[monParis]

Guys , If there is one thing you should never do is giving up game while you are in a LTR , so I met this girl 5 Month ago , we lived togheter for 3 Month , I know she loves me and I really love her too , I have nothing to say about her , she was good with me , and since we live togheter I gave up game and that was the biggest mistake , I lied to her once and since she always play detective with me to find other lies and when I say different things , I got too many shit tests and I failed many , now she is doing whathever she wants I'm bad without her , I need to moove on and it's really hard because it was my first LTR , before I was alpha always dates always banges following the forum threads and advices .
Just keep gaming all the time guys
Sorry for the bad english I'm from France .

[realologist]

First step:
Delete all your contact information for this girl. Phone number, email, Facebook, etc.

Second step:
Go out find a new girl and bang her.

Third step:
Do it again with another chick.

Fourth step:
Keep gaming and banging

Keys to the steps:
NO CONTACT WITH YOUR EX

[monParis]

That bitch killed my mental and she made me feel like I can't find better than her , she was a 9 and I gamed her so well to be with her , now I want to take a revenge

[realologist]

They all look like 9's when the recent end of a loving relationship. It's happened to every guy here. What you have to do is move on.

If your mind and judgement are cloudy get in the gym or do some physical activity. That will clear it instantly. Than you can use what game you have to find another girl.

I suggest you look deep inside yourself and work on inner game as well. That way something like this doesn't shake you again.

[Rhyme or Reason]

(04-10-2016 07:38 AM)monParis Wrote:  

That bitch killed my mental and she made me feel like I can't find better than her , she was a 9 and I gamed her so well to be with her , now I want to take a revenge

Player's don't seek revenge.

Go no contact.

Are you familiar with the saying "fake it till you make it"?

It applies to hurt feelings as well. Go out and put on your game face. Go through the motions even if you're dying inside.

If you start doing the right things, even if for the wrong reasons, eventually you will be doing them for the right reasons.

And you let her move in after 2 months, eh?

[HankMoody]

It happens to all of us. The first girl I "fell in love with" is what lead me to this forum in the first place.

If you commit to it, eventually game just becomes a natural part of your personality. It won't feel like you're "gaming" her, it's just who you are. A few things to consider -

1. You are young. There are plenty of other women out there who you'll meet.
2. You get higher quality women as you age. When you're in your 30s, you can still date women in their 20s. There's no hurry for you to get married and lock one down.
3. There is no such thing as "The One". Rather, there are a lot of women who you would be perfectly compatible with.
4. You're not ready to take on an LTR until your game is strong. Maintaining LTRs requires more game than pickup.
5. The best revenge is living well.

Just appreciate this as a learning experience and an opportunity to grow. The next one will be better, and you'll be able to manage it better.

[Pride male]

Falling in love isn't beta.

[General Stalin]

No amount of advice is going to make you get over this girl - that's up to you. All we can tell you is find other pussy. Hooking up with new women is the most tried and true remedy for getting over a girl. Read this thread:

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[Taco Illusionist]

1) Spend time on self-improvement and indulge in your work and hobbies
2) Spend time hanging with close friends and go out with them; use these people to expand your social circle thus creating more chances to meet new women
3) Use this experience as a learning curve, at lease you didn't marry her/knock her up, and at lease you didn't lose years of your life with this chick
4) Remove this chick from your life all together; no texts, calls, social media interaction whatsoever. It will do you no good at all.
5) Remember this situation you're in is not forever, it is only temporary

[PapayaTapper]

"Nothing gets you over the last one like the next one"..Unknown

[monParis]

Today was officialy broke up with my girlfriend , I treated her so bad recently and she doesn't feel well concerning me because of that , what I did was not taking her out , neglecting her , she had money problems and I didn't help her , instead of that I went to buy clothes , I lied to her many times , I made a fight beetwen her and her best friend , I feel bad because I didn't want that to happen , I love her so much , I gave up game for her , cause I wanted to have a LTR that will finish with marriage kids ...
I don't think I will find a girl like her because she is really unique , i never felt as good in my life before , her ex boyfriend was texting her many times but she ignored him because she really loved me , I think he will text her again but I don't know if she is going to accept to meet him , this asshole is so rich and was treating her good too , but I didn't , what do you think guys should I do ?

[Rhyme or Reason]

Did you really need to start another thread?

Edit: You have the entirely wrong attitude here. You're acting like you lost out on something special, some once in a lifetime "opportunity" to be with "the one"


Fuck that.


You guys broke up. You were not right for each other. Per your other thread, she turned you into a beta. It happens. Best way forward as said below is bang multiple women. Just going out and approaching will help you get into the right headspace. Get goin'!

[monParis]

(04-11-2016 05:13 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  

Did you really need to start another thread?

I will delete the other thread , I tried but I couldn't , this one talks best about the situation now

[h3ltrsk3ltr]

All you have to do is:

Work out, do 300 approaches (there's info on the forum for that), develop your masculinity, read a few books recommend by guys here (meditations by marcus Aurelius, bang and gorilla mindset are good ones), expand your social game, become financially, emotionally and sexually anti-fragile and...

That's it! She'll come back to you!


(PS, whatever you do, DON'T get laid, develop self-respect, become more well-rounded, make life-long friends, a lot of money, travel to new and exciting places, become blissfully happy with a hotter, younger and more interesting woman, earn any rep points, get a ripped physique or generally become a happier, healthier man.)

[TravelerKai]

Needs to be moved to the Newbie subforum. Read some Jariel threads then come back and ask questions. You need a basic education on Game in general.

Start here and search on all his threads for much more.
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[Andre]

Be glad you didn´t help her out with her financial shit, that´s her problem, not yours. Move on and enjoy life.

[PapayaTapper]

(04-11-2016 12:04 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

"Nothing gets you over the last one like the next one"..Unknown

Go fuck another girl and this girl will come back to you. If she doesn't just keep fucking new ones until she does...I promise you this will work

[AlphaPrimate22]

Like the other's have said, establish ZERO CONTACT WITH HER. It is the quickest way to get over her. I remember after a two year relationship I was depressed for six months. I mean my friend literally drove to my house and got me out the house to hit the gym one day. After that experience, I joined the track team to pass time and stop thinkin about her. I kept myself busy and forced myself to talk to other women. I told myself positive things like "I learned from this and am a better, less beta person."

Eventually, you will move on man. And above all, value yourself more than any woman.

[Leonard D Neubache]

Bullet points.

* Do not lie to a woman. Lying is admitting you're afraid of her.
* If she pushes an issue she'd rather you tell her to shut the fuck up than hear you lie or apologise.
* If you don't want to lie or apologise or tell her to shut the fuck up then act honourably.
* If your LTR cannot survive you acting as a man then it's not worth it.
* Falling in love is called falling for a reason.
* Falling in love is not OK.
* Being in love is OK if you are 100% fucking certain you have dominance in the relationship.
* Do not engage in an LTR unless you plan on marrying.
* An LTR without marriage as the end goal is like taking off in an airplane without enough fuel to reach your destination.

[monParis]

Thank's guys ! I appreciate it so much , It's my real first LTR and first time I really love someone , it's really hard for me now but it makes me better when I read your replies , hit me on PM if you also can tell me something that can help me .
That was a nice experience I'm learning a lot even it's so hard

[Leonard D Neubache]

The first one is always a shot to the guts.

The silver lining on that cloud is that you'll be more cautious in future.

[Valentine]

Several bad breakups made me the man I am today.

You'll think the same way of this breakup too. It's a blessing in disguise, you're free again now to own the next girl's mind even more with a higher level of Game from all the pickup you'll soon be doing.