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Customizing My Game
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Customizing My Game

He's baaaack...

Hello! Everyone's (least) favorite basket case here. I have some questions that I hope other members of the community can shed light on, hopefully without too much self-flagellation and ego bruising.

For those of you who haven't been following my tragicomedy, I've finally stabilized my Prozac dosage and had several realizations, namely that employing "game tactics" was actually counterproductive to my goal, as I found out from a female friend later. Being aloof and silent made me come off as stiff and cold rather than cool. It also turns out this was the reason why the girl I was after a few months ago rejected me: although I seemed decent initially, I was too cold and didn't really seem that interested in her. [Image: undecided.gif]

I decided to go "game-free" for a while (that is, not worry about what to say or "being alpha") and use my natural ADHD charisma instead. It has been way more successful - for me, it's better to be very warm, fun, and friendly rather than "cool." But there are still some aspects I'm puzzled about which perhaps can be explained by others.

1. ADHD game, or "crazyfool game," is extremely, extremely effective with black and Latina women at disarming any hostility or resistance, based on tests run in NYC. It's also fairly effective with urbanized Asian girls. Part of this may be contrast game - these women don't expect a tall, thin, "cute nerdy" white guy to be so quick-witted or confident. But for whatever reason - and I still don't know why - it doesn't work with white people. It's as though most white people are completely unresponsive, either missing the humor completely, or failing to react. If a white girl is interested in me, it's generally because of my looks (marginally above average,) height (6' 4") or status (Ivy League.) That's not to say that I can't deal with white people - it's just that I don't have that extra edge with people of my own race, generally. Why?

2. I have a weird ability to attract Indian girls, and to a lesser extent Asian girls and "nerdy" white girls. I'm guessing this is because of the "cute nerdy guy" thing but it's weird how it seems like 2 out of every 3 Indian girls I meet seem to find me at least somewhat attractive. However, I prefer black and latina girls because I like curves and full-figured women. Should I just stick with what I'm good at or am I missing something?

3. I am going to be in a major US city for at least several weeks during this summer, in which the girl who "broke me in" lives. Should I contact her to try to get some more practice, or do I not want to open that particular can of worms?
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Its good you are letting your natural personality out.
Check out RSD's products and videos. You sound like a person who'd really benefit of their teachings(Letting your natural personality shine).
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Quote: (06-18-2011 10:41 AM)thecrazyfool Wrote:  

1. ADHD game, or "crazyfool game," is extremely, extremely effective with black and Latina women at disarming any hostility or resistance, based on tests run in NYC. It's also fairly effective with urbanized Asian girls. Part of this may be contrast game - these women don't expect a tall, thin, "cute nerdy" white guy to be so quick-witted or confident. But for whatever reason - and I still don't know why - it doesn't work with white people. It's as though most white people are completely unresponsive, either missing the humor completely, or failing to react. If a white girl is interested in me, it's generally because of my looks (marginally above average,) height (6' 4") or status (Ivy League.) That's not to say that I can't deal with white people - it's just that I don't have that extra edge with people of my own race, generally. Why?

White people are probably used to other white people and their outlook and behavior. White people also have a very strange perception of funny and unfunny (sorry white guys on the forum). To them you're probably just another White Guy acting a bit hyper. Black girls see you as different to them so automatically your jokes and actions become more funny and interesting. They also have a better sense of humor.

Quote: (06-18-2011 10:41 AM)thecrazyfool Wrote:  

2. I have a weird ability to attract Indian girls, and to a lesser extent Asian girls and "nerdy" white girls. I'm guessing this is because of the "cute nerdy guy" thing but it's weird how it seems like 2 out of every 3 Indian girls I meet seem to find me at least somewhat attractive. However, I prefer black and latina girls because I like curves and full-figured women. Should I just stick with what I'm good at or am I missing something?

Any Indian on this forum will probably hotly deny it, but in general Indians are given the message by their parents that "White is right, Black is wack". Indians automatically look up to White people and down at Black people. It's probably ingrained into the culture since White people colonized India for about 300+ years.

Quote: (06-18-2011 10:41 AM)thecrazyfool Wrote:  

3. I am going to be in a major US city for at least several weeks during this summer, in which the girl who "broke me in" lives. Should I contact her to try to get some more practice, or do I not want to open that particular can of worms?
Haha you could try. Just don't make a big deal about it.
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I've always had the best results when I go out with the mindset to have fun rather than to pick up chicks. I'm pretty high energy and naturally a smart ass so when I go out to have a good time with my friends, girls see me as fun and cocky/overly confident. If I go out just to try and meet girls, I have noticed that I come off as trying too hard and always strike out. Just forget about pick up and go out with your buddies to have the most fun you can. The best girls I've hooked up with were the ones I met when game was the last thing on my mind.
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Quote: (06-18-2011 05:26 PM)wi30 Wrote:  

I've always had the best results when I go out with the mindset to have fun rather than to pick up chicks. I'm pretty high energy and naturally a smart ass so when I go out to have a good time with my friends, girls see me as fun and cocky/overly confident. If I go out just to try and meet girls, I have noticed that I come off as trying too hard and always strike out. Just forget about pick up and go out with your buddies to have the most fun you can. The best girls I've hooked up with were the ones I met when game was the last thing on my mind.

If you go out with the "gonna get laid" attitude you also risk the night not going how you wanted, which will throw off your demeanor and swagger and make you even more likely to fail. Go out with a just have fun attitude and short of someone punching you, its hard to not achieve that goal.

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Yeah, you're probably right about the "hyper" thing. Uptight or humorless people sort of give me a funny look, like "are you on crack?" or something. Eventually they loosen up a bit but it takes a little while.

You guys hit the nail on the head with the "don't think about it" advice. Every bit of success I've ever had came unintentionally/unexpectedly/with little to no effort. Every time I actually TRY to make something happen it never does. I just have to work on my "don't fuck up for the millionth time" game for when something does happen.

I don't have any buddies to go out with, though... maybe I should get some... and learn how to dance!
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