Hi guys, I'd be grateful for some feedback on the following situation that I experienced earlier today when about on my travels:
I was walking through Poundland today when, headed in the opposite direction, comes a petite blonde woman, probably late 20s, very cute and nerdy looking who, judging from the non-toxic and relaxed manner about her, seemed to be east European. Now, bearing in mind this is Middlebrough we're talking about, you don't find dime pieces like this strewn around willy-nilly, so I was instantly intrigued. What made me even more curious about her was that she made eye-contact briefly and didn't show any of the usual aversive behaviour typical of a woman of her SMV in the UK. I passed her a few types in the store as I had some time to kill, although chickened out of actually approaching her, which I immediately regretted. Later on, I was sat on a bench in one of the shopping malls and I saw her go into another store, so I immeditately went in after her and stopped her whilst she was viewing some item or other on the shelf. I couldn't for the life of me think what I was going to open her with, so I said the first thing which came to mind, "Hi. You aren't from Poland by any chance, are you?" seriously expecting that she would probably answer that she was, or at least from another central or eastern European country. Bizarrely, she replies in a local accent, "No, I'm a Middlebrough girl, born and bred!". I then started making small talk about christmas shopping and asked her about hers, to which she relied, "Yea, I'm just getting some items in for the kids" whilst then turning to look at the shelves again.
I took from her looking away at the shelves, along with her statement about her having kids, combined with the fact that she didn't ask any questions about me, that she was very likely married or in a relationship at least and trying to put me off and so I bailed without pushing the encounter any further. What vexes me, though, is that she didn't seem at all uncomfortable with my approaching her and was smiling when we were talking and had a pleasant manner about her for a British broad who was of high SMV. She surely must have known what the deal was with my approaching her and my previous flirty eye-contact with her, so I couldn't help but wonder whether I had fucked up yet another potential opportunity by assuming the worst and bailing too quickly. What do you guys think? Would this behaviour have put you off?
I'm fairly new to day-gaming women and the relatively few approaches that I've done have yielded quite mixed results in terms of women's reactions, with some of them being really quite cunty. I've been adopting a sniper-type approach where I only focus on those women where I feel their personality is possibly agreeable, et.c.; an approach which, in my area of Teeside, doesn't yield all too many good prospects given the X-factoresque character of most of the women here. However, since working out and working on my inner game, as well as posture, eye-contact with women, et.c., I'm definitely getting some regular visual IOIs from quite a few very bangable women on the street in my area, but I feel that I'm cockblocking myself from not having the balls to push these interactions to their logical conclusion.
I was walking through Poundland today when, headed in the opposite direction, comes a petite blonde woman, probably late 20s, very cute and nerdy looking who, judging from the non-toxic and relaxed manner about her, seemed to be east European. Now, bearing in mind this is Middlebrough we're talking about, you don't find dime pieces like this strewn around willy-nilly, so I was instantly intrigued. What made me even more curious about her was that she made eye-contact briefly and didn't show any of the usual aversive behaviour typical of a woman of her SMV in the UK. I passed her a few types in the store as I had some time to kill, although chickened out of actually approaching her, which I immediately regretted. Later on, I was sat on a bench in one of the shopping malls and I saw her go into another store, so I immeditately went in after her and stopped her whilst she was viewing some item or other on the shelf. I couldn't for the life of me think what I was going to open her with, so I said the first thing which came to mind, "Hi. You aren't from Poland by any chance, are you?" seriously expecting that she would probably answer that she was, or at least from another central or eastern European country. Bizarrely, she replies in a local accent, "No, I'm a Middlebrough girl, born and bred!". I then started making small talk about christmas shopping and asked her about hers, to which she relied, "Yea, I'm just getting some items in for the kids" whilst then turning to look at the shelves again.
I took from her looking away at the shelves, along with her statement about her having kids, combined with the fact that she didn't ask any questions about me, that she was very likely married or in a relationship at least and trying to put me off and so I bailed without pushing the encounter any further. What vexes me, though, is that she didn't seem at all uncomfortable with my approaching her and was smiling when we were talking and had a pleasant manner about her for a British broad who was of high SMV. She surely must have known what the deal was with my approaching her and my previous flirty eye-contact with her, so I couldn't help but wonder whether I had fucked up yet another potential opportunity by assuming the worst and bailing too quickly. What do you guys think? Would this behaviour have put you off?
I'm fairly new to day-gaming women and the relatively few approaches that I've done have yielded quite mixed results in terms of women's reactions, with some of them being really quite cunty. I've been adopting a sniper-type approach where I only focus on those women where I feel their personality is possibly agreeable, et.c.; an approach which, in my area of Teeside, doesn't yield all too many good prospects given the X-factoresque character of most of the women here. However, since working out and working on my inner game, as well as posture, eye-contact with women, et.c., I'm definitely getting some regular visual IOIs from quite a few very bangable women on the street in my area, but I feel that I'm cockblocking myself from not having the balls to push these interactions to their logical conclusion.