Quote: (03-30-2016 10:07 PM)johnbozzz Wrote:
I've never hosteled before. How do I know if the girls there are normal or complete nutssos that will freak out after sex/call rape?
Quote: (03-30-2016 10:40 PM)johnbozzz Wrote:
Yeah, but how do you know these girls are not just bat shit crazy?
In my experience, hostel chicks tend to be less into regret-rape. If that issue bothers you so much, stay at a hotel or Air BnB. You can still head to the hostel bar and game away.
Quote: (03-30-2016 10:07 PM)johnbozzz Wrote:
What kinds of girls stay in hostels?
Young, generally 18-25 year olds that are either travelling long-term and for whom hostels are the more economical option or simply can't (yet) afford hotels full-stop. They tend to want to meet other people also on the road (read: travelling cock) than those who stay at hotels/Air-BnB. Thus they're a bit more DTF than they would be elsewhere, but don't take that as a given.
Anyway to answer your question -- hostel bars and common rooms. They have the lowest bitch shields I've ever seen. These environments are specifically set up for you to get to know complete randoms, and simply practise banter and ramble. Everyone there has sat through the "traveller's opener" -- "Where are you from? Where are you going to?" -- so be a bit different.
What I've done is build a little comfort during the late afternoon. Make sure to keep the interaction brief.
Make sure you arrange to keep in touch meanwhile so she doesn't disappear. Then play tourist by suggesting to explore the local nightlife scene later on. Then escalate from there.
Lots of hostels organise pub crawls so they may want to join that, the issue is having to isolate her from the rest of the crowd, especially if she's attached herself to the girls there, or a horde of thirsty dudes.
I've thought that pairs and groups were much harder like elsewhere, but that isn't necessary the case. It might help if you befriend a group of people, especially if they're all travelling alone, then go out together. It helps to befriend another solo dude there if you want to approach pairs.