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The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?
#51

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

I'm with H1N1 on this with a small exception.

Get your driver's license.

Then stop posting here and join the military.
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#52

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

^ Trivial, but why get a driver's license if he's going to join the military? He'll be caught up in basic for a while anyhow. Can get it when he's out and stationed somewhere.

Might as well just hop headfirst into his new life if he goes that route.

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"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling
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#53

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

Quote: (12-15-2015 06:30 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

^ Trivial, but why get a driver's license if he's going to join the military? He'll be caught up in basic for a while anyhow. Can get it when he's out and stationed somewhere.

Might as well just hop headfirst into his new life if he goes that route.

It's a mental thing. When I got my license it was the equivalent of freedom for me. Being able to drive anywhere is a great thing.

Not to mention, do you really think they're going to be thrilled to hear that private V card never learned how to drive a car?

Even then though, dude should just join the military. All of the problems listed can be sorted out by a good 5 year enlistment.
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#54

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

Hacker factor results;

"Genre: Informal
Female = 2045
Male = 4265
Difference = 2220; 67.59%
Verdict ; MALE

Genre: Formal\n Female = 2651\n Male = 2220\n Difference = -431; 45.57%\n Verdict: Weak FEMALE\n\nWeak emphasis could indicate European.cell lastrowow}"

Could be genuine or a Swedish feminist butch lezzer trolling RVF. After all, Trolls originate in Scandinavia!

If you are genuine, don't go Elliot Roger on us. Lots of good advice posted above. I'd like to add, provided you are not a Troll - throw away the computer games they have given you this mind set. You are in Scandinavia, go hike somewhere and camp. Climb mountains, ski, do real things outside, meet people and build experiences in your life. Don't idly surf the net, only use the web for a specified purpose. Listen to great music. Take up hobbies where you get to meet other people. Rebuild your social skills.
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#55

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Wow, this thread blew up. I never expected to get this much help, Ima read it all thru when I get to the computer later on. And I can assure you Im no "feminist troll", can show pictures over PM If someone wants.

Checking in later to respond to advice Ive gotten, thankyou
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#56

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

Quote: (12-15-2015 09:28 AM)Rontgennurz Wrote:  

Wow, this thread blew up. I never expected to get this much help, Ima read it all thru when I get to the computer later on. And I can assure you Im no "feminist troll", can show pictures over PM If someone wants.

Checking in later to respond to advice Ive gotten, thankyou

Four posts three rep points.

You're on your way to getting sorted out. Don't let the abrasiveness of our group discourage you from breaking free.
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#57

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

I'd also encourage you to reach out to people here that have given you the advice you've felt most drawn to. A lot goes on here over PM, between guys who have never met, but who are otherwise motivated to try to help people raise themselves up. I'm sure if you show sincere effort to make progress, you will find no shortage of people here willing to help you.
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#58

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

Keep your chin up. Get better every day. Be hard on yourself.

No excuses.
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#59

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

Are you Estonian? If not Estonian then from Finland or Sweden? All this counter-strike and something else sounds very familiar. I got very similar background, not CS but Runescape. I can relate to lot, played lots of hours, had great group/friends from age 14-16/17 and now im about your age also, little older. After that it also stopped but I managed somehow to go past the game period and now I don't like the games at all.

What advice do I have.. if you got all this time then learn programming. It will give you something to do, you will get also community. To be honest programming and the community around it still feels little bit like the old gaming experiences. You can go to meetups and meet people, also you will get some job perspective.

If you are Estonian, then feel free to PM me [Image: smile.gif]
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#60

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

At 27 years old, it's very possible. Even if it wasn't, it's better to die fighting than to slowly rot your life away as a loser.
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#61

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

This is depressing.

Go take social classes, get a better job and just be out of the house more. Chuck anything that detracts from that
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#62

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

Should we make the OP our forum fixer upper like this guy?

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/articl...p-him.html
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#63

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

Quote: (12-14-2015 05:42 PM)Rontgennurz Wrote:  

Luckily enough, I had one hobby that took up alot of time, strenght-training. Ive been working out for nearly 8 years now, Ive been very strict with diet and my workout scheme, hence my body is very muscular and strong. However, It has very much been a lonely hobby. I just go to the gym, by myself, eat my protein meals and drink my protein shakes, by myself - I grow, by myself. But atleast, I do have a hobby, thats better than nothing, eh?

This is where I stopped reading. You were an avid gamer. You also dropped out of school because of a game addiction.

I have yet to see a jacked gamer. Most are either skinny or fat. How could they be any different? Gaming 10 hours a day.

Nothing from your past behaviour suggest you have the dedication of becoming jacked.

If this is not a troll, I stand corrected.

Quote: (11-15-2014 08:53 AM)Little Dark Wrote:  
But guys, the fight itself isn't the focus here. How the whole thing was instigated by 1 girl is the big deal.
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#64

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

A suggestion to remove the doubters : take a pic of yourself / what shape you're in (not including your face), write on a piece of paper the date, your user name, and RVF

Also, it sounds like your gym and diet are on point. What's your lifting routine, what is your diet like each week?

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#65

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

Guys, keep in mind OP is Scandinavian. A lot of advice re: ease/cost of buying a car, joining the military, etc may have substantially different implications than if he were in the US.

Rontgennurz, er du dansk? Hvor er du fra? That might bring some more clarity to the issues.
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#66

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

Quote: (12-15-2015 02:04 PM)lowside Wrote:  

Quote: (12-14-2015 05:42 PM)Rontgennurz Wrote:  

Luckily enough, I had one hobby that took up alot of time, strenght-training. Ive been working out for nearly 8 years now, Ive been very strict with diet and my workout scheme, hence my body is very muscular and strong. However, It has very much been a lonely hobby. I just go to the gym, by myself, eat my protein meals and drink my protein shakes, by myself - I grow, by myself. But atleast, I do have a hobby, thats better than nothing, eh?

This is where I stopped reading. You were an avid gamer. You also dropped out of school because of a game addiction.

I have yet to see a jacked gamer. Most are either skinny or fat. How could they be any different? Gaming 10 hours a day.

Nothing from your past behaviour suggest you have the dedication of becoming jacked.

If this is not a troll, I stand corrected.

can I trust you dont share pics If I pm? I dont want pics of me on the internet.
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#67

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

I've known a few jacked gamers. Its really not that uncommon.
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#68

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Quote: (12-15-2015 02:56 PM)Repo Wrote:  

I've known a few jacked gamers. Its really not that uncommon.

Can I pm you pic and trust you dont share? I want someone to confirm Im no "troll" but I dont wanna spread pics on the net.
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#69

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

Sure.
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#70

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

OP sent me several pictures showing he is jacked. I reverse imaged the pics, and they took me back to another forum which I won't name for sake of anominity, but from a brief browing seems to have quite a few toxic individuals, not sure if I'm looking at an attempted red pill site or a satire of one.

He also told me his name which I looked up on facebook, I do not have concrete proof but I am fairly confident that OP, the user on that web forum, and the facebook profile are all the same person.

I don't think this is a troll, but OP I do think you have some serious issues, not related to your looks. Hopefully others members advice will help you with your journey.
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#71

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

Are you also addicted to pornography/masturbating? I can relate to some parts of your story, OP, and one thing that has helped me improve my situation a lot is quitting porn and masturbation cold turkey.
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#72

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

This thread has very much come at the right time for me, almost synchronistically so. What started off as a well-deserved break from working very hard has extended for far too long, and made me lazy and complacent when it comes to ensuring that my most important tasks are fulfilled.

I've let myself stay in a slump for far too long, and the time has come to get off my ass and ensure that my actions reflect my priorities and goals in life.

Thanks for the posts guys, and best of luck to the OP.

RVF Fearless Coindogger Crew
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#73

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

First Im very sorry I cannot responde to all It is so many posts at this point, but I want you to know I read it all and take it to hearth, Im gonna make a plan how to get my life better and I think getting my drivers licence is a very good first step.


Quote: (12-15-2015 06:05 PM)Helvegen Wrote:  

Are you also addicted to pornography/masturbating? I can relate to some parts of your story, OP, and one thing that has helped me improve my situation a lot is quitting porn and masturbation cold turkey.

Yes I dont know If Im addicted, but Ive been fapping to porn basicly every day since I was 13, so 14 years.

Im trying to quit not, im on 7 days nofap.
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#74

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Quote: (12-14-2015 05:42 PM)Rontgennurz Wrote:  

Is it even possible for a guy this age to get up? Im 27 now, Im starting to feel Ive missed the train, I ****ed up the years of when a kid developes to an adult man, Ive wasted years playing games instead of learing how to build new connections, Ive wasted years endlessy surfing the shitty web when I could have been out meeting new girls, getting new sexual and social experiences. I havent even got a ******* drivers licence - I look at myself and I see a lazy, pathetic shit of human being.

To offer a little perspective, a few things men have done:

Created a global consciousness through real-time and democraticized information via the internet...
Harnessed electricty to light up the earth at night and double our time productivity, among making an endless number of other things possible...
Put men on the moon...
A blind man has climbed mount everest. Kyle Maynard, a man with no arms and legs climbed Mount Kilimanjaro
Dived 214 m below the sea in one single breath...
Run a mile in under 4 minutes...
Sprinted 100m in 9.58 seconds...
Walked on a tight rope between two of the world trade centers...
Bruce Lee could do 50 one-arm pullups...
Conquered flight even in planes large enough to carry over 800 people and gone to the bottom of the oceans...
Defeated some of the deadliest diseases on the planet...

And you want to know if it's possible to move out of your mom's house and get your life together at 27???

I have the utmost sympathy for your emotional state right now, however...

Perspective, my friend. Perspective.

There are some videos out there you should watch on a site called "The Badass Project." View a couple of those and then get back to us.

Or here's one of the above-mentioned Kyle Maynard to start with.






Also see the depression threads on this forum.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling
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#75

The life of a 27y, living with mom, huge failure, is it even possible to fix?

Quote: (12-15-2015 06:46 AM)The Beast1 Wrote:  

Quote: (12-15-2015 06:30 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

^ Trivial, but why get a driver's license if he's going to join the military? He'll be caught up in basic for a while anyhow. Can get it when he's out and stationed somewhere.

Might as well just hop headfirst into his new life if he goes that route.

It's a mental thing.

I get what you mean.

Besides the freedom aspect, one thing I've learned over the years is that if I'm feeling powerless or in a depressed funk, the smallest things can make a difference. For example, if you're in a shitty state for a while, you start ignoring small things like cleaning your apartment, and it all starts to stack up.

I've found that just exerting your control over the most trivial things can really being to reawaken your sense of mastery over the world around you and snap you out of it, giving you some footing to really work from. Just getting up, walking across the room, and picking through that pile of clothes lying on the floor. Digging into some dirty dishes, organizing paperwork, polishing up your shoes, or giving yourself a good grooming.

I imagine getting a driver's license is the same when you don't have one. You start by asserting your influence on the world in small ways and you pick up momentum for something more.

Control what you can control instead of focusing on what it feels like you can't.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling
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