[asdf987]

In the past I have been awful at texting being way too nice and beta. Even got friend zoned once by a total slut by chatting with her like her boyfriend LOL but hooked up with her recently after learning some game and being overall more confident and less needy. I am keeping texts to minimal except to set logistics to meet up and not being afraid to not respond sometimes. It actually feels good. I think I am getting better, any advice appreciated.

Here are the past few convo's.

Facebook cold message after liking my photo
Me: Lets go get xzy food? lol
Her: But I'm at the gym lol
Me: Im so dead from the gym earlier. I work out just so I can eat lots of xzy food
Her: XYZ food <3 smiley im doing zumba until 9
Her 20 minutes later: Call me 88888888
Me: I was just kidn I can't tonight I gotta finish this paper. Lets chill sometime though, k? (Probably should of just said busy not kidding)?
Her: just hmu
20 minutes later Her: Forsure

Was that last forsure like a f*ck u to me or was it answering my question saying she wants to chill? She did respond twice in row before. I actually had to write a paper and couldn't hang out that night. I want to hit her up by text in a few days trying to make plans? Shes 19 super hot and I actually kind of like her

Another Girl cold message facebook Slutty but has a BF
Me: Let's go get xyz food? lol
Her: I love xyz food my man is going to take me there now.
Me: No response I just chalk this up as a loss


ONS from last friday. age 22ish hot blond
Texted her Thursday
Me: Did you leave XYZ at my place?
Her: Nope
Me: Ok for sure btw we should again last weekend was fun n i cant believe (xyz funny thing happened)
her: Lol yeahhh Tongue Dude yeah that was insane xd
chit chat
Me: Are you going to xyz show
her: probably not
me: Yeah its far btw whats your number?
her: I don't give my number to strangers Tongue
Me: I guess I can just reach you through your boyfriends xyz lol (Really this dude she friendzoned who slept on my couch while I banged her)
Her: 88888888888 If I don't respond I am playing ddr
Me: I miss that game n mines 888888888888 (Probably should not of sent this one?)

ONS from last month - 7.0 blond kind of annoying personality but was cute and fun to bang
She texts me a bunch immediate days after, I respond a little and ignore some.
few weeks later I message Hey (stupid text with no game, I was drunk) and get no response
Few weeks later: I text What u doin I'm out by ur place wanna chill n get food or somethn
3 days later she replies
Her: hiiii! sry I just read this
2 days later Me: Oh dam. How was ur weekend?
No Response
I chalk this one up as a loss. Whatever. Or still try a random rebound text?

Girl I met on Facebook
Me: Yo what's up u tryna party tonight?
Her: yeaaaah im down but rnt u in xyz? lol
Me: Ya I am u should come though u could crash on my couch if u rlly wanted. (Love this line it throws down her guard) I'm in xyz neighborhood it's the funnest neighborhood
Her: sooo far lol
Me: where do u live by
Her: lol in xyz uk where that is?
Me: Yeah I go xyz there. Come that's not even that far with no traffic
Her: i dnt hav a car atm so yah impossible nd im not even by train
Me: Oh for sure it's cool. Let's chill some time though what's ur #
Her: 8888888888

Text:
Me: Hey it's xyz. Wanna go to xyz concert tonight I got a guestlist spot
Her: i would but I dont have a ride. I think I am going to a huge rager tonight
Me: Y u have to live so far lol
Her: Haha right idkkkk
On monday Me: How was your weekend. Do anything crazy lol
2 hours later Her: Heyyy
(Me no response, thinking text her next to make plans)



What plans do you guys make when the girl is under 21? Trying to think of something to invite girl #1 too. All these girls party and I bring girls to my place ofter. But #1 is busy and weekday plans would probably be easier.

[HankMoody]

This sort of exchange passes for communicaton nowadays?

Jesus.

[SomeFcksGiven]

The fuck did I just read?

I want to xyz my bleeding eyeballs.

[The_Don_Führer]

How hard is it to answer his questions? If you're going to attempt to tool him, you need to at least be entertaining.

Anyway,

1. No, it wasn't a "f*ck u" to you. She felt that "hmu" wasn't a good enough response. She likes you. You're overthinking this.

2. Just tell her to come to your house and cook with you. Learn how to cook something easy but really good and impress her with that. She can be your Sous chef.

Now, go get 'em, ya crazy kid!