I was thinking about this subject the other day. It hit me when a girl I hooked up with in Colombia told me among the things she liked about me was that I was a 'gentleman.' It surprised me.
Now girls call me a lot of things, but rarely a gentleman! Usually the last thing I want to do is be called is a 'gentleman' to me it signifies that I've been to 'beta' or gamed it completely wrong. I certainly didn't hold back kissing her, touching, rarely complemented her. In this case I didn't fuck her, as I only had a couple of days, unfortunately certain Colombian girls are like this.
I slept with a few cute girls on my trip so I know my game was good. I know lots of women talk about wanting to be a man who is a gentleman, but I usually put that along with their other laundry list of qualities they look for in a guy which actually don't represent what they are attracted to.
Not really looking for advise on myself my question is do you guys have experience where behaving like the archetypal gentleman has worked wonders and has actually been rewarded?
Now girls call me a lot of things, but rarely a gentleman! Usually the last thing I want to do is be called is a 'gentleman' to me it signifies that I've been to 'beta' or gamed it completely wrong. I certainly didn't hold back kissing her, touching, rarely complemented her. In this case I didn't fuck her, as I only had a couple of days, unfortunately certain Colombian girls are like this.
I slept with a few cute girls on my trip so I know my game was good. I know lots of women talk about wanting to be a man who is a gentleman, but I usually put that along with their other laundry list of qualities they look for in a guy which actually don't represent what they are attracted to.
Not really looking for advise on myself my question is do you guys have experience where behaving like the archetypal gentleman has worked wonders and has actually been rewarded?