Quote: (02-08-2016 11:36 PM)Cobra Wrote:
@the newbies
Breath a bit guys!
Betas, testosterone and Europe.
I'm frankly getting a bit annoyed by the "marriage sucks" posts by those that are not married and supposedly "seeing" men pussified through marriage. The view is extremely singular and one dimensional in the manosphere.
This is a game forum. First hand accounts would be nice whether it worked out or not. We ask for it in other game threads but in "marriage" threads we're willing to entertain second hand opinions. I don't get it.
Basically, we have guys providing opinions without having gone through the responsibility or struggle of raising a family and keeping a wife happy.
There are many guys here that can do approaches and get a girl into bed. It's either just as difficult if not much more to keep a home active with a happy wife and kids, especially if that wife works a full-time job just like you. A different kind of leadership and collaboration are required there; one that many here will find difficult to appreciate as of yet.
I don't agree with the bold part. In my opinion one does not necessarily need to be married in order to make up an opinion about marriage. Based on LTR experience, I think, someone can get a pretty clear view of how it could be. Adding kids into the marriage-mix obviously is on a whole different level, but not everyone has/wants kids.
Before discovering Game I was in a very long LTR (over a decade) not very different from being married. I never felt the urge to someday get married to her because of a few reasons, which I told her:
- It will not make me love you more than I already do
- It will not make me act any different towards you
- It will not make me think any different about you, myself or our relationship
- It will not make me feel more happy nor less happy about 'us', not even the slightest bit
- It will not change me or my behaviour in any way
- I refuse to get married against my will because 'society thinks that's the way life should be lived'.
(Finish school, start a career, find a partner, buy a house together, get married, have children, raise the children, work more, be grandparents, retire, enjoy retirement while babysitting my kids' children, die)
- The minor financial benefits attained by being Husband & Wife do not even come close to the major financial 'punch' being taken if we someday decide to break up and divorce
She however did want to marry me someday because:
- I want to wear a wedding dress
- I want to tell people you're my husband, not my boyfriend
- It's what we eventually should do, like all other people
Honestly I can't see any major benefits about being married vs just being a couple doing the same shit married people do. So what if she's not my wife by law, I can still call her that if I want to. I can still buy her a ring to wear. I can still have kids with her. I can still buy a house with her. I can do EVERYTHING married couples can do, just without some legal paper telling me the guillotine is coming down if we decide to end it.
Obviously, while looking back at these discussions with her and eventually breaking up, I'm thankfull to myself for not giving in and standing my ground.
How do I have sex without losing the vitality that comes with the high levels of T? - Elmo Louis
Easy bro - pull out and cum in your hand. Then shove that cum in your mouth and swallow to avoid losing your vitality or lowering your T. - Yardog