[faz]

I've been getting girls back to my place, girls that I've madeout with and established a sexual/romantic connection with. Usually I'll bring them over at night to watch a movie, or they come over just to hang out after we've had a few drinks at the bar. They know what's up.

I'll sit next to her on my futon and start with light touching on the back while we talk, then we'll makeout. Then I'll pull away, try to build tension, then makeout. At this point I'll take off my shirt and then try to put my hands under her shirt in an attempt to take it off. I've had no success here. Just getting off any article of the girl's clothing seems like the most epic struggle.

I've tried freeze outs, they don't work.

At this point, I'll usually just start taking off my clothes. However, usually the girl will try to stop me. I had one girl physically hold my paints up to my waist so I couldn't remove them.

And this is when she says, "oh, I'm not that type of girl!"

Yeah right...

What am I doing wrong?

I tried handcuffs too. I had one girl in handcuffs lying on my bed while I was making out with her. It made it easier for me to try to remove clothes/touch her boobs or whatever, but eventually she freaked out.

[Gmac]

She should be the one trying to take your clothes off (or at the same time), not the other way around. She's not comfortable / into you enough yet otherwise, or she's inexperienced.

I just agree and continue. LMR is a bitch.

[faz]

(07-08-2011 05:35 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

She should be the one trying to take your clothes off (or at the same time), not the other way around. She's not comfortable / into you enough yet.

So I just bring her back to my place, lay back, and do nothing but wait for her? How does that work exactly?