[Pride male]

A guy at work came in one day with a bite mark on his chest. His wife had caught him cheating, again. She bit him in a fit of anger. They are still happily married.

Heartiste has a couple of posts explaining how women want you to cheat because it shows you are desirable. If so, what are the ground rules for cheating?

Do women want you to cheat with hot women only?
Do they want you to cheat but dont want it to be too obvious?
Do they want you to deny even if caught red handed?
Is it okay if you apologise?
Should you earn more than her,so she depends on you?
Can you cheat but not with any of her friends?
Can you cheat as long as there is no 'emotional attachment'?
If they want you to cheat what about Tiger Woods?
How do you react when caught?

[poledaddy]

I believe in Rational Male there's a quote along the lines of: "Woman don't want a man to cheat, but they love a man who could cheat"

[Simeon_Strangelight]

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Do women want you to cheat with hot women only? YES
Do they want you to cheat but dont want it to be too obvious? They are by far mor forgiving when it is discrete.
Do they want you to deny even if caught red handed? Yes.

"It is not what it looks like, darling!"


Is it okay if you apologise? NO - apologies do not matter.
Should you earn more than her,so she depends on you? If she earns more than you, then you have a divorce risk of 80-90% anyway, even if you do not cheat. If your SMV is way higher than her, then cheating might be acceptable.
Can you cheat but not with any of her friends? That certainly hurts her more unless you manage to convince her into a threesome.
Can you cheat as long as there is no 'emotional attachment'? Yes - many women will forgive hookers way more easier than a girl who fell in love with you.
If they want you to cheat what about Tiger Woods? Tiger Woods was famous, which is a problem in itself when cheating. He also fucked girls for years and many many many people knew about it - likely his wife too. She looked away as long as the whole world did not know about it. Later on it was impossible for her to keep up the charade. Many women married to extremely wealthy or famous men know that their husbands cheat, but accept it.
How do you react when caught? Deny. Never happened. Even deny when caught on video. Make sure that your LTR is understanding. If you make it clear up front it can be done. Even if she is - deny it anyway.


Generally I agree with Rollo, that women want you to be able to cheat with the hottest top-models, but want you to resist and fuck only her. Too bad, that those things usually are contrary in nature. That is why some women I know accept the Red Pill, but are hesitant about introducing their husbands to it - they want them to be more Alpha, but are afraid that he realizes that he can also be way more Alpha with younger hotter women.

[RockHard]

(11-16-2014 03:57 PM)Pride male Wrote:  

Do women want you to cheat with hot women only?

I can tell you what they don't want: if she asks what the other woman was like, don't say she's like your SO. It's better if you were after something different.

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Do they want you to cheat but dont want it to be too obvious?
If they want you to cheat what about Tiger Woods?

You answered your own questions here. Tiger was exposed by the National Enquirer. His wife got publicly humiliated. That's why she went ballistic - Tiger did a shitty job picking a side piece. Now Tiger's a different story because he's a celeb, but the short of it is: it's one thing to get caught cheating. It's much worse for someone else to catch you cheating and tell your wife about it. It's much much worse for her to read about it in the paper.

[PapayaTapper]

(11-16-2014 05:41 PM)Zelcorpion Wrote:  

How do you react when caught? Deny. Never happened. Even deny when caught on video.

"It wasn't me" Repeat endlessly until she believes it. She will eventually because she wants to.

The moment you admit it or apologize..done

[TheMaleBrain]

From my experience spinning plates, when they know they are exclusive to me, but I'm not exclusive to them (sometimes they consider it "cheating"):

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...what are the ground rules for cheating?

Don't get caught.
IF caught - Deny
Maxim #31: If you plan on cheating and subsequently get caught, act like a total dick who did nothing wrong. Your girlfriend will then wonder if it’s something she did.

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Do women want you to cheat with hot women only?

No. That scares them. They would prefer not to know.

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Do they want you to cheat but dont want it to be too obvious?

No. They want you to be desired by other women. That is THEIR prize.

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Do they want you to deny even if caught red handed?

See first question

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Is it okay if you apologise?

Pull the Bill Clinton maneuver and say “Mistakes were made” or tell her you “feel bad” about what you did. You are granted two freebie “I’m sorry”s for the life of your relationship; use them wisely. (Poon Commandment VIII).

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Should you earn more than her,so she depends on you?

Yes. But because of Hypergamy.

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Can you cheat but not with any of her friends?

Preferred. Too much drama.

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Can you cheat as long as there is no 'emotional attachment'?

And as long as they don't get details, or that you are caught. Important - They don't discuss it with their friends.

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If they want you to cheat what about Tiger Woods?

He is an Alpha celebrity. Once you are Tiger Woods, we will discuss again.

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How do you react when caught?

Cannot emphasize it enough - DO NOT GET CAUGHT!
If caught - see above.

Whatever you do - Don't loose your wits or make an emotional reaction. Prepare for it.