Quote: (05-08-2016 01:12 AM)2Wycked Wrote:
If what you are feeling is a lack of authenticity, then the problem is you, not women.
If you feel that the women that surround in Canada are inauthentic, you would do well to understand that you grew up with similar social influences, went to the same schools, watched the same TV shows, etc., etc. I'm not saying they are not ultimately responsible for their own behavior, but you are certainly responsible for appraising your own role in society.
You seem to posit, also, that the societal degradation has revealed "women's true nature." How can you hold onto this belief while simultaneously believing that women have been devalued and debased by Western society? Have women been exposed for who they really are or have they been corrupted by a degenerate social order?
Further, when you travel abroad to another country, you aren't going to find women you consider traditional precisely because it isn't your tradition; i.e., you are a foreigner in that culture. You can certainly find women of different temperaments because of the culture, but you will be completely un-moored from anything you consider traditional. Unless, of course, what you consider traditional is simply some view of sex relations seen through gauzy, rose-colored lenses.
As SamBRoberts alludes to, you are what you do. If you feel inauthentic, it is most likely because you feel alienated from your own culture and you don't feel a connection between what you do and who you consider yourself to be. Alot of this could simply be due to age, but also it is due to Western culture affecting you. It is not just women who have been dismantled and reconstructed like some consumerist Frankenstein.
If you want to be more authentic, you have some soul-searching to do. Learning to control and channel your thoughts and adopting good habits so they become second nature are key here.
Here is thread by Beyond Borders that may help you: What Are the Most Powerful Habits You've ACTUALLY Adopted for Huge Results?
Excellent post!
I really think it applies to Luther so I suggest that he read it again.
That post also applies to many other situations talked about on this forum.
1 - If you have a problem with another person or a group of people, the real problem is likely a problem you have with yourself and the best way to solve the problem is to look in the mirror.
2 - If you agree that western culture has poisoned western women then you need to take a hard look at what that culture has done to you and what changes you need to make. If you came from the same culture then you must have been affected also.
3 - A few forum members, especially newer guys, still have the idea that foreign women are a magic pill that will solve all their game problems. Unfortunately they actually require more work. You still need to learn game (probably even more important with foreign women because they have more game), you have to learn about other cultures and if you live abroad you will probably need to learn another language.