[Centurion]

Hey. I'm a recent university student who still lives with his parents. I've got a few leads from daygaming. My plan is to invite them out for drinks at a bar then escalate from there. My house is completely a no-go zone(like the Muslim areas in Europe), mostly because my parents won't be cool with it but also because it's really far from the city(30 minutes by bus, or 15 minutes if she would drive).

The downside with having the date in a bar right in the city is I need to rely completely on her logistics. I generally bus everywhere, but if she lives really far, I don't know if it would be okay to get her to drink and drive. If her place is also fucked whether it be distance, roommates or parents- then I would have to do it in a park somewhere and that seems difficult. It may be easier if I go to one of the bars in the suburbs but I'm not as familiar with those. Also, I've never been with a girl before so I don't want it to seem awkward to the girl.

Anyone got any helpful advice for me?

[Onto]

Get a job and buy a car.

[Centurion]

What's a more short term solution?

[roberto]

Find a hooker.

[Mercenary]

Set up a date in the daytime where you cook a meal together at her place.
Saves money and makes getting in her place much easier.

Alternatively if you have already kissed her and are sure she's DTF and have a credit card go to a budget chain hotel that’s central and not too expensive. With chain hotels you can be pretty sure it will be clean and relatively comfortable. If in doubt, look at photos on tripadvisor to know what the inside of the rooms look like. I like walk in-showers rather than bathtubs because they're much better for shower sex...so thats something I always check out there.

Remember to text your parents that you will back the next day or they will cockblock and blow up your phone.

[LINUX]

You're going to have to start fucking at the park. Most of us have done it a dozen times or more.

It's actually quite easy.

[Onto]

Cemetery's are great also, since they are large and have few people there. Find a cemetery that's park-like.

[Merenguero]

(11-08-2015 06:34 PM)LINUX Wrote:  

You're going to have to start fucking at the park. Most of us have done it a dozen times or more.

It's actually quite easy.

I went to school with a guy whose parents had no problem with this guy's friends bringing girls to their house to bang. I can't post the story here, but I managed to get permanently banned from this guy's house the summer after senior year of high school. I was young and didn't know any better, but I really can't blame that guy's mom for being pissed off.

[Bacchus]

Church parking lots are typically abandoned at night.

[fiveminrule]

Find out what area of town she lives in and choose a place near there, no need to go to a bar in the center. And if she has to drive, well then she has a car you can fuck in if her place is out of the question.

[Suits]

Ask your parents if you can have the master bedroom for the night.

[Aussie_Thinker]

Get a hippy van to drive around in. Can easily fit a mattress in them.

[boets]

Your best option is in a car

[Er Lollo]

I live with parents, I take girls home then at 8 am i kick them out

[AneroidOcean]

(11-08-2015 06:34 PM)LINUX Wrote:  

You're going to have to start fucking at the park. Most of us have done it a dozen times or more.

It's actually quite easy.

Fooled around so many times in a car in an empty parking lot or in a remote area.

You have to get creative.

To the OP: Why should you care if it's awkward for the girl more than you care if you get some action? Find a semi-private or private place (be it a park, a remote area that's dead at night, her car, her place, etc...) and make out, touch her all over, rub her pussy, put her hand on your hard dick, and go from there.

[TheFinalEpic]

Car is the best thing ever, get an SUV or a van and lay that back seat back. All my high school fucking was done in a car, the girls love it because "it'sss sooooo dangeroussssss".

[Centurion]

Thanks for your suggestions, will definitely use them.

(11-10-2015 09:02 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

To the OP: Why should you care if it's awkward for the girl more than you care if you get some action? Find a semi-private or private place (be it a park, a remote area that's dead at night, her car, her place, etc...) and make out, touch her all over, rub her pussy, put her hand on your hard dick, and go from there.

I care because I don't want her to reject me, and spend all this hard work for nothing.

[LA Savage]

You can try renting an airbnb room if you can afford it and know you will ahve a good chance at fucking her.

You can also rent a car off of the car sharing app Turo which used to be relay rides and try to fuck her in the car.

The main thing is you need a car with tinted windows as that will allow you to bang girls anywhere you go and at anytime.

I do it all the time and you can even check out my post about how I fucked a girl I met at school 20-30 minutes prior in my car.

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[Built to Fade]

We've all been in this scenario.
Nobody was born living on their on in a bachelor pad.

Your game needs to be razor sharp.
Screen for logistics early
"So who do you live with?" (direct)
"You seem like the kinda girl whos getting raised by their granny" (indirect)
Always as soon as possible.

Also, screen for slut tells
Tattoos, drinks, smokes, etc I can't list em all.

These tells & details will help you follow up the more of a "sure thing"
You can't afford to be wasting time with prudish ice queens, who lay next to daddy when it's thundering outside...

Run standard game as usual.
Drop bait of coming over to her place.
Invite yourself over to you and if needs be, be stranded, have a bottle for a night cap, an external hard drive with movies or music, drugs (I'm joking, sort of)

Once at her place, you're home free.
Ask for a tour, see her bedroom.
Enquire about her morning tomorrow indirectly (ie, time limit)
Boyfriend, room mate, family coming over etc.

I find that making yourself at home,
Puts you in position to call the shots sexually.
She can fix you up a sandwich but expecting her to initiate sex,
Is a bit too much for most women.

So push forward.
She invited you over, so that's all the consent you really need.

Good luck.

[coffeedrinker]

(11-12-2015 07:26 AM)1026 Wrote:  

We've all been in this scenario.
Nobody was born living on their on in a bachelor pad.

Your game needs to be razor sharp.
Screen for logistics early
"So who do you live with?" (direct)
"You seem like the kinda girl whos getting raised by their granny" (indirect)
Always as soon as possible.

Also, screen for slut tells
Tattoos, drinks, smokes, etc I can't list em all.

These tells & details will help you follow up the more of a "sure thing"
You can't afford to be wasting time with prudish ice queens, who lay next to daddy when it's thundering outside...

Run standard game as usual.
Drop bait of coming over to her place.
Invite yourself over to you and if needs be, be stranded, have a bottle for a night cap, an external hard drive with movies or music, drugs (I'm joking, sort of)

Once at her place, you're home free.
Ask for a tour, see her bedroom.
Enquire about her morning tomorrow indirectly (ie, time limit)
Boyfriend, room mate, family coming over etc.

I find that making yourself at home,
Puts you in position to call the shots sexually.
She can fix you up a sandwich but expecting her to initiate sex,
Is a bit too much for most women.

So push forward.
She invited you over, so that's all the consent you really need.

Good luck.

This post is really helpful to a situation I'll get in soon. I'll be half stranded and wondering if it's better to be direct "you've made me miss the last train, I'm gonna have to sleep at yours now" or tone it down and ask her "you've made me miss the last train, what I'm going to do now?"

I know direct is the way to go when inviting her to yours but it seems presumptuous to self inivite myself with a statement. Especially as she has flat mates that will know what's going on.

As much as I would want to just take her to a random corner/toilet/park/bush, I don't have the confidence to hold frame on a first date with such a plan yet.

[PapayaTapper]

"you've made me miss the last train, I'm gonna have to sleep at yours now. But dont get any funny ideas. We just met" (customize to suit)

Disarm the situation verbally then escalate like a champ

[coffeedrinker]

(01-18-2019 12:12 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

"you've made me miss the last train, I'm gonna have to sleep at yours now. But dont get any funny ideas. We just met" (customize to suit)

Disarm the situation verbally then escalate like a champ

That was the missing piece, thanks.

I've had two recent dates where the way I worded a sentence cockblocked myself from 1st night lay whereas it would have probably have happened so trying to be more prepared for the critical statements until it becomes natural. Girls always know when you lose frame.

[PapayaTapper]

(01-18-2019 02:26 PM)coffeedrinker Wrote:  

(01-18-2019 12:12 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

"you've made me miss the last train, I'm gonna have to sleep at yours now. But dont get any funny ideas. We just met" (customize to suit)

Disarm the situation verbally then escalate like a champ

That was the missing piece, thanks.

I've had two recent dates where the way I worded a sentence cockblocked myself from 1st night lay whereas it would have probably have happened so trying to be more prepared for the critical statements until it becomes natural. Girls always know when you lose frame.

Yep...Remember. Girls dont care what you say: they only care how you make them feel.

"Dont get any funny ideas about sex with me tonight" provides enough plausible deniability that they dont feel like a slut or that you think she's a slut (even though she may be one). But it also lets her know youre thinking about it and so maintains the playful / sexual tension