If you're a student I assume you're in your early to mid twenties, so look on the bright side - you have plenty of time to make some changes and your whole life to reap the rewards!
Some guys will be well into their thirties and forties before they start to figure this stuff out. Most guys never will.
Any aspect of your life that needs improving the advice is right here, you just need to put it into practice.
Ok so you don't have a job, money, or your own place, but your peers are probably in similar positions. Those things will come. What are other guys you know that are successful with chicks doing? What can you incorporate into your own game?
Being a low energy guy isn't an excuse. I'm a low energy guy too but I make the most of what I've got. That shit is all in the mind, you can change your perception of yourself just by leading a more interesting life.
Being a student is a great opportunity to make friends and build a social circle that you will have for life if cultivated. Same goes for playing the guitar, chicks dig guys who can play a musical instrument.
Join a band, a club, a meetup group or something. That's a great avenue for meeting women and cool like minded dudes your own age.
Make some female friends - and reap the rewards for years to come as you move in and out of their circles getting introduced to their friends.
Get out and about and enjoy this stage of your life, you've got no real responsibilities and that will be a memory before you know it.
Manoeuvre yourself into social situations where you are hanging out with people you like, doing shit you enjoy and whereby meeting women is a by product. If you are having fun and feel comfortable you will come across better when you open chicks. It took me until I was about 30 to realise that I didn't actually enjoy nightclubs, now I don't go but I wasted a lot of time doing shit like that because I thought it was what you did.
Try not to get too hung up on relentlessly approaching and spitting game, you are free to take a step back and reassess or chill for a bit. You can throw yourself back into it when you've regrouped and feel more positive.
You should definitely seek out forum members in your area who are willing to help, that's an opportunity that lots of people won't have.
You are working out which is great but be honest with yourself - in your 3 years here what other improvements have you made?
Why not set aside some time each day to start implementing new habits. Get up at the same time each morning and meditate and do affirmations - low effort, no cost stuff that can strengthen you mentally and change your outlook.
It's time for you to get serious. I hope I don't come across as an asshole, I just think you need a bit of help getting motivated.
Some guys will be well into their thirties and forties before they start to figure this stuff out. Most guys never will.
Any aspect of your life that needs improving the advice is right here, you just need to put it into practice.
Ok so you don't have a job, money, or your own place, but your peers are probably in similar positions. Those things will come. What are other guys you know that are successful with chicks doing? What can you incorporate into your own game?
Being a low energy guy isn't an excuse. I'm a low energy guy too but I make the most of what I've got. That shit is all in the mind, you can change your perception of yourself just by leading a more interesting life.
Being a student is a great opportunity to make friends and build a social circle that you will have for life if cultivated. Same goes for playing the guitar, chicks dig guys who can play a musical instrument.
Join a band, a club, a meetup group or something. That's a great avenue for meeting women and cool like minded dudes your own age.
Make some female friends - and reap the rewards for years to come as you move in and out of their circles getting introduced to their friends.
Get out and about and enjoy this stage of your life, you've got no real responsibilities and that will be a memory before you know it.
Manoeuvre yourself into social situations where you are hanging out with people you like, doing shit you enjoy and whereby meeting women is a by product. If you are having fun and feel comfortable you will come across better when you open chicks. It took me until I was about 30 to realise that I didn't actually enjoy nightclubs, now I don't go but I wasted a lot of time doing shit like that because I thought it was what you did.
Try not to get too hung up on relentlessly approaching and spitting game, you are free to take a step back and reassess or chill for a bit. You can throw yourself back into it when you've regrouped and feel more positive.
You should definitely seek out forum members in your area who are willing to help, that's an opportunity that lots of people won't have.
You are working out which is great but be honest with yourself - in your 3 years here what other improvements have you made?
Why not set aside some time each day to start implementing new habits. Get up at the same time each morning and meditate and do affirmations - low effort, no cost stuff that can strengthen you mentally and change your outlook.
It's time for you to get serious. I hope I don't come across as an asshole, I just think you need a bit of help getting motivated.