Let's clarify few things.
1. Not all of attractive women are these unicorns semi celebrities who get freebies all the time from rich men all around the world etc etc. Too many of you instantly associate hotness with posh and glamorous lifestyle. Meanwhile, there are lots of beautiful girls in their twenties with very normal lifestyle. So let's not get all paranoid that only so called status will get you access to attractive women. Please.. you try to tell me that girls like that are really sooooo sooooo rare?
Come on..
2. I don't care about your rates. From physical/looks standpoint there are only 3 types. Regular, cute and hot. So cut that "she's 8.5" nerd shit. This post is about hot women and all those points apply to them all. The only difference between them [and factor in game] is their attitude that is determined by their social status/reality. There is a difference between miss popular hottie from big city and normal girl hottie from small city.
3. Good/solid game is not geared toward regular girls. It looks and feels much more masculine hence it attracts very feminine women [polarization]. Look, when you're in top form, you got cool buddies, you're social, you're flirty, you can speak to anybody anywhere, you dress cool, you express yourself way more freely than others, you're playful and engage all girls and you come across as very comfortable in your own skin solid dude.. then who do you think will be more comfortable in your presence? That cute Jenny wearing blue jeans and converse's who hang out with the same peer group since forever or that Jessica wearing a dress and high heels who gets hit on everyday by creeps here and there who finally wants to meet cool guy who gets her? Girls like Jenny can't relate to you, not because you're too good for them, but rather that you're from different world [not necessarily better, just different, there is a clash]. Meet Jenny:
Ok here it is. It's from my personal experience and what I've seen from others. I'm talking about regular guy dealing with beautiful women ie communicating/interacting.
- Strong frame under pressure -
Passive shittests are tough. Interestingly, this is very common for attractive girls especially those who are cool, down to earth, not easily impressed, classy. They don't really throw nasty shittests or give in to your attraction bullshit. They don't let you "pick them up". They tend to hold back at first evaluating you and observing if you say/do something stupid under pressure. This is where strong character comes into play.
So many men depend on what girl contributes that once they happen to meet a girl who doesn't give back too much their whole game crumbles into pieces. It's reasonable, responding to some verbal bullshit is easy whatever you get you can reframe it, misinterpret it, be playful about it, etc. Besides, anyone can learn good comebacks so it's not genuine sign of confidence. What is real is behavioral cues displayed in real time especially under high social pressure.
So when a girl is just looking at you with blank face barely saying anything back or sits down farther away from you it's tough to stay cool calm and collected then. Keeping your shit together without flinching in such situation displays those honest signals. And I'm not talking about doing a freeze out or takeaway in reaction to her hot girl blase trick to teach her a lesson etc. I mean being centered carefree and cool about it that it literally doesn't change your state at all. In short, never let her throw you off, unshakable frame.
There is also issue of time that nobody mentions. Because of that initial distance and passiveness it takes more time to get through their firewall and charm them. However with cold approach it's tough to break through because you don't have that time especially when you're in a rush to escalate isolate and pull. This is the reason why I prefer social route. I can buy myself time, which translates into familiarity, comfort, seduction. So instead of target hunting and trying to isolate/pull asap I talk to the whole group like a friend and flirt with the girl I'm interested in without any rush. To me this way has more benefits, it's the highest chance move and feels very similar to social circle situation.
- Mixed signals -
Being interested and challenging at the same time. Less attractive girls can't stomach it. They can't deal with it when you mess with them as they tend to take it more personally [people "know their place" in general]. Meanwhile, hot girls got everybody kissing their ass so any kind of challenge is refreshing to them. It makes you stand out. Btw, challenging doesn't have to mean being a dick as most of you instantly think. It just means having your own values/opinions, not being easily impressed, being playful just not in a clownish way [although miss popular hottie from big city requires more edge and challenge from you to appear on her radar than a normal hottie from smaller city].
At the same time you gotta show some interest otherwise she won't take you serious. Interest is best subcommunicated, not stated overtly [What's subtle to men is obvious to women]. For example, chatting her up itself equals interest [no need to overdo it by adding silly compliments, she won't buy it]. Engaging her even a little more than other girls in the group itself equals interest [no need to ignore everybody else and talk only to her]. Asking about her hobbies itself equals interest [no need to be yes man]. Inviting her out itself equals interest [no need to say it's a date].
Same thing in relationship. It's morally wrong but this is our human nature. Facts remain and real life experience doesn't lie. Fear of loss is better motivator than guaranteed security. Should be the other way around but oh well it is what it is.
- Strong leading without indicators of interest -
You can't really seek obvious green lights as an encouragement to make a move. In fact, with those girls you should be more concerned with obvious signals of obvious disinterest. When you see those you stop and back off. As long as those are not present you're in the game. Hence, you gotta do what YOU want to do without expecting signals or trying to read her. Basically it means to listen your guts and act accordingly.
Socially savvy hot women can be quite cruel with this... short answers, not buying into your frame, breaking off, not initiating anything, playing hard to get, going silent at times, etc. It's like they want to see which guy can handle them and which is at a mercy of their whims. So if you want to sit with her on a couch to talk in private you take her hand and start walking without even looking at her for approval. It displays certain "been there done that" entitlement as if it's normal to you. Again, subcommunication of status.
There are also introverted/shy girls who simply get self conscious [to you: boring] when they like a guy. It's natural so this case you gotta do everything on your own and look after her as you go. Whether she's shy or you have to lead hard [emotionally, conversationally, physically, sexually] and adjust after you get resistance, not before.
- Clear expectations and boundaries -
I've learned it's better to be straightforward early on about your most important habits/likes/dislikes and how you live your life in general. It can be bumpy road at first when the girl is coming to grips with your personality when she meets you. Still it's way better this way than laying down the law later on cause then set yourself for constant arguments and misunderstandings that have to be dealt with.
It's draining but ultimately it's your fault.
Unclear expectations only lead to crossing you personal boundaries. And believe me, nobody is better at crossing your personal boundaries than a beautiful girl you're chasing or dating. It starts really small but with no intervention from you it can snowball pretty fast. Therefore it's very important to pay close attention to what is going on between you both on a regular basis without thinking with your dick. It actually applies to all women but those very attractive ones are more sneaky with crossing your limits.
For example, a girl gets super dramatic about how she literally has no time for her homework for class [basic presentation] and asks you to help her [do it for her] but then it turns out that when she stops browsing stupid shit online she can magically do her project on her own in 20 fucking minutes. Another case, she casually mentions here and there how other guys hit on her. There's a lot of shit like that.
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In general, my impression is that unlike regular girls [flashy game and easygoing dating] with attractive ones it's the other way around. Under the radar game and demanding dating.
When I come up with something I'll write part 2.