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"Oh, did I mention I had a boyfriend/husband?"
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"Oh, did I mention I had a boyfriend/husband?"

Quote: (12-07-2015 07:41 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

Quote: (12-07-2015 02:05 PM)thoughtgypsy Wrote:  

If this happens and you answer yes when the police ask you "Did she tell you she had a bf before this happened?" game over man. When a woman has more to gain than lose by the accusation, she'll cry rape.

I (fortunately) don't have a lot of experience interacting with the police, but I know the appropriate answer to all police questions, when suspected of a crime, is "I respectfully decline to answer any questions."

Yes, definitely. Also keep in mind, if you're ever put in a position where they want to question you, they will try to put you in the most disoriented state possible. Knocking on your door at 5am or 11pm hoping that you're just waking up and not fully alert yet. They're gonna try to disarm your logical brain and you'll be pumped full of adrenaline with your mind going "wtf is going on?!" You'll notice their loaded guns holstered and you'll want them to see you as a likeable guy.

Your instinct is to want to talk with them to disarm any confusion they might have. You have to fight that instinct. Don't be surprised that despite knowing it deep down, you won't be able to utter something as complex as "I respectfully decline to answer any questions." If you can't say anything else, just say something simple as "Lawyer" until your senses come back.
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#27

"Oh, did I mention I had a boyfriend/husband?"

Quote: (12-07-2015 11:14 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Player avoids this by pushing for compliance asap, breaking the touch barrier, and escalating.

After the touch barrier is broken, there is a lot of boyfriend-esque touching that falls short of kissing, but conveys intent. If a chick pulls out the boyfriend husband card, you have ample evidence that she's open to getting fucked despite what she says.

If she gets defensive or pulls out early, you don't spend 25 minutes wasting time.

A night game state of mind puts in the time, but he presses forward. The clock is running, so indirect approaches still need to be as efficient as direct.

In terms of remedy, you'll be tempted to react negatively. Like most parts of the game, the key is to remain calm, and show no reaction.

It's up to you to decide whether or not to address the elephant. Instead of interpreting it as a red light, consider it a green light.

We must do this quickly and discretely.

If she mentions it again but at the same time keeps entertaining you, just say "I understand we'll be discrete."

She may have been keeping you around for attention, but she might be able to get into a little mischief anyway. That's the door you open for her. That's when the player uses
1) boyfriend destroyer tactics
2) appeal to her hind brain

You gauge whether to do any of this based on how well she emotionally responded to your pull. If her body is saying yes, you're the french fry to her no carb diet.

WIA

^ This.

Sometimes it is a test and obviously your reaction is pass/fail.

Vice-Captain - #TeamWaitAndSee
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#28

"Oh, did I mention I had a boyfriend/husband?"

Welcome to the friendzone. Here is your room, enjoy your time here.

As for any girl, being "busy" shows a lack of interest. If you are free and 2 girls text you at the same time, one stunner and one fatty, who are you going to tell "I am busy"?
Same for girls.
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#29

"Oh, did I mention I had a boyfriend/husband?"

Keep this in mind as you're reading the post below:
1) this was the first sex I've had in the last 3 years
2) I had to be on an IT conference call at midnight.

Here's the story:

Last saturday, 12/05, I meetup with friends from the forum, snowplow, vinman, and others. We drank beers and hung out. After wards, I went home walked and fed my dog, and went to my local bar.
I get to the bar, and there were these girls who i meant and talked to before. They were cute, cool, and have been drinking before I showed up. For conversion, let's name them A and B. I started talking, not trying at all of spin game because I had my mind else. Yet, B kept talking about wanting to go to my place. For some reason, it never clicked in my mind she wanted to fuck until I was leaving the bar, and B joined me on the walk.When we got there, it was around 11:30pm, I gave her a beer. I went to my bedroom the put away my keys and wallet. She follows me into the bedroom, closes the door, and starts making out with me. We strip off each others clothes and I start kissing her from the neck down to her vagina and start eating. Then, I hear the alarm from my phone, reminding me of the conference call. FUCK! I stopped, login into my PC, and called into the call. I announced that I was on the call, ready to provide support, blah blah, and hit mute. I turn towards the couch, and there she is. She's worried about getting me in trouble. I told I'm and we'll make it work. So, I start fingering her. She starts moaning. It seemed like minutes after she started moaning that I hear my name on the conference. SON OF A BITCH! I gave the hush gesture, unmute the call and gave some BS that I start validating. I hit mute and resumed fingering for another 5 minutes. Unmuted and told them my part was done, do they need me for anything else. As soon as I heard no, hung up, lunged into the couch and started fucking. FINALLY!
It wasn't my best, but she enjoyed it. Tight pussy, but just everything in my life, I made it work. When we were done, we went to my bed and fell asleep. Most of the time, she was holding onto me. We woke up, drank coffee and watch morning tv. She was cuddling with me. Eventually, I dropped her off at her house.
Here's the question.
We met up at the bar tonight. She tells me that she's in rocky relationship with another guy. That she's sorry if she had hurt me in any way. I told her that it'll sting, but I'll get over it quickly. She wanted to know if it would be awkward if we would still be friends.I talked to snowplow and he says that this a shit test. While I believe that this is the case, I'm not sure about to proceed and how to better respond to this the next time this happens.
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#30

"Oh, did I mention I had a boyfriend/husband?"

Nothing to worry about. She did the veni vidi vici - you just happened to be there. It won't be awkward and NEXT the subject.
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#31

"Oh, did I mention I had a boyfriend/husband?"

Just happened to me the other day. I invited this girl to a beach fire with a few of my friends for a chilled out night. We're having a good time, she's sitting next to me slightly separated from the rest of the group. I'm escalating while talking, playing with bracelets and necklaces, tracing my fingers on her legs etc. I have my hand on her waist for about a minute when she whispers in my ear 'I have a boyfriend.'

And here I fucked up hard. This completely caught me off guard, I just said 'oh,' and removed contact and stayed kind of quiet watching the fire for a while. I felt no desire to keep conversation going, Then she said in a regretful tone, 'Oh now you're acting weird.' I attempted to keep conversation going but at this point I knew there was no returning from it.

In hindsight, I should have:
-Kept escalating. She was still being warm to me when she said it, and wasn't physically rejecting me.
- Said something like, 'I don't want to stop (touching you), but if I'm making you uncomfortable I will.'
- Never let it get to this limbo point, I should have escalated enough the first time I met her to get the boyfriend card before spending more time together. As someone else said in this thread, I was stuck in conversation-land before this night.

Anyone have other thoughts on what I should have done?
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