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Requesting Game Analysis
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Requesting Game Analysis

Background story: Met up with a girl I know from one of my close friends, coincidentally saw her on Tinder. Went to her place the first time and just felt her out did not make a move. Second time I see her we have a few beers at her place and chill for 2 hours before I make a move. She was sorting through her drawer and I just grabbed what was in her hand and told her she needs to relax and went for the kiss. She was receptive at first then said "slow down" so I just kept touching her while trying to reengage. She then pulls away saying "you're my best friend's friend" and stuff like that. Afterwards she just wanted to cuddle and told me she has to take time to get to know someone and kept stressing things like that it would be awkward if anything happened between us, etc. I tried to kiss her again 2 or 3 times but was blocked so after the last try i got up and said "i'm gonna go." On the way out she asks me to take out her recycling to which i replied "you insulted me enough for one night can't do you any favors." She then said "now i know what kind of man you are." There wasn't any hard feelings though or anything. We went outside smoked a cigarette then I left. I couldn't really tell if she was interested or not. At times it seemed so at others it seemed that she's just kind of used to hanging out with guys. What do you guys think is going on with this girl? Anything i could have done better from a game perspective?
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Requesting Game Analysis

Quote: (03-22-2016 02:14 AM)Wala Wrote:  

Background story: Met up with a girl I know from one of my close friends, coincidentally saw her on Tinder. Went to her place the first time and just felt her out did not make a move. Second time I see her we have a few beers at her place and chill for 2 hours before I make a move. She was sorting through her drawer and I just grabbed what was in her hand and told her she needs to relax and went for the kiss. She was receptive at first then said "slow down" so I just kept touching her while trying to reengage. She then pulls away saying "you're my best friend's friend" and stuff like that. Afterwards she just wanted to cuddle and told me she has to take time to get to know someone and kept stressing things like that it would be awkward if anything happened between us, etc. I tried to kiss her again 2 or 3 times but was blocked so after the last try i got up and said "i'm gonna go." On the way out she asks me to take out her recycling to which i replied "you insulted me enough for one night can't do you any favors." She then said "now i know what kind of man you are." There wasn't any hard feelings though or anything. We went outside smoked a cigarette then I left. I couldn't really tell if she was interested or not. At times it seemed so at others it seemed that she's just kind of used to hanging out with guys. What do you guys think is going on with this girl? Anything i could have done better from a game perspective?

Compliment and cuddle?

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Quote: (03-22-2016 02:14 AM)Wala Wrote:  

Background story: Met up with a girl I know from one of my close friends, coincidentally saw her on Tinder. Went to her place the first time and just felt her out did not make a move. Second time I see her we have a few beers at her place and chill for 2 hours before I make a move. She was sorting through her drawer and I just grabbed what was in her hand and told her she needs to relax and went for the kiss. She was receptive at first then said "slow down" so I just kept touching her while trying to reengage. She then pulls away saying "you're my best friend's friend" and stuff like that. Afterwards she just wanted to cuddle and told me she has to take time to get to know someone and kept stressing things like that it would be awkward if anything happened between us, etc. I tried to kiss her again 2 or 3 times but was blocked so after the last try i got up and said "i'm gonna go." On the way out she asks me to take out her recycling to which i replied "you insulted me enough for one night can't do you any favors." She then said "now i know what kind of man you are." There wasn't any hard feelings though or anything. We went outside smoked a cigarette then I left. I couldn't really tell if she was interested or not. At times it seemed so at others it seemed that she's just kind of used to hanging out with guys. What do you guys think is going on with this girl? Anything i could have done better from a game perspective?

Not to be harsh but you did so much wrong pretty much start to finish there's no use critiquing you.

The good news for you is you're here on RVF and have pretty much everything you will want and need to learn at your fingertips.

My one and only suggestion is READ. Buy a copy of BANG to start and read as many of the threads on Game, escalation, comfort rapport, KINO etc.

It's all here. Welcome aboard!

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