[BambiNotForLong]

I went out last night for leaving drinks for a female colleague. I go with 2 other male colleagues and we meet the girl and her friend at a pub. We all hit it off, get pretty wasted and go to a club.

My male colleagues don't dance so it's me with the 2 girls for the majority of the night. I'm dancing with them on and off for 2 hours at least and then I started getting into it and dancing with the female colleagues friend solid 710. We are syncing up, she's making dead eye contact, smiling and then we start getting closer. She has her arms wrapped around me and mine around hee then we are literally 1 inch away from each others face. I go for the kiss then she deflects it. She says she has a boyfriend. I say ite whatever and continue to dsncd. Like 2 minutes later the girls are dancing closely and then they full on French kiss eachother.

I'm thinking wtf these girls are crazy. I stay for about another hour until I'm at the bar getting a drink and see them both grinding with other guys. I just dipped out without saying anything since I was a little pissed for spending like 6-7 hours of my time and I was feeling tired.

Question is, where did this go wrong? Pretty much the weirdest game situation I've ever been in. Pretty funny as well if you think about it.

[Mercenary]

You gave up after she gave you 1 cheek turn.

I have to have at least minimum of 4 rejected kiss attempts before I move onto another girl.

Also, even if she gave you 4 separate rejections you should have hit on other girls in front of her to show her how much you don't care and can get a replacement immediately...instead you sat there drinking, watching them, and then just left.

[Gmac]

You went to a club.

If I could go back in time I'd have used that time more wisely. Who wants to hang out in a club for hours only to go home with your dick in your hand? Odds are low you pull unless you've mastered the basics.

[RatInTheWoods]

You got used for attention, validation and entertainment.

She went home and banged her Alpha boyfriend who spent the night watching footy on telly.

[XPQ22]

Hamming it up in a mixed-sex group of the dweebs you work with and their buddies ain't the way to get laid through night game, homie. You'd probably have better luck going out solo.

(03-19-2016 08:51 AM)Gmac Wrote:  

You went to a club.

If I could go back in time I'd have used that time more wisely. Who wants to hang out in a club for hours only to go home with your dick in your hand? Odds are low you pull unless you've mastered the basics.

A lesson I rapidly learned on getting back into night game over the winter. 15 years ago, before cell phones and social media, it used to be possible to swoop at nightclubs without too much difficulty.

Nowadays they're just places girls go to get wasted, dance, validate, text, swipe on Tinder, earn Facebook "likes", and go home and fuck someone else. A neighborhood dive bar would honestly be a better venue in just about all respects.

And yet for some reason men seem to keep showing up at such places. What if they gave a nightclub, and no men came?

Perhaps some men are catching on. I was in Providence a while back for the first time in years, and noticed several of the regular clubs I frequented years ago are gone, flipped into gay bars/clubs. In a mid-sized city it seems that small venues have to be "gay friendly" at the very least to make payroll. I found a flyer sitting on my car for the grand opening of another gay club after parking on the main street for only 4 hours.

There's only one straight club in Providence that seems to have a large amount of traffic on weekends (Colosseum) and that's likely because it's popular with the black/Hispanic community.

[Delta]

With that level of detail, it's impossible to tell what, if anything, you did wrong. Sounds to me like typical club antics. One piece of advice I can give you, though, is to work on improving your writing skills.

[brob]

I would say too much time spent on one girl. Venture off on your own a bit and talk to others. Let them see that. Don't care about the girl enough to get pissed. It's her job to get pissed at YOU for not giving her the attention she wants.

[XXL]

They just wanted to dance and have fun probably. It's common.

[BambiNotForLong]

Thanks for the responses guys. They did offer me to stay at their place several times in the night but I had to drop my sister off to the airport in the morning so I couldn't. Perhaps I should have gotten their numbers and arranged to go out properly on another occasion since nothing was in my favour that night.

You think it'd be weird if I get her number through my colleague and ask em out again with better logistics and no dweebs from work? I would also bring my best friend who has NEXT LEVel game. And then have us crash at mine to smoke some weed as they said they do.
Or should I just fuck it?

I could envision that turning into a foursome taking turns since the nature of both of em

Obviously I don't get many girls but I badly wanted to fuck one of them so I think giving the above a shot may work.

Also God bless this foum. You all take time out of your lives to help a brother get laid. This truly is an amazing forum.

And yes I'll apologise for my writing skills I'm not the most articulate person so just highlight anything that you don't understand and I'll explain it.