[RedGuard]

Hey there,

I just kind of wanted to vent my frustration over the progress of my game recently and speak a word about the decisive role of logistics as part of your game.

Bad logistics can ruin everything. Bad logistics can yield you a dry spell of several months. Bad logistics can make you being depressed even if your game is otherwise relatively tight.

It all happened to me recently. My place is not an option and too far away from the action (places where I can meet girls). I've been dating that girl a couple of times recently. We've been all acting like a couple (holding hands and stuff like this), we wanted to "watch a movie" together but found out that her place is not an option either. It really sucks when you are at that point with a girl she'd do anything with you, but logistics don't allow you to escalate further. I see no other option than unfortunately nexting that girl and wait for better times in terms of my logistics.

I observed how my game didn't develop any further in the last few month, how I didn't even put that motivation and enthusiasm into dates cause I knew I can't take it as far as the bang. I feel like I'm wasting time by missing out on sure bangs and unique experiences in young years. All I want right now is just moving out of my parents' place and being more independant.

So guys (especially newbies), if you really wanna improve your game, fix your logistics first. There is nothing more frustrating than making a girl you like all horny and into you on a date but there is no place to take her.

PS: Fortunately I'm going to travel soon and looking to move out by next summer.

RedGuard

[LA Savage]

You should have posted this in the newbie forum because your venting is not constructive. It sounds more like you venting because you didn't get laid due to you not setting up logistics in your favor. Everybody has been through this and even if you do have logistics set you still have to worry about Anti-Slut Defense and Last Minute Resistance.

Rather than complain about being stuck living at your parents place you should better utilize your time coming up with solutions for this problem. Example: Getting money for an airbnb room rental, getting a car, asking friends if they would willing to let you use their pad to get laid, finding other places to fuck girls.

I suggest you get familiar with the Biggest Game Fuck Ups Thread and learn that you are limiting yourself by just complaining about your situation rather than taking action to fix it.

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[HonantheBarbarian]

Shit man, story of my life here.

It doesn't matter how good your game is if your logistics are shit. And it really does fuck up your mojo when you seem to be doing everything right but logistics keep getting in the way.

I agree that a young player starting out should get his logistics together before anything else, otherwise you start getting doubts and second guessing yourself for really stupid reasons. This is currently what I'm working at.

[OregonToSoCal]

(12-07-2015 04:17 PM)HonantheBarbarian Wrote:  

Shit man, story of my life here.

It doesn't matter how good your game is if your logistics are shit. And it really does fuck up your mojo when you seem to be doing everything right but logistics keep getting in the way.

I agree that a young player starting out should get his logistics together before anything else, otherwise you start getting doubts and second guessing yourself for really stupid reasons. This is currently what I'm working at.

To modify one of the great Yogi Berra quotes "90% of getting laid is logistics, the other half is tight game"