[Fortis]

I thought this was in USA; I didn't realize it was in the middle east. I would leave it alone. Don't contact this dude.

[mack_hand]

now you care?
you already fucked up your karma by knowingly tapping this bitch
run black ops stealth mode and get the fuck out of there in total silence and do not look back
.

[Fortis]

(01-30-2016 11:51 PM)mack_hand Wrote:  

now you care?
you already fucked up your karma by knowingly tapping this bitch
run black ops stealth mode and get the fuck out of there in total silence and do not look back
.

He fucked a slut named Karma--wait, what are we talking about here?

[eradicator]

Say nothing, it can only go badly for you, there is no way it can end well for you.

[Chetthebaker]

Do nothing.

There is no such thing as an anonymous message in this case. Why?
Because when he calls her out on her bullshit the chances are very high she'll attempt to evade responsibility and make you the scapegoat. Regardless of how the guy reacts, the girl's solipsism will enable her to exonerate herself from blame by throwing you under the bus. And if this guy is really beta he'll totally buy that narrative.

I had a sort of simliar situation over the summer. Girl had a BF of 3 and a half years. Wanted to stay with him. I actually coached her to cover it up. She was so fucking deluded she thought I should meet him and we'd all be friends. Like I'd hang out with them and pretend I didn't bang his GF.
Two weeks later they broke up and she actually told him she cheated (despite all the coaching, I imagine she threw it in his face just to hurt him), and who I was. He never contacted or confronted me, but her hamster was out of control. Calling me and trying to get me to "understand that she had gone crazy" and "help get him back" and "be friends". Very annoying, but at least I never had to deal with the guy. Seems like the guy was at least smart to enough to know where the blame lay.

Anyhow he kicked her ass out. I steered clear of her efforts to re-frame me as friend after the breakup and all her other bullshit. Now 5 months later she boomeranged back around and I bang her about once every week or two for the last couple months. The first time she came over she'd barely hook up because she still thought that maybe they'd get back together.

Bottom line - whatever's gonna happen is gonna happen. If his head's not completely up his ass he'll dump her. If not he gets in deeper and her bullshit continues. He'll live like a cuck or maybe eventually find the red pill.
It's not your responsibility- especially as somebody who doesn't know him- and to think you can control anything here is nonsense.

[Dino]

Thanks for the extra information. If I were a guest in another country I would think twice about going to bat for a local who may turn on you. I think I would bang and repeat until the situation changes. Good luck.

[Mujeriego]

All you're going to do is cause problems for yourself if you out her. Leave it be and find something new to smash.

[The Wire]

You would have to be a complete moron to send a letter. She's not a retard. He's going to confront and show the girl the 'anonymous' letter and shes going to know exactly who sent the letter.

People have been buried in the desert for less than that. Also you're not some manosphere superhero correcting all injustices in the world. The fact is the OP knowingly fucked some girl with a fiance. You are not this guy's friend. In fact he might want to break your jaw if he finds out who you are. Don't be some white knight trying to start shit.

[fitzad]

Update:

So I decided against telling since, as most people mentioned, there is no point. Got a message from her saying to delete everything and not tell anyone about us, I replied and told her that I wouldn't say anything but she should tell him because I would want to know.

She did, then gave him my number which was a super fun phone call. As we all suspected I was the one to blame! Lucky i'm moving house shortly!

[DarkTriad]

Do we really need to more than 1 page to cover the No Ratting rule?

[Kwisatz]

Assume that this guy knows your name, face, address, and unfortunately where you work.

Change your phone number/sim card. Register the next one under a friends name. You may want to "go dark" on social media like FaceBook and Twitter for a fee weeks. They both have a way to temporarily suspend your account.

(02-01-2016 01:33 PM)fitzad Wrote:  

Update:

So I decided against telling since, as most people mentioned, there is no point. Got a message from her saying to delete everything and not tell anyone about us, I replied and told her that I wouldn't say anything but she should tell him because I would want to know.

She did, then gave him my number which was a super fun phone call. As we all suspected I was the one to blame! Lucky i'm moving house shortly!

[Mujeriego]

(02-01-2016 01:33 PM)fitzad Wrote:  

Update:

So I decided against telling since, as most people mentioned, there is no point. Got a message from her saying to delete everything and not tell anyone about us, I replied and told her that I wouldn't say anything but she should tell him because I would want to know.

She did, then gave him my number which was a super fun phone call. As we all suspected I was the one to blame! Lucky i'm moving house shortly!

You chumped out of telling the dude (let's face it, you wanted to) and had her do it instead? On top of it you're in durka durka land where pussy is like gold to the locals. Younger players take note; this is exactly what not to do. I'm tempted to call troll on this story, but the lack of game exhibited here is almost too much to make up.

[PapayaTapper]

I'll do it