[DJ-Matt]

A sign that I've been beating off more than have had sex in my lifetime is that I cannot really tell when I'm nutting. I asked her to tap my leg each time and it appears I'm blowing multiple small loads.

Not sure if this is a blessing or a curse because it happens during sex too, but when beating it I blow in one huge load.

[Onto]

I think I've shared this story before, but here it is again. I wasn't able to cum from getting head until I was 27 yrs old and lots of women tried. They all failed, and not because they weren't bad at it. I think it was a psychological thing on my part. Concerned about her, whether she would get tired, frustrated, angry and just stop. I put too much pressure on it all, and probably cared to much about her experience and how she would feel if I didn't cum.

Anyways, I started dating this girl when I was 27 and she was one of the most beautiful women I've ever had. Sex was great but I still couldn't cum from a blowjob and of course she would take offense, and wonder if something was wrong with her.

I told her the truth that I've never met a woman that could make me cum that way and sold it that I was still a "virgin" in that regard and to cum that way would be like completely giving myself to someone. Well that's all that it took to make it her mission. A week later I was blowing my load down her throat. Best orgasm of my life and the whole neighborhood must've heard. Afterwards she liked her lips and said, "Now you're mine"

Her technique was out of this world and much different than her previous attempts. When I asked her about it she said she found a book about giving the perfect blowjob and studied it. I asked to see the book, but she refused. Wouldn't even tell me the title. Since then I've been able to cum from different girls so I think most of it was a psychological block on my part. However, once you've been with the Blowjob Queen, you do hold all other girls to a higher standard.

Wish I knew the title of that book so I could just give it to a girl and say, "Here, read this".

[The Black Knight]

Most girls give really average head without training.

I had one slut last year though that sucked so hard it was borderline painful while also being intensely pleasurable. The tip of my cock would have little red dots all around it for like a day afterwards. I'm not sure exactly what she did (didn't ask); I suppose she just sucked REALLY hard with A LOT suction. Most average girls just let it slide back and forth and don't really use their mouths to grip tightly it seems; thinking that the light friction form their lips/mouths will do the job alone. Even with Captain Cocksucker, I couldn't bust a nut from her BJs though. Got close but couldn't get the nut. Only during my first BJ ever as a teenager have I've been able to nut from a BJ.

Changing gears here, I am also about 45 days into a hardcore NoFap cycle (no porn, sex, or jerking) and this is the longest I have ever gone excluding military boot camp without a release. Generally, I can't nut from BJs (part of the reason for the NoFap cycle; to improve sensitivity) but I can tell right now that if I were to get just an average one, the odds I would bust would be VERY high. If I had Captain Cockcucker still on the roster right now, I would no doubt bust in her mouth.

So, bottom line:

1. Try hardcore NoFap.
2. Find a Captain Cocksucker.

[Ruivinho]

Little update here from OP.

Not long after I started this thread I decided to take a 3/4 week break of no porn, no fap. I got the same chick back in the routine of fooling around again and I got her to give me a BJ. This time because I hadn't hanged out with her in a while. She wasn't as comfortable with me and couldn't just walk into my room and start making out. We chilled out for a bit in my room and then i slowly broke down any awkwardness she had and i started to make a move on her. she tried to hold back a bit at first but i broke her resistance and got her to give me a BJ. This time I wanted it alot more than before. Sex drive was higher for sure. I gave her more tips and she took them well. She ended up getting on her knee's, following my every instruction and sure enough i busted my load. Felt amazing.
All she needed was a little coaching on what worked for ME. different guys find different stuff pleasurable.
This was all about 4 weeks ago now.

Writing this post as of now i am currently experiencing a strong decrease in libido. I did some research online and I believe its a side effect of using lymecycline pills. I started taking these about 3 weeks ago to get rid of some pimples that started to appear on my forehead. But I've definitely encountered a strong decrease in sex drive. I'm going to stop taking the pills and go on a no fap routine for a couple weeks and see what happens.

[MikeS]

I used to be able to cum from even an average blowjob, but the last couple of years it only seems possible - within a reasonable time frame anyway - with an exceptionally good deepthroat blowjob, or at least a more energetic and steadily stimulating one. But I've also noticed that I've started lasting a bit longer in a pussy since my mid 30s, and a pussy tends to be where I prefer ending up sooner rather than later anyway. Although I do sometimes miss those brief blowjob-and-done sessions from my younger years - now it pretty much has to escalate to full sex if either or both of us don't want to end up feeling shortchanged.
At least my sex drive still seems fine and I can almost always go several times in a row with short breaks.

Thinking about trying the NoFap thing (will still be having sex a couple of days a week). I've been skeptical so far but it seems worth a try.

[PapayaTapper]

(04-21-2016 11:35 AM)Ruivinho Wrote:  

Little update here from OP.

Not long after I started this thread I decided to take a 3/4 week break of no porn, no fap. I got the same chick back in the routine of fooling around again and I got her to give me a BJ. This time because I hadn't hanged out with her in a while. She wasn't as comfortable with me and couldn't just walk into my room and start making out. We chilled out for a bit in my room and then i slowly broke down any awkwardness she had and i started to make a move on her. she tried to hold back a bit at first but i broke her resistance and got her to give me a BJ. This time I wanted it alot more than before. Sex drive was higher for sure. I gave her more tips and she took them well. She ended up getting on her knee's, following my every instruction and sure enough i busted my load. Felt amazing.
All she needed was a little coaching on what worked for ME. different guys find different stuff pleasurable.
This was all about 4 weeks ago now.

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