[Rawmeo]

The guys here pretty much laid out the basic points. Do some recon. Facetime and skype are good indicators. If she turns out to be fat anyway, she outright depectived you and you don't even need to sit down.

[evilbuttmunch]

(10-22-2015 11:56 AM)Mother Russia Wrote:  

(10-13-2015 09:58 PM)evilbuttmunch Wrote:  

What usually happens... girl messages you first, and she seems really smart, outgoing, fit and a little bit cute and it's a little surprising because 95% of the women who send you winks and likes are obese, have terrible jobs, debt, kids, or have something wrong with their face. And then you talk on the phone for ten minutes and agree to meet for coffee that weekend and then after looking at her and talking for two minutes it hits you. This girl has Asperger's. It's happened to me 3 times in the past year. What just hit the fan with me is that I was literally tricked last night by a girl whose pictures were just a biiiiiit too blurry. Turns out she had fucking severe fetal alcohol syndrome. Not just that but a shitty personality. Anyone ever get tricked by an online date? Did you walk out, nod politely and leave after a half hour, or see how much of an asshole you could be to her before she cracks?

How could you tell she had Aspergers after two minutes? I'm not mocking you, I am genuinely curious for my own knowledge. I mean, something like DOwns Syndrome you can easily tell by looking at a person's face, but with aspergers and autism the signs are not on a person's face AFAIK.

There's a very particular voice that (at least some) women with Asperger's have. It's hard to describe but they usually speak quickly with odd pauses and modulated ptich. They also have an emotional disconnect in their voice and body language that is not just social awkwardness and they won't get basic humor or nuance of language, at least not on the same level as the average person. But Asperger's is on a spectrum so it'll vary.

[evilbuttmunch]

I actually did do reconnaissance, but couldn't find ANYTHING about her online. Not having any social media profiles is itself sketchy in many different ways. Most people will have one that they simply rarely use.

First thing I do is google the girl's user name. Most women use the same or nearly the same user name as they do on Instagram or Twitter. You can sometimes get a full name from this because they're less guarded account these accounts.

Once you have a full name you can get to linkedin (which I never click on while logged in myself because linkedin will show her other accounts who visited her profile), or Facebook. You can also sometimes get to Facebook by searching her first name and city or simply by having a girl's number. Facebook has a setting to recommend people you know and they'll go through your contacts on your phone.

For example, I found out that the cute, sweet, down to earth, intelligent girl I've just been talking to on Match committed burglary with her boyfriend while she was in college, and she's still friends with him on FB.

[PapayaTapper]

(10-14-2015 06:24 AM)... Wrote:  

I got SIF'd last night in Belgrade. I met this girl from Tinder but she turned out to be a bit.. pudgy. I think she realised that I didn't approve, since she mentioned several times that she needed to lose weight and she was even egging me on to game other women(!).

She took me to a dive bar and I was starting to chat up a tall Serbian/Russian vixen. That didn't pan out, and since this bar seemed to be some kind of Neo-Nazi hangout, after they started to play some Serbian "patriotic" music we decided to go what she called a "shit" club (this club is called Mr. Stefan Braun for future reference).

Within five minutes of being in there, I had to keep my jaw from dropping to the ground with all the hotties in there. Within another five minutes I started chatting to one of these hotties.

After yet another five minutes had passed the SIF decided to go home where it was pretty disappointed/pissed off that I had abandoned her for a slim 22 yo.

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