Marriage/LTR etc. thoughts after overdosing on red pills.
03-30-2016, 06:59 PM
I think the Black Knight hit it pretty dang close with his response. I disagree that things will change any time soon though, and it's not the women that really are the problem. The problem are the beta men, the ones that will do anything to keep an attractive woman around. That is problem #1, followed by the shitty laws that are not going to be changed any time soon!
Think about it, if you stand up red pill strong long enough, your woman will either fall in line, or else another blue pill ass kisser will come along and take your place. If you have any assets, then she's taking more than her share of that when she goes. Most of the good looking ones, which are the only ones I want anyway, will not put up with a red pill ass hole long, because there are too many betas with money to take your place. Women are more interested in security than looks, and there are more blue pill rich guys than you could ever count.
The answer is for men to stand up and realize that marriage is a death sentence and never commit the act, or convert every single man to red pill. I don't think you can ever convert all the betas, so that leaves the minority red pill bunch to understand you never marry, ever! We need to change the culture to one where men want to stay single as badly as over 30 women want to get married and reproduce.
I meet lot's of attractive women over 30, and they are often interested and eager to please until I tell them I will never marry them, then they either start trying to get pregnant, or they move along. They won't fuck you eagerly forever in most cases, because time is working against them and they know they won't have the one thing you want forever. Without good looks and sex appeal, their value will continue to dwindle until they are desperate, and not many will wait until that happens. They will move on, no matter how much they crave your rod!
So, in order to stay single and have an active sex life, us men have no choice but to spin plates and plow through women, because the attractive ones that pass 30 won't allow you to spin them very long in most cases. They will find a beta man to impregnate them and give them a great life and have that man kiss their pretty asses, that won't stay pretty very long. And once they get bored with you, which they always do, even the good girls, they will make your life a living hell and probably find them a new man as well if they can.
If you play the red pill game and toughen up, there are 1,000 more blue piller's ready to step in and give a good looking woman anything she wants in hopes of scoring her. It's not until after the honeymoon that she will show her true colors and that is when most of of the millions of eager betas will become red pill, if even then!!! When it's too late and the woman is either divorcing them or making their life so miserable that they divorce her, only she leaves with all of their (your) money and toys, and maybe even half or more of their (your) business if they (you) are self employed and doing well.
Society, our culture and the laws are on the women's side, and the millions and millions of beta men in the West will allow the trend to continue for longer than any of us will live. The only thing that will change this is when there is a catastrophic change where women are truly reliant on men to survive again with no law to ensure you have to support them. When it becomes survival of the fittest, that is when women will bow down again and drop to their knees any time you say and make absolute certain that you are never unhappy with them.
Think about it, even in the bible, men had concubines! Why is that? Because even then, after giving birth to their children, their million dollar snatches dried up and they stopped having sex with the men. Back then though, the men just added another plate to his harem and moved on. The culture and the laws were more favorable to men in those days, so men could replace or add another woman readily and easily for any reason. So yea, this shit has been going on since the beginning of time, but now women have more rights than we do as men, so they have turned the tables on us and they have both society, culture and the law in their favor.
It's not changing any time soon men! Face the facts... we have to find a way to change the laws so that if a woman chooses to leave a marriage without reasonable cause, she leaves with what she brought to the table or with what she actually helped earn. Until then, women have the upper hand and we will always lose if we make the marriage mistake.
Women want a man to reproduce and to support them, but at the same time, they want to be liberated and our culture and laws are set up to give them just that....their cake and they can eat it as well. They don't want to cook, clean, change diapers, etc. Many don't even want to work in any way. And if they choose to be like this, what can you do other than leave them and give up most of what you earned in your life.
Women just want to be lazy, have fun, have babies and have men kiss their ass. Most don't want sex much either about 4 or 5 years after they have their last kid. Sex won't even be mid way up their importance list, so you not only won't be fed and your home won't be clean, you won't get much sex either! Of course unless you do the earning, cooking, cleaning and can go without sex. If you can do that and be happy, then get married my friend, because that's what you have waiting for you down the road.
Yes, we men have to get organized and start a men's movement and get things changed. Otherwise, we have to refuse to ever marry a woman, plain and simple. If I sound bitter, well, it's because I am bitter. I'm bitter my father never warned me, because I didn't know any better and I married a beautiful woman that was great for 15 years. After that, my life has been a shell of itself and I am mad, bitter, pissed off, horny, broke, and many more adjectives that you don't care to hear. And I got this way for simply loving a woman and working my ass off to provide for her and the kids. I got screwed, but not in the way you would want to be screwed!