Hello players, just joined been lurking around for about 8 months, already read bang, day bang and have read a massive amount of posts from the forum. Although I've read many posts I could not find one that helps with a situation i'm in...
This gonna be a relatively long one because i must make clear some background before you guys share your thoughts..
About myself: I'm 19, never been the classical nerd (actually i had more like a sex, drugs and rock'n'roll pre-adolescence and adolescence,just that was without the sex, i didn't get more than make outs with 4-5 girls till i was 18). But i've always sucked with girls had 0 confidence when it comes to them, even thou i am super confident in other areas, got 3 severe oneitis during that period one i got to a semi relationship with but did not bang, only worsening my confidence problems, got into bodybuilding when i was 14 and weighted 50 kg (convert it yourself but i thing its around 120-130 lbs), and my confidence started boosting and after the last oneitis i saw what girls really are.. A year later I found out game and i stand here now knowing the basics, i was a really mediocre looking guy, but as i'm getting older my looks improved and i get eye-fucked every now and then by 7's and 8's and looks from chicks everyday, some girls say im hot some say im average (the ones that don't like germanish noses) i am 6 ft and weight around 185 pound 8%..
The chick: She is 18, have been in 3 LTR's and the last one is 4 years (between break ups a come backs) and HB 8 (not overevalued) She is an Upper midle class kind of spoiled kid, a little imature, but a nice "traditional family" girl.
Where we stand: We started being friends when she helped me with a friend of hers, when we were 14, been friends since then real close friendship, not beta orbiter like, we just got along and i've always treated her like a bro.. She assumed that for a period during highschool she had feelings for me but never said nothing, and said that if she could choose i guy to marry would be me (i know this means shit), since we've left high-school we hang out every 2 or 3 weeks just to catch up..
To clarify her feelings for me, last time she disrespected me i went radio silence on her for about a week, when she started calling me various times a day, and when i answered she was crying..(but we have a true friendship).
So in one of these last hang outs we went to a bar 10 mins my house to get a burger and some beer, we got there ate and i called a mutual friend that was "no rolê" he said he would be there in 15 minutes, after i hung up she told me that she wanted to come to my house to grab one of my mom's lactose enzyme.. I didn't liked but agreed, when we got at my house she said she was tired and felt like hanging out at my place and watching a movie or something, i showed her that i was bothered because i had made plans with my bro (mutual friend), but since it was her night i agreed, we got into my couch, i took my shirt of (it was hot here) and about sometime into the movie i laid in her lap and she sort of hugged me, putting her hand on my chest. {we usually have physical contact but never in romantic way}. This time though it looked different... The movie ended and it was late, i told her to sleep over but her mom wouldn't let her (she lives alone, but her mom is very protective although she lives in another city, our home city, and so does her boyfriend), i told her that i was going to call a cab, she said she didn't want to go alone i agreed to go with her and then come back to my place, but then she almost begged me to sleep at her house because she was afraid of sleeping alone and her apartment was scary at that time of the night. I reluctantly agreed. Arriving her place, i laid at the couch i told her good night, she said i shouldn't sleep in the dirty couch, than i got the mattress and took it to the living room, as i was going to put it on the floor she told me to not put it there because her dog have pissed there before (she had cleaned it 5 minutes sooner), i looked at her and asked where should i put it then, she told me to put beside her bed, ( at this point i was thinking what the fuck, do you know what means if you are inviting me inside your bedroom) but followed her lead, laid at my mattress i rushed to sleep holding the dick thoughts (and beeing beta as fuck), but she kept talking and talking, so i told her: Look i have to wake up early tomorrow, i got to sleep. She bitched and turned her back at me beeing pissed. I got up at her bed and gave her some caresses and talked sweet, she then told me that i knew she was needy and lonely and that's why she wanted to talk, notice that i was hugging her at her bed and caressing her and she didn't told me to GTFO of her bed, i started having trouble holding my alpha male side, and the dick started yelling, so in the beta act of the year i got out of the bed, into my mattress and put in my head that i would not bang this chick that night.. Woke up early in the morning and went to my running session feeling like the gayest, beta'est motherfucker around.
Now, i don't know if she wanted me to hookup or bang her or whatever, because we are usually comfortable with each other and have physical touch.. But this was something that hut my ego, not just my ego but i've felt less manly and shit, and i wont let it happen again.
So, what are your thoughts ? Do you think she wanted the D ? Would you bang and loose probably the real friendship with a female that you'll have in your lifetime (because at this point at my life I can't be "friends" with a chick, notice that the friendship between me and this girl grew naturally, I wasn't put in the friendzone, a well known space for me). Or would you just do what I did and bitched out valuing friendship ?
I'm going to meet with her in two days, going to her apartment.. Though about hanging out, watching some movie, drinking a few beers.. But i think i will cook for her this night, she knows that i cook well but i've never cooked for her, because she knows i only cook for potential bangs ( i told her), so if I cook that will imply something sexual.. Should I go agressively for the bang![[Image: banana.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/new/banana.gif)
and end with my doubt ? Should i let the alcohol flow a little, have a nice meal, stay for a sleepover and see what happens ? Should i talk, eat, drink and then get home and jerk off ?
Adendo: 3 girls told me that she wanted me to bang her, but im skeptic about it.. I think that if she was, was probably a horny moment of hers (she told me that she was in need of a man earlier on the night), and not a attraction thing. I know this was a long post, But if some experienced players of the forum could help me make a decision, i would be really grateful![[Image: huh.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/huh.gif)
This gonna be a relatively long one because i must make clear some background before you guys share your thoughts..
About myself: I'm 19, never been the classical nerd (actually i had more like a sex, drugs and rock'n'roll pre-adolescence and adolescence,just that was without the sex, i didn't get more than make outs with 4-5 girls till i was 18). But i've always sucked with girls had 0 confidence when it comes to them, even thou i am super confident in other areas, got 3 severe oneitis during that period one i got to a semi relationship with but did not bang, only worsening my confidence problems, got into bodybuilding when i was 14 and weighted 50 kg (convert it yourself but i thing its around 120-130 lbs), and my confidence started boosting and after the last oneitis i saw what girls really are.. A year later I found out game and i stand here now knowing the basics, i was a really mediocre looking guy, but as i'm getting older my looks improved and i get eye-fucked every now and then by 7's and 8's and looks from chicks everyday, some girls say im hot some say im average (the ones that don't like germanish noses) i am 6 ft and weight around 185 pound 8%..
The chick: She is 18, have been in 3 LTR's and the last one is 4 years (between break ups a come backs) and HB 8 (not overevalued) She is an Upper midle class kind of spoiled kid, a little imature, but a nice "traditional family" girl.
Where we stand: We started being friends when she helped me with a friend of hers, when we were 14, been friends since then real close friendship, not beta orbiter like, we just got along and i've always treated her like a bro.. She assumed that for a period during highschool she had feelings for me but never said nothing, and said that if she could choose i guy to marry would be me (i know this means shit), since we've left high-school we hang out every 2 or 3 weeks just to catch up..
To clarify her feelings for me, last time she disrespected me i went radio silence on her for about a week, when she started calling me various times a day, and when i answered she was crying..(but we have a true friendship).
So in one of these last hang outs we went to a bar 10 mins my house to get a burger and some beer, we got there ate and i called a mutual friend that was "no rolê" he said he would be there in 15 minutes, after i hung up she told me that she wanted to come to my house to grab one of my mom's lactose enzyme.. I didn't liked but agreed, when we got at my house she said she was tired and felt like hanging out at my place and watching a movie or something, i showed her that i was bothered because i had made plans with my bro (mutual friend), but since it was her night i agreed, we got into my couch, i took my shirt of (it was hot here) and about sometime into the movie i laid in her lap and she sort of hugged me, putting her hand on my chest. {we usually have physical contact but never in romantic way}. This time though it looked different... The movie ended and it was late, i told her to sleep over but her mom wouldn't let her (she lives alone, but her mom is very protective although she lives in another city, our home city, and so does her boyfriend), i told her that i was going to call a cab, she said she didn't want to go alone i agreed to go with her and then come back to my place, but then she almost begged me to sleep at her house because she was afraid of sleeping alone and her apartment was scary at that time of the night. I reluctantly agreed. Arriving her place, i laid at the couch i told her good night, she said i shouldn't sleep in the dirty couch, than i got the mattress and took it to the living room, as i was going to put it on the floor she told me to not put it there because her dog have pissed there before (she had cleaned it 5 minutes sooner), i looked at her and asked where should i put it then, she told me to put beside her bed, ( at this point i was thinking what the fuck, do you know what means if you are inviting me inside your bedroom) but followed her lead, laid at my mattress i rushed to sleep holding the dick thoughts (and beeing beta as fuck), but she kept talking and talking, so i told her: Look i have to wake up early tomorrow, i got to sleep. She bitched and turned her back at me beeing pissed. I got up at her bed and gave her some caresses and talked sweet, she then told me that i knew she was needy and lonely and that's why she wanted to talk, notice that i was hugging her at her bed and caressing her and she didn't told me to GTFO of her bed, i started having trouble holding my alpha male side, and the dick started yelling, so in the beta act of the year i got out of the bed, into my mattress and put in my head that i would not bang this chick that night.. Woke up early in the morning and went to my running session feeling like the gayest, beta'est motherfucker around.
Now, i don't know if she wanted me to hookup or bang her or whatever, because we are usually comfortable with each other and have physical touch.. But this was something that hut my ego, not just my ego but i've felt less manly and shit, and i wont let it happen again.
So, what are your thoughts ? Do you think she wanted the D ? Would you bang and loose probably the real friendship with a female that you'll have in your lifetime (because at this point at my life I can't be "friends" with a chick, notice that the friendship between me and this girl grew naturally, I wasn't put in the friendzone, a well known space for me). Or would you just do what I did and bitched out valuing friendship ?
I'm going to meet with her in two days, going to her apartment.. Though about hanging out, watching some movie, drinking a few beers.. But i think i will cook for her this night, she knows that i cook well but i've never cooked for her, because she knows i only cook for potential bangs ( i told her), so if I cook that will imply something sexual.. Should I go agressively for the bang
and end with my doubt ? Should i let the alcohol flow a little, have a nice meal, stay for a sleepover and see what happens ? Should i talk, eat, drink and then get home and jerk off ? Adendo: 3 girls told me that she wanted me to bang her, but im skeptic about it.. I think that if she was, was probably a horny moment of hers (she told me that she was in need of a man earlier on the night), and not a attraction thing. I know this was a long post, But if some experienced players of the forum could help me make a decision, i would be really grateful
