I am 20 years old and I used to do OK with women. Had my share of girls, nothing exceptional but still.
I live in a conservative country by Europe / US Standards.
Cold approaching seems to be very hard here, unless you are very good looking or maybe unusual looking, like being covered in sleeve tattoos etc.
Social proof and looks are pretty much the whole "game" here. Facebook is big and everyone seems to be showing off, going to expensive nightclubs to take pictures and having any less than 10-20likes on your profile picture can be a handicap, like anti-social proof.
This is not a college town by the way, it is a big city without a college scene/bars, just mainstream venues. Mostly social proofed people like the ones who work in venues or that frequent them 5 days a week seem to be having success.
Online dating sites are almost non existent here, very few users.
What should I do to get some women in my life again?
I am thinking of finding a job that would help with that, like at a cafe or something, but I wouldn't like to delay my studies since i don't want to live in this shithole of a place for any day longer than I have to.
How could I create a good social circle almost from scratch?
Should I approach people just to create acquaintances?
Thanks.
I live in a conservative country by Europe / US Standards.
Cold approaching seems to be very hard here, unless you are very good looking or maybe unusual looking, like being covered in sleeve tattoos etc.
Social proof and looks are pretty much the whole "game" here. Facebook is big and everyone seems to be showing off, going to expensive nightclubs to take pictures and having any less than 10-20likes on your profile picture can be a handicap, like anti-social proof.
This is not a college town by the way, it is a big city without a college scene/bars, just mainstream venues. Mostly social proofed people like the ones who work in venues or that frequent them 5 days a week seem to be having success.
Online dating sites are almost non existent here, very few users.
What should I do to get some women in my life again?
I am thinking of finding a job that would help with that, like at a cafe or something, but I wouldn't like to delay my studies since i don't want to live in this shithole of a place for any day longer than I have to.
How could I create a good social circle almost from scratch?
Should I approach people just to create acquaintances?
Thanks.