

[vinman]

Where is this from?

[Cr33pin]

(05-10-2016 08:04 AM)vinman Wrote:  

Where is this from?

Someone who knows their shit

[Hazaer]

Great post but one question that I have.

Does chivalry actually work these days especially in the Anglosphere? Opening doors and giving jackets can seem needy and may not be appreciated. I have seen guys walking empty handed while the girl is carrying a shit load of things and she still snuggles up to him at the end. I am tempted to think you can still hold the frame without these gestures.

[Phoenix]

Same tired old dick-swinging blather and platitudes. Missed out the "Put a bone through your nose and drag a large club".

[WeekendCasanova]

(05-10-2016 09:04 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  

Great post but one question that I have.

Does chivalry actually work these days especially in the Anglosphere? Opening doors and giving jackets can seem needy and may not be appreciated. I have seen guys walking empty handed while the girl is carrying a shit load of things and she still snuggles up to him at the end. I am tempted to think you can still hold the frame without these gestures.

Depends on the girl.

I wouldn't say for certain that you can't be chivalrous in the Anglosphere. Feminism is rampant, but most of the girls that guys from this forum date will be quite feminine, and open to chivalry as well as more likely to play her part.

It also depends on what you're like. I personally don't do the hand-holding shit, but I do hold the door open for girls - it's just something I grew up with. I think there's a difference between being a gentlemen and a bitch. You see guys who are clearly cuckold walking around the streets serving their girl as if she's some goddess.

The key is balance. What is reasonable vs supplicating. I'll hold a door, but I sure as hell won't hold her purse.

Just my two cents.

[WestIndianArchie]

Chivalry does not make a girl want to sleep with you.
It does not make a girl grateful or appreciative.

If anything she grows to accept it, expect it, and often resent you for it. She can see it as you trying to control her.

The exact same thing happens with children, with customers, with clients.

When you give them care that is necessary, they react in predictable ways over time.

With children it's obvious that you have to keep doing this, even if they hate you for it.

With customers and clients, you do it to keep the money flowing in.

With women....

They tend to give you what you want if you give them things that make them react.

A regular guy who doesn't know game or understand typical female reactions (and how no female ever wants to be labeled typical, because she's a special little snowflake)
- holds doors open
- runs to open a door
- lifts heavy boxes
- opens jars
- will move furniture, fix cars and computers

He gives away his labor, his opportunity,
- he's a good dog trained by society
- he's a creep trying to nice his way into pussy

When an alpha opens a door, it's because he can do whatever he wants. He is not bound by rules, because he doesn't seek society's approval. He is the one to give approval.

When the player does any of this, he gets a cut, he gets an advantage. And if the price is high, he gets paid upfront.

The Alpha does not care what you think. He cares what he thinks. He's about principle.

The Player cares what people think because he can use that for his own gain. He's about practicality.

So a girl needs you to open a jar

- the average guy dutifully opens the jar like a golden retriever fetches a ball. Happy to be of service, please pet me

- the alpha opens the jar without a word, if he wants to

- the player takes the jar opening as an opportunity to play with the chick.

Everybody's a feminist until some real work needs to get done

Or

Lemme see that bicep,
- somebody needs to hit the gym, or
- someone's been working out. Hitting then 2.5 lbers everyday huh?

The Player takes the opportunities and he creates something pleasurable or something that gets him something.

Everyman in our culture has a bit of all of this in them. If I see a grandma struggling to reach a box of depends on the top shelf, I'll grab it for her.

That's the "good boy" that has been drilled into me.
The Alpha in me is like, that shit is annoying me, get it done now

But the player in me will start talking to her.
"Look at you, still out here living your life."

One of the lessons of game is that

I do not need to see things the way that other people see them.

I do not have to live up to their expectations

WIA

[Cortés]

(05-10-2016 08:04 AM)vinman Wrote:  

Where is this from?

If I recall correctly an old 4chan greentext, sometimes anon isnt an autist...

[AneroidOcean]

(05-11-2016 10:10 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

When an alpha opens a door, it's because he can do whatever he wants. He is not bound by rules, because he doesn't seek society's approval. He is the one to give approval.

When the player does any of this, he gets a cut, he gets an advantage. And if the price is high, he gets paid upfront.

The Alpha does not care what you think. He cares what he thinks. He's about principle.

The Player cares what people think because he can use that for his own gain. He's about practicality.

So a girl needs you to open a jar

- the average guy dutifully opens the jar like a golden retriever fetches a ball. Happy to be of service, please pet me

- the alpha opens the jar without a word, if he wants to

- the player takes the jar opening as an opportunity to play with the chick.

Perhaps this is going off topic but, how do you view driving a car WIA?

Specifically, the guy that has his girl drive him around.

Not that it can't be nice every once in a while (especially if you're getting something done or very tired), but it always seemed like a bitch move to me to have the girl drive the guy around.

If we're in the car, I'm almost always in the driver's seat. My car, her car, someone else's car.

[WestIndianArchie]

(05-11-2016 10:36 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

Perhaps this is going off topic but, how do you view driving a car WIA?

Specifically, the guy that has his girl drive him around.

Not that it can't be nice every once in a while (especially if you're getting something done or very tired), but it always seemed like a bitch move to me to have the girl drive the guy around.

If we're in the car, I'm almost always in the driver's seat. My car, her car, someone else's car.

I've been on the East Coast for most of the past 10 years, so that's less and less of an issue.

But, I absolutely hate it when a chick drives me around. Mostly because I'm not a speed racer and I'm super attentive about shit. I don't like most guy drivers as a result either.

What I've found that if you set the tone early in the relationship
- you drive most of the time
- she sits in the passenger seat and is fine with it
- I would drive her car
- She might drive her car occasionally if it was more convenient
- I've only had a chick drive my car twice, and both were committed relationships heading towards marriage (one got away, the other I dodged the bullet)

That being said, the guys that have chicks drive them around, give them money, take them shopping -has flipped the game. The woman's ultimate dream is to be pampered, taken care of, only get to do the fun parts of the relationship, none of the drudgery. No responsibility, or accountability, just power.

- the blue pill part of me doesn't like it
- the alpha and player part of me respects it.

A regular man firmly implanted in the matrix sees this as weakness.

She's driving you around like you're a 4th grader. Hell, in the 4th grade I was riding my bike for 2 WHOLE MILES cause I didn't want to wait to go to Toy's R Us.

However, a man who can be driven around, have his meals made, his clothes bought, spending money, and he fucks a chick with passion - I could see how he's living the dream.

Still, game aside, he's not that independent.

If he were able to transition from selling his chick the dream, to selling employers, or better yet employees the dream - he could have all that shit and a lot more.

So I respect a guy that can jettison society's values. That's admirable.
What I don't admire is what he chooses to do next.

And that's fine for him, he doesn't need my approval, nor does he seek it.
And it's fine by me, because I'm not trying to force him to see my way as better.

What's interesting is that a lot of girls are okay with this sort of arrangement, if the guy has something they can latch onto. She has to swallow her own pride.

Sometimes she can't.

I remember reading an article from the NY Times, where women made significantly more money than their husbands - and one wife was like, "I made 7 figures this year and he stayed home, I'm not sucking his dick"

WIA

[kommonsence]

OP that has hit the nail on the head. I might record that and play it every morning.

[DrCotard]

This thread is gold. Those thoughts perfectly summarize the advice given in many pick up books in a blunt way.

[DonnyGately]

Most girls [except some southerners] have never experienced chivalry or a gentleman in their life. If you're in a cold bar or restaurant and she's wearing a mini or halter top and says she's cold, not offering seems really stupid to me based on my experiences.

Girls are always looking for something Different. If all they guys she knows at school are cocky aloof assholes mixed in with sniveling betas, being the 101st cocky asshole she knows probably won't work. Remember to push/pull. She's a cat and you're pulling the string away then letting her grab it. Be confident and forward and have something to talk about and you're way ahead of the game. If she's attracted and comfortable with you, you will get the lay.

If you're afraid to say/do something nice, you lack inner Game. Do what YOU want to do. Just because she wants a gentleman in her life doesn't mean she won't fuck you on the 1st or 2nd date. Remember, these girls don't know what THEY want 90% of the time. Lead them down the path to your bedroom.

[Travesty]

(05-10-2016 09:14 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  

Same tired old dick-swinging blather and platitudes. Missed out the "Put a bone through your nose and drag a large club".

There is no way you are an American! You'd be deported!

[Travesty]

I really don't understand the car thing with guys. Now I think that is ridiculous.

I love being driven around. In fact sometimes with girls I will sit in the back seat opposite side and treat her like my hired driver for fun. I can drink or smoke and not worry and make her my DD.

When I am wealthy enough I will hire a hot woman driver and sit in the back seat of the Rolls. Just like Lou Ashby in Californication.

Guys think real small on this issue.

The Player move is to always utilize girls to your pleasure. I hate driving in general though I love just looking out the window and listening to music.

[Don's D]

^^^ I always try to make my dates or gf's drive, it forces YUGE investment from their part.
It allows for a lot of teasing, and for me there is nothing better than going out getting drunk and having her take you to bed and tuck you in.(by tuck in I mean fuck)

I also enjoy when they are driving and you start rubbing her thighs, then rubbing her pussy and watch how turned on they get because they can't do anything about it, if they protest, just order them to put both hands on the wheel and focus on the road... great times

[Comte De St. Germain]

Back when I had my two door I use to love driving it so never ever would I let a woman drive should she get a scratch on it or otherwise mess it up. Now I'm more than happy to give up the driver's seat so I can just chill.

I was get that look of awe when I just pull back the chair, lay down, and nap until we arrive. She'll either leave me alone or try to give me shit, which in the latter case I can outdo her in that field.

[DonnyGately]

(06-19-2016 02:50 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

I really don't understand the car thing with guys. Now I think that is ridiculous.

I love being driven around. In fact sometimes with girls I will sit in the back seat opposite side and treat her like my hired driver for fun. I can drink or smoke and not worry and make her my DD.

When I am wealthy enough I will hire a hot woman driver and sit in the back seat of the Rolls. Just like Lou Ashby in Californication.

Guys think real small on this issue.

The Player move is to always utilize girls to your pleasure. I hate driving in general though I love just looking out the window and listening to music.

Totally agree. I loved being driven around NYC in a 911 by my ex-gf. [hers]

[RexImperator]

I would get driven around in a Mercedes 600 Grosser like Idi Amin.