About me: Ethnically Jamaican with mixed heritage. I'm in graduate school now after a few years of getting my BA. I've been complimented on my looks quite a bit, and haven't really had to work too hard at my game. I just got out of a 3 year relationship, and am back in the game. My abilities have decreased dramatically. I'm far too analytical, polite, and the opposite of entertaining. During my four years of undergrad, I've attempted to procure one of the Asian females on campus to no avail, but I've had successes with all others.
About a week ago, I met a freshman Chinese girl on the bus, she started chatting me up, and I ended up getting her number once we got to our destination. According to Roosh’s scale 1-10, she’s a 7. She was born in China, but moved here when she was 8. She's very social, and passive. Since then, we've been talking, and have gone out twice. The first time out to lunch at a restaurant, the second time to a haunted house. She's been highly consist with her text messaging, but I'm completely unable to read her. She's very different than any girl that I've ever tried gaming before, and I'm not sure what the social cues are to hint that she likes me or that I can make the next step. E.g. At the haunted house, I would try to position/brsuh my hand near/against hers to hold it, and she didn't pick up. At this point in time, she's enthusiastic about hanging out with me when I ask her to, but she doesn't initiate contact without a prompt. I've told her I liked her, and that I had trouble reading her, but she only told me that she was an open book, and that I could read her. Since then, she's held a conversation with me without much effort on my part, but now that the conversation has died, I don't think she'll initiate contact again without me prompting her. She seems to be more tomboyish than the typical female, that or it’s her Asianness. Anyone have any advice on the best way to proceed?
About a week ago, I met a freshman Chinese girl on the bus, she started chatting me up, and I ended up getting her number once we got to our destination. According to Roosh’s scale 1-10, she’s a 7. She was born in China, but moved here when she was 8. She's very social, and passive. Since then, we've been talking, and have gone out twice. The first time out to lunch at a restaurant, the second time to a haunted house. She's been highly consist with her text messaging, but I'm completely unable to read her. She's very different than any girl that I've ever tried gaming before, and I'm not sure what the social cues are to hint that she likes me or that I can make the next step. E.g. At the haunted house, I would try to position/brsuh my hand near/against hers to hold it, and she didn't pick up. At this point in time, she's enthusiastic about hanging out with me when I ask her to, but she doesn't initiate contact without a prompt. I've told her I liked her, and that I had trouble reading her, but she only told me that she was an open book, and that I could read her. Since then, she's held a conversation with me without much effort on my part, but now that the conversation has died, I don't think she'll initiate contact again without me prompting her. She seems to be more tomboyish than the typical female, that or it’s her Asianness. Anyone have any advice on the best way to proceed?