[BackFromTheBrink]

First date tomorrow evening with 6.5/10 from Tinder.

She is new to the city but works in an area I am not familiar with so I suggested she come to me. She agreed but complained that she would look like a drowned rat as it is going to rain all day tomorrow.

Should I compromise or make her invest and in return minimise my own investment. I figure it would be better to maintain frame, not compromise and not engage till a few hours prior to the date. But if she is pissed off because she got soaked that is hardly a great start either.

Just looking for a steer ...

[Remington]

Well, due to you not being familiar with the area, it would be at your disadvantage to go to her since you don't know of any good places to take her for a drink. Logistics will not be in your favor either. She is just making an excuse because she doesn't want to come to you.

Just tell her to bring and umbrella and that you know of a few great places in the area you originally discussed.

When it comes to her meeting up with you, I wouldn't wait a few hours until the date. I would try to lock that part down ASAP. Be assertive and tell her what the plan will be.

[Dalaran1991]

(12-21-2015 08:51 AM)BackFromTheBrink Wrote:  

I figure it would be better to maintain frame

Getting laid = game + logistics.

On the other hand her coming over all wet can only be good for you, right?

Try to feel out her vibe, but if necessary reschedule to a better day.

[BackFromTheBrink]

Thanks.

(12-21-2015 09:41 AM)Remington Wrote:  

Just tell her to bring and umbrella and that you know of a few great places in the area you originally discussed.

I did in fact tell her "Bring a brolly as its going to be wet." So, that is when she complained.

(12-21-2015 09:41 AM)Remington Wrote:  

When it comes to her meeting up with you, I wouldn't wait a few hours until the date. I would try to lock that part down ASAP. Be assertive and tell her what the plan will be.

Noted. Will let her know about what I have in mind and firm up on the time.

[BackFromTheBrink]

By way of an update ... date went well ... 37 (8/10) 5'4" ... pretty face with a stunning slim figure complimented by a 34F rack. 2nd base only but lots of chemistry so potential for the future.

Only problem is logistics (thread-52514.html) but in this case I may be jumping the gun somewhat!

[Remington]

Your logistics are fine. If you do bring this girl back, give her a heads up that your "roommate" might be there so you both might have to take things into your bedroom.

Or, you could be completely honest and let her know about your situation. If she is cool with it, then proceed. If not, then go to her place or find an alley to bang her out.

If y'all do make it to your place, the ex may try to cock block you if she is around, or she could full on confront you. The key is to keep your frame around both women. Do not give into your ex's demands or fussy behavior. Stand tall with your shoulders back and ask the other woman to meet you in your room if you feel the need to speak to your ex.

If she does cock block or confront, if I was you, I would keep a smirk on my face and not say a word while she blows up. Casually escort the new girl into your room. Both hamsters will spin and you will most likely get some great sex.