How do u ask a shy girl on a date? Basically there is a shy girl but she is very cute and I want to ask her out on a date but how would i start really? Any advice on how to get her number and ask her out. Also, she is younger than me.
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Quote: (11-27-2015 12:54 PM)vip17811 Wrote:
How do u ask a shy girl on a date? Basically there is a shy girl but she is very cute and I want to ask her out on a date but how would i start really? Any advice on how to get her number and ask her out. Also, she is younger than me.
is this a trick question? you ask her out the normal way by calling her? or whatever your usual communication method is (text, facebook, skype, whatsapp, kik, fetlife - okay i'll stop here).
My initial reaction is that you have probably not approached too many girls in the past, so this will address some of the basics.
In short - just talk to her in whatever method you have already established contact with her and see if she's free to catch up. Take a step back and think about it for a moment - what's the worst that could possibly happen? If she says no, you might end up walking away with your tail between your legs, but don't take it too personally and just move on to the next girl. If she says yes - then continue to game on, brother.
A mentality of abundance and options (i.e. if this girl says no, there are plenty of other girls out there who will say yes) will help you rationalize your your ability to move on and make you look more confident - trust me when I say that confidence is an attractive trait for women.
If you haven't asked too many girls out in the past, you may have some initial approach anxiety. This is perfectly natural at first, but with experience and repeated attempts, you'll eventually become fearless in your approach without relying on alcohol (i.e. the "Dutch Courage") or drugs.
Note that your chances of hooking up with this girl will drop to virtually zero if you say nothing.
The fact that she is younger than you will not make much of a difference, as this is perfectly normal (unless she falls within jailbait territory in your jurisdiction), so don't come up any further excuses and ask her out today.
There have been plenty of threads on this forum that have discussed approaching girls and asking on first dates at all levels of game, so feel free to read through some of them. Having said that, there is no one size fits all approach because what works for you specifically will not work for other men.
I wish you the best of luck, but remember there are plenty of other eligible girls out there too!
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but will give you the benefit of the doubt.
In short - just talk to her in whatever method you have already established contact with her and see if she's free to catch up. Take a step back and think about it for a moment - what's the worst that could possibly happen? If she says no, you might end up walking away with your tail between your legs, but don't take it too personally and just move on to the next girl. If she says yes - then continue to game on, brother.
A mentality of abundance and options (i.e. if this girl says no, there are plenty of other girls out there who will say yes) will help you rationalize your your ability to move on and make you look more confident - trust me when I say that confidence is an attractive trait for women.
If you haven't asked too many girls out in the past, you may have some initial approach anxiety. This is perfectly natural at first, but with experience and repeated attempts, you'll eventually become fearless in your approach without relying on alcohol (i.e. the "Dutch Courage") or drugs.
Note that your chances of hooking up with this girl will drop to virtually zero if you say nothing.
The fact that she is younger than you will not make much of a difference, as this is perfectly normal (unless she falls within jailbait territory in your jurisdiction), so don't come up any further excuses and ask her out today.
There have been plenty of threads on this forum that have discussed approaching girls and asking on first dates at all levels of game, so feel free to read through some of them. Having said that, there is no one size fits all approach because what works for you specifically will not work for other men.
I wish you the best of luck, but remember there are plenty of other eligible girls out there too!
Edit - not sure if you're a
but will give you the benefit of the doubt.
Maybe OP wants advice on how to actually get her on a date without scaring her. The thing here is just to not make a big deal out of the date. Think of public, well-lit venues such as a mall or a park. Suggest you will get some ice-cream or maybe just go for a walk. Once you warm her up to you, you may switch venues to a coffee shop, a quick trip to the museum or a cheap snack. This is specific to shy girls, because for normal girls I would simply go for coffee/drinks, chat and escalate.
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