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[Gustavus Adolphus]

(04-08-2016 04:59 PM)Tex Wrote:  

If your girl has a Tinder your girl is single.

This is perfectly said.

A couple years ago I had this really nice 24yo that I was seeing pretty regularly. I actually liked her, but didn't get too involved other than telling her I wasn't cool with her fucking other dudes.

She ended up relocating to another city a couple hours away, insisting nothing would change. I knew it was over the day she left. I started spending more time with other girls, but she was cool to come stay for the weekend if she wanted.

The second time she came back to town, I guess she forgot to go invisible/ turn off location, 2 of my friends send me the Tinder profile she had made.

As she was already demoted because of logistics, this just put the final coat of paint on no-fucks-given attitude with this girl. We'd still hookup if she came to town, but with no long term viability, it was just for fun if I wasn't busy. The only disappointment for me was that it made me no longer want to stick my tongue anywhere near her pussy. I just wrapped it up and fucked her but the sex was never the same for me. I like to reward loyalty when applicable, but that ship sailed.

A couple months later she's back in town for the D, one of the guys that sent me the profile is hanging out at the same party and calls her out for being a Tinderella and acting like she cares about me in front of everyone.

She went from 0-hamster overdrive in less than 2 seconds. Her "reasoning"? She said she was in a new town and just wanted to meet new friends. Goes on to list all these different interests of hers, like it mattered. Just the same, she was young and attractive. She didn't need Tinder to meet new people, they already say hello everywhere she goes. This is just the way it is, and I'm cool with that. I don't want to fuck a girl that doesn't get hit on constantly. But I do require her to swat them away like flies if she wants my attention and/or resources. Even though all her friends are on it and it's a good way to attention whore or whatever, the notion that she is going out of her way to put herself in the hookup market still makes me shake my head. It was good for me, as all game lessons tend to be these days.

Anyway, I just sat back and laughed my ass off the whole time, watching everyone's true nature on display.

After everyone had piled on their opinions, I finished my drink and slapped her ass and said lets go. On the way back to my place, she kept talking about it, explaining. I think it pissed her off the most when I told her "I don't care what you do".

We banged off and on for a while, eventually cut her loose for good when the new rotation was up and running.

[Sublime0112]

What I've done is just not said anything to her about it and after that warning sign I've been going on with trying to get other plates spinning. I've let it become really one sided where she has to ask to hang out and I never call or text her first or anything, etc. Basically I'm just letting her hang around for as long as she wants, but when I get a few other solid options I'm going to drop her out of the rotation. Girls who are on these sites are pretty fucked in the head from what I've experienced over the last 6 months or so, definitely won't even consider LTRing a girl that I don't meet in person from now on.