[Beirut]

Yeah it must be american centric.

Im a big fan of creating attraction while texting. I feel like thats its my strong point actually. A majority of girls who i actually go on date with, whose numbers i took before or from online or whatever, id have already laid the groundwork while texting.

Once a girl is attracted you can revert to short and to the point mode but long drawn out conversations on whatsapp can be very useful.

I also will add that the app makes a difference. Standard text messages dont feel fluid. A whatsapp conversation does, for some reason.

[Sourcecode]

(11-30-2017 10:11 AM)Eugenics Wrote:  

Current girlfriend is like that.....

Thanks for the reply.
And yes... game isn't much of a problem.
She's been a regular since September.
I'm pretty sure she knows that this is purely friends with benefits relationship.
I've been with six other girls after her so far.

At this point.. I'm not running into issues getting laid.
I'm having this small oddball issues.

In having text issues with a lot of chicks. It's hit or miss.. I have a damn near automated system for pulling matches on tinder and in " real life"Game.

Pretty much.. If I don't meet the girl in a wrk.. I stop trying. Cut losses early.

Another problem is instant flakes.
Girls give the digits and never even respond to thev initial text.

One part of me doesn't care.. Cause I may have ten girls in texting.. At the sane time.. My level of success has me very entitled that a girl doesn't respond timely.
It's like. " Don't you know that I closed 5 girls last night?.. How dare you blow me off and ignore my text"

[torridon747]

I don't think shit like that is ever gonna change. You can't be batting 1000 when the baseball is a crazy damaged hoe that changes direction based on her feelings. You already know not to take it personally.

Sounds like you got real abundance, don't let it bother you. Fuck a girl that's not interested you got 4 more just like her in your pocket and 10 more on the way

Instant flakes have happened to me a quite a few times, usually it's lack of comfort or lack of attraction. High comfort low attraction = girl goes "nah". High attraction low comfort = scared cat. And then you have the random variables like bitches not feeling pretty that day, maybe she's on her period, maybe she...etc who fucking knows but thats on them and not you.

[DonnyGately]

(11-28-2015 11:53 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  

(tips 1-10 etc)

Sending short, laconic text messages is different and therefore intriguing....

Hank, given your recent post on struggling with online dating, do you think you need to revisit your earlier texting strategies? Or do you see them as totally separate animals?

If enough guys online have caught on that 'less is always more,' than that's no longer a good strategy. Acceptable, but not great.

I think 'short' = 'intriguing' is somewhat wishful thinking.