I've noticed that American women are not that approachable compared to other foreign women overseas. I assume South American/Caribbean women are the same in terms of not approaching men really and not being pursued. I am black by the way and happen to like Latina/Hispanic women. I am sick and tired hearing that white men are loved more by Latina women in their country because they have lighter skin...is this just a stereotype? Latin/Hispanic women I've heard won't give black men a chance...this coming from a Asian guy I work with said its because black men are broke(have no money); that is why they prefer white men more because they have money. I don't mean to start a racial debate but a lot of this makes me angry as a black guy hearing all of this. I hope not all of what I said is 100% true.
Why are American women so hard to get including South American gals?
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People also say height is a factor but I've seen Scotian rail some good looking bitches and he's 5'3.
People say they're language barriers but I find that absolutely not true whatsoever and have no problems finding women wherever in this world that I go.
People say that bald guys are at a disadvantage but I've seen bald guys clean up shop.
Pay little attention to what other people say, especially co-workers.
Also, you're sterotypes regarding South Americans are wrong, South American women are approached and perused a lot more than American women. Men don't rely on Tinder here nor do they say "thank you / no thank you / please" 5 times in one sentence because it's politically correct to show a softer side. Hang out with a few Brazilian men and you'll see what I'm talking about. They are damn good at perusing women and being direct. Colombian men are not as intense but definitely much better at perusing than American men.
If you're afraid of approaching, USA and Philippines are better options.
People say they're language barriers but I find that absolutely not true whatsoever and have no problems finding women wherever in this world that I go.
People say that bald guys are at a disadvantage but I've seen bald guys clean up shop.
Pay little attention to what other people say, especially co-workers.
Also, you're sterotypes regarding South Americans are wrong, South American women are approached and perused a lot more than American women. Men don't rely on Tinder here nor do they say "thank you / no thank you / please" 5 times in one sentence because it's politically correct to show a softer side. Hang out with a few Brazilian men and you'll see what I'm talking about. They are damn good at perusing women and being direct. Colombian men are not as intense but definitely much better at perusing than American men.
If you're afraid of approaching, USA and Philippines are better options.
So Caribbean/South American women will not approach you? I'm talking Puerto Rican, Cuban, Mexicans, yes brazilians and Colombian senoritas. If they see something they like in a guy they just won't come up to you if you catch their eye?
Quote: (11-20-2015 07:12 PM)SpectacularDestination924 Wrote:
So Caribbean/South American women will not approach you? I'm talking Puerto Rican, Cuban, Mexicans, yes brazilians and Colombian senoritas. If they see something they like in a guy they just won't come up to you if you catch their eye?
It's always possible. But that's not their job. You're the man, it's your job to approach them.
Don't mean to double post but I have been very unlucky finding love here in the U.S. From dating online sites to real world dating in America as a black man I've failed. Is it because American women pay to much attention to looks and not your personality. I'm honestly a nice guy. People have told me I have a striking resemblance to tiger woods. If you think I'm effing losing it....i'll show you my picture to prove it but I won't.
LINUX:
I agree that Brazilian and Argentine guys are big on pursuing women, but Colombian guys? Most Colombian guys would rather die than talk to a woman who isn't in his circle and isn't a bartender, waitress, or prepago. It is one of the main reasons why we do well there. If most of the guys there were stepping up and really focused on self improvement, why would girls there even look at a foreigner?
I agree that Brazilian and Argentine guys are big on pursuing women, but Colombian guys? Most Colombian guys would rather die than talk to a woman who isn't in his circle and isn't a bartender, waitress, or prepago. It is one of the main reasons why we do well there. If most of the guys there were stepping up and really focused on self improvement, why would girls there even look at a foreigner?
Quote: (11-20-2015 07:19 PM)Merenguero Wrote:
LINUX:
I agree that Brazilian and Argentine guys are big on pursuing women, but Colombian guys? Most Colombian guys would rather die than talk to a woman who isn't in his circle and isn't a bartender, waitress, or prepago. It is one of the main reasons why we do well there. If most of the guys there were stepping up and really focused on self improvement, why would girls there even look at a foreigner?
I'm not seeing that at all here with the Colombian guys I am chilling with. They are just as relentless as us forum members are. We do well because we are just as exotic to Colombian women as they are to us. People are always going to flock to mixing two diverse strains of DNA due to healthier offspring. Biology trumps again.
What are you saying? Black American men fail in South America and Caribbean? I'm talking Puerto Rico, Cuba and DR too not just SA.
Quote: (11-20-2015 07:15 PM)SpectacularDestination924 Wrote:
Don't mean to double post but I have been very unlucky finding love here in the U.S. From dating online sites to real world dating in America as a black man I've failed. Is it because American women pay to much attention to looks and not your personality. I'm honestly a nice guy. People have told me I have a striking resemblance to tiger woods. If you think I'm effing losing it....i'll show you my picture to prove it but I won't.
Change you looks, stop being a nice guy, do some testosterone, hit the gym, maybe take a trip to Alaska and kill a bear or something.
You're a product of western civilization. Media and film has been telling you throughout your life that personality get's you laid. They were wrong.
We are not much for guy pictures here. No need to post that.
Quote: (11-20-2015 07:24 PM)LINUX Wrote:
Quote: (11-20-2015 07:19 PM)Merenguero Wrote:
LINUX:
I agree that Brazilian and Argentine guys are big on pursuing women, but Colombian guys? Most Colombian guys would rather die than talk to a woman who isn't in his circle and isn't a bartender, waitress, or prepago. It is one of the main reasons why we do well there. If most of the guys there were stepping up and really focused on self improvement, why would girls there even look at a foreigner?
I'm not seeing that at all here with the Colombian guys I am chilling with. They are just as relentless as us forum members are.
Jesus. That has never been my experience, but I don't doubt you. There are some Colombian forum members, although most or all of them don't post much.
@Linux
You really think American guys approach less then Colombians? I def agree though that a few Latin American guys can be more relentless.
@Merenguero
We need to move if that's the case. Only place I've seen people approach more then Philly and New York is def Argentina and maybe England and wherever drunk English people want to turn somewhere into England.
You really think American guys approach less then Colombians? I def agree though that a few Latin American guys can be more relentless.
@Merenguero
We need to move if that's the case. Only place I've seen people approach more then Philly and New York is def Argentina and maybe England and wherever drunk English people want to turn somewhere into England.
Quote: (11-20-2015 07:51 PM)godzilla Wrote:
@Linux
You really think American guys approach less then Colombians? I def agree though that a few Latin American guys can be more relentless.
@Merenguero
We need to move if that's the case. Only place I've seen people approach more then Philly and New York is def Argentina and maybe England and wherever drunk English people want to turn somewhere into England.
Usually, his posts make perfect sense to me, but I don't know what the hell he's talking about here. Guys in Southern California and Mexico also approach a lot.
Quote: (11-20-2015 07:51 PM)godzilla Wrote:
@Linux
You really think American guys approach less then Colombians? I def agree though that a few Latin American guys can be more relentless.
Yeah bro, I do. It would be different at salsa club where people stick to their own groups but in general I find Colombian men more aggressive and socially calibrated. I went to a reggaton club the other night and watched one group of Colombian women get approached by over 30 men in a matter of 2 hours. That would not happen in the states. A woman also walks by in Colombia and you see a steam of guys following her ass, with" no fucks" given, whereas in the states, men would just avoid making any sort of eye contact because it makes them feel more like they are more valuable because they don't look desperate or want her to see that he is interested in her.
Quote: (11-20-2015 08:01 PM)LINUX Wrote:
Quote: (11-20-2015 07:51 PM)godzilla Wrote:
@Linux
You really think American guys approach less then Colombians? I def agree though that a few Latin American guys can be more relentless.
Yeah bro, I do. It would be different at salsa club where people stick to their own groups but in general I find Colombian men more aggressive and socially calibrated. I went to a reggaton club the other night and watched one group of Colombian women get approached by over 30 men in a matter of 2 hours. That would not happen in the states. A woman also walks by in Colombia and you see a steam of guys following her ass, with" no fucks" given, whereas in the states, men would just avoid making any sort of eye contact because it makes them feel more like they are more valuable because they don't look desperate or want her to see that he is interested in her.
Well I def agree with that. Our society has shames us for being men.
I believe the American approaches more not because they are more manly or more alpha or better at game, but out of necessity. If I rely on social circle (only applies after college) I would never get laid. Colombians guys can get pussy much easier through social circle then we can.
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