[Turkish Republican]

Sometimes we have killer nights, sometimes we have fucked up nights where we crash and burn. All the players have their ups and downs. Crashing and burning consecutively might take a toll on your psychology if you're not an experienced player. Since the online dating environment is tilted heavily in favor of women I'm sure there are a lot of guys around who let it play with their head. It might even get near suicidial for you if you're also dealing with family problems on the side.


Sometimes you'll feel like the ugliest person in the world where you swipe 100 times on Tinder and don't get matched with anybody. It does really take a toll on your confidence.

And then you make approaches but you crash and burn every single time, maybe sometimes 5-6 times in a row. I have a technique which lets you get into the mood again. If your game level is poor to mediocre, nights like these will destroy your confidence.

This method will get your confidence levels back up.

Here is what you do.

Create a fake facebook profile with a fake name.
Use the fake facebook profile to make a new tinder account.
Spoof your location to some distant country (E.g Australia if you're in USA)
Change the option from seeking girls to seeking men.

Leave tinder on for 1 hour, you don't need to swipe.
After an hour start swiping for 3-4 mins only.

You will get match after match with decent looking guys (No homo), if you're half decent looking. You might even get some super likes.

Most of the time these guys will start sending you messages.

You will tell yourself If I can get matched with guys who are 7-8 in looks, then I can easily get women who are on the same level of looks. You know that gay guys are usually selective, so if you match with guys who are in the higher tier in terms of looks it basically means you can get the girl equivalent of it easily, just with more effort.

Then you will close that Tinder account, and start doing approaches again. Your confidence levels will go back up to the original level in 99% of the time.

I know some members will think of my topic as gay trolling but its not, you might have self confidence issues or psychological problems for variety of reasons. I don't know another way where you can get your confidence level back up in such a small amount of time.

I had a time in my life where I thought I was the ugliest person alive because of this, my LTR played with my head into thinking I'm not good looking. Well I was heavily blue pill back then, this happened 8 years ago when I was 17 years old. If I knew of a technique like this the trauma wouldn't last for 2 years, maybe it would last for only 1 day.

The online dating market which is heavily tilted in favor of women will give you a distorted view of your real SMV.

I think this is the most objective way to gauge your real SMV, because in the gay dating market I don't think any party or race has the advantage over the other. The rules are fair for everybody. You will get your real SMV. I'm sure you've never seen a lesbian who is a 7 in looks, date a 4 or vice versa.

If you don't have confidence issues, you can test this method with a girl profile who is a 4, set it to searching for women, you will only get matched with 2-3-4-5's and the very very rare 6. I think this method is foolproof for getting your real SMV.

It is objective as hell, you will only get judged for your looks because you will have a blank profile. Just don't display wealth or anything if you want it to be 100% objective. And if you're white do not set the location to China, Thailand or any 3rd world country, you will not get an objective SMV because of the white god factor.

I just want to give back to the community, cheers.

[MrRoundtree]

Or just be confident, always

[Turkish Republican]

(10-19-2015 09:44 PM)MrRoundtree Wrote:  

Or just be confident, always

Easier said than done. After a while you will naturally become confident as you game more and more, but until then you have to fake it until its real.

[redbeard]

Even if this method is useful, you are still dependent on social media approval for happiness.

You are doing yourself a disservice if you take peoples' opinions so deeply.

Here are some other ways to improve confidence (without switching your tinder settings to "homosexual"):

Lift heavy weights
Meditate
Go for walk
Read a book
Write in a journal

Here's a good podcast from MikeCF about Abundance Mentality. Picking up his book will help out too.

http://www.dangerandplay.com/2014/07/08/...mentality/

[Dusty]

[Phoenix]

So... OP was actually a faggot?

[Dino]

Walgreens called. He never picked up his medicine.