[RatInTheWoods]

I'd like to talk about girls who can't cum, and also girls who can't cum on your dick.

List your experience and estimated percentages here and discuss.

I think its about 10% of chicks who outright can't cum- although the internet says its up around 20-30%.

Chicks that can't cum on your dick is higher, around 20-30% need hand, mouth or extras.

Have you noticed and cultural or other indicators? Country/religious/age etc

Is this a nextable offense?

If you found a sweet chick who only comes on your mouth/hand would you next her?

We all love those multiple easy girls...


PS no bullshit bragging about your super human powers in theis thread please, its so boring.... Just genuinely interested in field research.

[John Michael Kane]

Women orgasism a lot less when they aren't in a committed relationship. Go figure, female biology doesn't agree with slutting it around. Women feel more comfortable in a committed relationship. The current whoring around going on is causing them to cum less.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/new...-partners/

Quote:

Previous research has indicated that women are most likely to have vaginal orgasms in committed, monogamous relationships, but Harvard University's Department of Psychiatry has taken these conclusions to the next level.

They surveyed 13,484 heterosexual college women on their orgasmic frequencies and linked it with the number of times they'd been with the same partner, finding that even outside committed relationships, the more a woman had sex with the same partner, the more likely it was that she would have an orgasm during sex.

According to the chart of findings on HuffPo, if it's her first time with a new partner, she has a 32 percent chance of vaginal orgasm; at 1 to 2 previous hookups, 35 percent; 3 to 5 previous hookups, 40 percent, and 6 or more previous hookups, 51 (!) percent.

Furthermore, the odds of a woman having an orgasm with a partner she wanted to have a relationship, at 45 percent, rang in higher than the odds of having one with a partner she didn't want a relationship with, at 37 percent.

[Latan]

Why not more than 50%?
I rarely experience women cuming, as I don't care about them during the act.
(I don't count those who pretend.)

[vinman]

I've only had a couple of women who said that they've never cum from straight up vaginal intercourse. So I think 20% is too high. My 2 cents worth.

[TravelerKai]

(05-04-2016 01:18 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

I'd like to talk about girls who can't cum, and also girls who can't cum on your dick.

List your experience and estimated percentages here and discuss.

I think its about 10% of chicks who outright can't cum- although the internet says its up around 20-30%.

Chicks that can't cum on your dick is higher, around 20-30% need hand, mouth or extras.

Have you noticed and cultural or other indicators? Country/religious/age etc

Is this a nextable offense?

If you found a sweet chick who only comes on your mouth/hand would you next her?

We all love those multiple easy girls...


PS no bullshit bragging about your super human powers in theis thread please, its so boring.... Just genuinely interested in field research.

You seem to be so adamant about their orgasms but what I would like to know is just how much do YOU know about women's vaginas in general. Can you even tell the difference between cervical fluid, the 4-5 different consistencies based upon their ovulation cycle and the actual different kinds (about 3) of orgasms women can have?

It's so typical to hear a dude get all crazy and hyped up over how wet some chick got when they were fucking them and they have no idea why she was that wet in the first place let alone how.

Ever read a book like this?

http://www.amazon.com/Taking-Charge-Your...=fertility

You can learn all kinds of stuff that will make you rethink what you think you know about "girls that can't cum".

[eradicator]

Get them warmed up by fingering them and then finish strong by giving them a good hard fuck.

We have a thread, at least one, that explains how to make a girl squirt. Do a search for it.

Basically women have 2 sorts of orgasms and 2 g spots; clitoral and vaginal. Find the g spot on her clitoris and work on it. You can find the gspot on her vagina by fingering her with your middle finger with your palm up, find the spongy area with the tip of your middle finger, work on this area with your finger and then also when you have your dick in her. Don't just listen to what she is saying vocally, listen to her body and what it is reacting to. When you find something that works, that she really responds to, keep doing that.

[RatInTheWoods]

Guys I dont need a lesson on how, I'm not 20 lol
There is nothing magical or difficult about being good at sex, its just a case of reading up, practicing but mostly bothering to make an effort.

I am interested in a poll of womens ability to respond to a reasonably good lover.

Some can cum 52 times, others not.

They vary so much from individual to individual so much more than men.

what percentage just can't get over the line no matter what you do, because its THEM, and is this a nextable offence?

Its the great unknown when you are first chasing a woman, will it be worth the effort?

[RatInTheWoods]

(05-04-2016 05:41 AM)Latan Wrote:  

Why not more than 50%?
I rarely experience women cuming, as I don't care about them during the act.
(I don't count those who pretend.)

For me its really boring if shes doesn't go off like a frog in a sock during sex.

Don't you feel like a rapist? Wouldn't a wank be easier?

[Valentine]

(05-04-2016 04:04 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

what percentage just can't get over the line no matter what you do, because its THEM, and is this a nextable offence?

Its the great unknown when you are first chasing a woman, will it be worth the effort?

Who cares?

Women are more attracted to your mindset than how many orgasms you give her.

But..

I'd say almost every girl can have a clitoral or G-spot orgasm given the right (manual) stimulation.

Girls cumming during sex though is a different matter, that's definitely less than 50%.

[AneroidOcean]

I've found that the more you can get in here, the harder you can make her cum.

   

Also, it's everyone's responsibility to allow themselves that release. As such there is only so much you can do to make someone else cum.

[Burt Gummer]

Anybody have experience with a porn addict girl?Did she have trouble coming?

[Roardog]

I don't really care if a girl cums during sex which funnily enough has actually meant I make more girls cum during sex, go figure. I used to worry about it when I was younger and think that it hadn't been a good bang if the girl didn't cum but now as long as I enjoyed it then it's a good bang in my book.
I think that once I stopped worrying about it and just concentrated on enjoying the experience as much as possible it freed me and that has a positive effect on the girl.

I've been with a girl who could cum just from having her boobs rubbed and several girls who I could get off with just a few thrusts, all the way to girls who never seem to cum at all.

To the OP's question though, in my personal experience it's less than 20% of girls who can't cum from vaginal sex and less than 10% who can't cum at all.

[Latan]

(05-04-2016 04:05 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

For me its really boring if shes doesn't go off like a frog in a sock during sex.

Don't you feel like a rapist? Wouldn't a wank be easier?

I meant they don't come, but still enjoy the ride.

[Pride male]

Not my problem.

[WarMachine]

Psychological.

[heavy]

Funny video, but the very end has a hilarious joke on the subject.

And I have no idea. I'd say it takes getting to know a chic well to know for sure if and when they orgasm, and even then I'm not sure.

There's also a gradient of orgasm. As a man, I can have a mild to mind blowing orgasm. My observation of women is that there have an even wider range. There's something indescribable about a woman having a full blown full body orgasm.

[LeoneVolpe]

I think a woman's inability to cum would be a definite deterrent to my wanting to get involved with her. Whether it's a physical or psychological problem causing it, it's not my problem to solve. The way I look at it, a satisfied customer comes back for more so I'd much rather have sex with a woman who is capable of having orgasms. Plus, I think it would be quite disappointing to give it your all in the sack, utilizing all the techniques you'd learned and have been successful at using on women over the years, only to look up and find she hadn't got much out of it.

I suspect sex toys are a big culprit behind why some women can't cum. They become dependent on a certain kind of stimulation that can only be provided by a device rather than a penis.

[bootyhuntah]

I had a girlfriend for a while (about 7 months) about 8 years ago who couldn't come, period. She claimed to never have an orgasm up until that point and I tried literally verything (toys, oral, all positions, etc). There was no hope for her. She came from an utlra strict Irish Catholic family that treated premarital sex as the devil. She lived with her parents at the time we were dating. Every time she overnighted at my place, the next day upon arrival back home her mother would comment on how much of a dirty slut she was for staying over.

After learning about this motherly abuse not until like 5.5 months into the relationship, I started feeling guilty for even having sex with her. I'm pretty sure her issues were with her mother and they were 100% psychological. My previous gf had multiple orgasms that intensified with each one to the point of paralysis. She was lucky I suppose...

[Easy_Mode]

No idea.... Most I don't really give a shit if they do or not. AFAIK, all my LTRs have been able to cum. But, yea if she can't orgasm why would she even want to have sex other than to please you and possibly the intimate connection? That will get old for her real quick. And she wouldn't be able to make you feel like the stud you are. Pass.

[Leonard Bernstein]

Practically 100% of women won't cum during an ONS. It's just not in their DNA, they need familiarity. If you think she did, she probably faked it.

Just get a few sluts talking, you'll see what I mean. The girls who slut it up do so mostly for validation, not for sexual pleasure. Most will give blowjobs on practically every ONS. Ask yourself, would you give cunnilingus to every one-nighter? Hell-no. The motivations of players and sluts are not really the same. It's also why the hotter the girl, the less likely she is to be a slut, she gets her validation through other forms of attention. Not to mention that women inherently desire love with alpha males over casual sex, the hottest girls can get it so they follow their prime directive, with no need or desire to be a slut.

[WalterBlack]

(05-04-2016 06:38 PM)Burt Gummer Wrote:  

Anybody have experience with a porn addict girl?Did she have trouble coming?

I have a FWB who watches porn almost daily and has a lot of toys. She has no problem cumming around me because in her words she's "always horny". She also love to kiss and prefer real dicks over fake ones.

I used to date somebody who told me she hadn't cum for years before meeting me - she thought she couldn't cum with me either, but after a few weeks she started cumming regularly - she just felt uptight and I told her to relax and enjoy the experience.

[Kid Twist]

(05-14-2016 05:00 PM)Leonard Bernstein Wrote:  

Practically 100% of women won't cum during an ONS. It's just not in their DNA, they need familiarity. If you think she did, she probably faked it.

Just get a few sluts talking, you'll see what I mean. The girls who slut it up do so mostly for validation, not for sexual pleasure. Most will give blowjobs on practically every ONS. Ask yourself, would you give cunnilingus to every one-nighter? Hell-no. The motivations of players and sluts are not really the same. It's also why the hotter the girl, the less likely she is to be a slut, she gets her validation through other forms of attention. Not to mention that women inherently desire love with alpha males over casual sex, the hottest girls can get it so they follow their prime directive, with no need or desire to be a slut.

I keep getting messages and claims from a youngie about meeting up [when she gets back from school] , even with desire for video chats

Is the best policy radio silence until she finally messages and offers the meet?

[Hannibal]

More people are older nowadays, more women are older, older people have more sexual dysfunction and older women can't cum.

More people are getting older, therefore, more women are getting older as a subset of the population.

Being fat causes all kinds of problems too, in fact it can cause sexual dysfunction in men and women.

More people are getting fatter, therefore, more women are getting fatter as a subset of the population.

Being doped up on antidepressants can also cause sexual dysfunction.

More people are getting diagnosed for mental illnesses, more people are on antidepressants, therefore more women are on antidepressants and this can cause sexual dysfunction.

The population of old, fat, crazy bitches is growing (heh), so a larger percentage of women experiences sexual dysfunction and can't cum.

Add on top of this shit sandwich the number of guys who are unwilling to wife up these losers (and the ones that are willing to are losers) and it's no wonder that so many women can't cum.

Again, women we wouldn't want to fuck anyways.

[Orson]

(05-04-2016 11:20 AM)eradicator Wrote:  

Get them warmed up by fingering them and then finish strong by giving them a good hard fuck.

We have a thread, at least one, that explains how to make a girl squirt. Do a search for it.

Basically women have 2 sorts of orgasms and 2 g spots; clitoral and vaginal. Find the g spot on her clitoris and work on it. You can find the gspot on her vagina by fingering her with your middle finger with your palm up, find the spongy area with the tip of your middle finger, work on this area with your finger and then also when you have your dick in her. Don't just listen to what she is saying vocally, listen to her body and what it is reacting to. When you find something that works, that she really responds to, keep doing that.

I believe you're referring to this thread.

In addition, at a website called literotica, there is a forum for discussing techniques and "how to do" things.

In it, there is an epic thread entitled "try this and report back" started by "MrG," and later "MrGGG."

It is a thread of epic length (over 150 pages) running 8 or 10 (or 12) years (it was started in the previous decade).

The OP starts out describing what to do and look out for in your woman's reactions. And then couples and or partners or women themselves share their super-erotic experiences.... They are instructive and sometimes porn worthy responses.

There's a lot to learn there and it works - to great effect! Check it out - it's golden!

[blck]

(04-11-2017 03:35 AM)Orson Wrote:  

(05-04-2016 11:20 AM)eradicator Wrote:  

Get them warmed up by fingering them and then finish strong by giving them a good hard fuck.

We have a thread, at least one, that explains how to make a girl squirt. Do a search for it.

Basically women have 2 sorts of orgasms and 2 g spots; clitoral and vaginal. Find the g spot on her clitoris and work on it. You can find the gspot on her vagina by fingering her with your middle finger with your palm up, find the spongy area with the tip of your middle finger, work on this area with your finger and then also when you have your dick in her. Don't just listen to what she is saying vocally, listen to her body and what it is reacting to. When you find something that works, that she really responds to, keep doing that.

I believe you're referring to this thread.

In addition, at a website called literotica, there is a forum for discussing techniques and "how to do" things.

In it, there is an epic thread entitled "try this and report back" started by "MrG," and later "MrGGG."

It is a thread of epic length (over 150 pages) running 8 or 10 (or 12) years (it was started in the previous decade).

The OP starts out describing what to do and look out for in your woman's reactions. And then couples and or partners or women themselves share their super-erotic experiences.... They are instructive and sometimes porn worthy responses.

There's a lot to learn there and it works - to great effect! Check it out - it's golden!

Going to quote directly the poster for useful infos:

Mr G Wrote:

""Did you just happen to do this and it worked, or did you read about it first? ""

I was in a long term relationship (21 yrs) which had plenty of ups and downs. During one such period we spilt up for about 8 months while she "found herself." During this period I bumped into a FB who was just leaving a relationship that was going nowhere. She was in her early 40's and horny as a pole cat. We had discussed many issues and one of them was Gspots. She said she didn't think she had one. I said I'd read a lot about it and she might be pleasantly surprised (hint hint hint)

The relationship I was in or had been in was with somebody who didn't like much experimentation and liked even less fingers pokin around in her vagina. Bad experiences in her past is how she explained it. So I never did although I had an idea that this technique probably would work.

Anyway FB and I got together a few times over the 8 months I was away from the "wife" and on the very first weekend away with her we were getting INtense. I had tied her, spread eagled, face down over a bunch of pillows and we were experimenting with straps and paddles to see how much she got off on the pain/rush of a good spanking. She "got-off" fine BTW and could CUM HARD after a few good smacks got her hot and dribbly. During a break in the activities I removed her gag and hunkered down between her spread apart thighs, smacked her ass a few more times and then on a whim and a hunch, stuck my thumb into that hallowed hole and pressed down and rubbed. The strapping had made her cum a number of times and what I felt inside her vagina on the anterior wall was what felt like a soggy walnut. I started to poke at that hard (my reading/research to date led me to believe this was a birth induced area and would be stimulated much harder than you'd ever want to try with a clit) and the next thing I knew she's going insane. She was leaping and lunging and I had to stop and shove the gag (panties) back in her mouth or somebody woulda called the cops! Her cunt muscles were clenching hard enough to push at my thumb and her back took on a sheen that was brighter (wetter) than when I was paddling her bum! I kept this up for perhaps 30 minutes in all and she came a dozen times - all huge body wracking, moaning, groaning gasping and heaving type orgasms. It was pretty cool. At one point she turned around (as best she could) and looked back at me with this look of wild excitement/terror in her eyes. She told me later that she thought I had some DEVICE that was making her cum like that. She couldn't even feel my thumb and I was poking her hard enough to make her grunt if it had been poking her in the tummy. After about 12 ENORMOUS orgasms I stopped to let her catch her breath. I untied her and when she went to go to the can she collapsed on the floor. I caught her before she hit the floor and I brought her a drink of water and a cold wash cloth for her forehead and held her like that until she could stumble to the bathroom.

When she came back to the bedroom I made out like I did this ALL THE TIME and "So...how'd ya like THAT. Want some more? Assume the position!" SMACK. Yup lotsa fun. Much research was carried out that summer. We tried different angles and she reported different feels to different angles. Interesting. Anal sex was always with angles that left Augustus prodding her ASpot and the results there were fun but not as wild as what I could do with my thumbs.

At the end of 8 months my FB had things to do and places to go and my long time love had decided that I was the guy she wanted to be with. We got together in the Fall and at a remote cottage north of Toronto I introduced her to the GSPOT TECHNIQUE. The reaction was mind-blowing. Awesome. Incredible and ya know, she had the sense not to ask. I never told her about FB but my "discovery" was certainly one of the things that brought us closer together. We stayed like that for a year and a half.

Quote:

All the women I've tried this on had their GSpots a perfect fit for how far I could reach in with my thumb. Let's keep in mind tho that everybody is a little different. Some are a LOT different. I'm sure some women who have very slack muscle tone are having trouble reaching GSpot O's because it does seem to take a lot of muscle contraction prior to each orgasm. Anyway, for me, the location, once I'd found it the first time, couldn't have been easier from then on. Insert thumb, press down (this is with her face down, bum up and over a few pillows) towards her belly button, rub, rub harder, keep going about 2 to 3 minutes (the first time) and hold on for the fire works, wait 30 seconds or so and repeat, then repeat again, and again....Combine it with a good tongue lashing, roll her over and have her sit on your cock and have her "feel" her way (direction and depth) so that each stroke bumps the end of your dick into that spot you were jabbing with your thumb and watch her face as she realizes she can ride like that and cum over and over again, have her turn around and find that same spot again at a differnet angle, watch her bum clench as she cums over and over, shove a couple of fingers up her bum so she can GRAB something with her muscles when she cums, spank her - hard - and make her cum over and over until she passes out. Literally.

This is beyond FUN, guys.

It is an interesting reaction that women have when you start doing that for the first time. The amazing thing is that MOST women don't have any clue they are capable of such sexual energy and repetitive orgasms! I know they all thought I had some kind of electronic probe or something. The first giant orgasm and I showed them.."See...nothing. Just my thumb..." The look of amazement was even better the second and third time. By 5 and 6 they were gasping for breath, writhing to get away and begging for a break. No mercy.
I'd lie over the small of their backs and hold them down and "force" another 3 or 4 on them before giving them a break. As stated in an earlier post our record was 42 in one session (1pm to about midnight) and any of you who have cum the 9 or 10 times the first time with your SO finding your GSpot, you KNOW he could keep going and going and going and you wouldn't be able to stop cuming, right?. So let's hear back from some of you marathoners. How many were you capable of withstanding in an hour? A day? What did you feel like the next day? Did any of you pass out from the intensity?

This thread need to be merged with this one Study on the type of men that make women orgasm for sync of infos