Quote: (09-25-2015 04:10 PM)XPQ21 Wrote:
Thanks for the reply. Frankly, the second chick was just kind of weird. She had her phone out and was poking away at it within ten minutes of meeting me, and she got all pissed when I wouldn't pay for her food. Regardless of her slut talk, I sort of feel that at least for me it was kind of a lost cause. Again, she was just really strange for a lot of reasons.
You lost frame immediately after she went to her go to Boyfriend - her iPhone.
If you knew it was strange, immediately eject, don't wast anymore money or minutes of your life on her.
If a bitch is ever on her phone when we're on a date, i'll do one of the following:
-"Good idea I need to let X know that I don't need an escape text" -grin-
-"Don't tell me
you're one of those girls whose ALWAYS on their phone" -grin-
-Touch her screen playfully as she's texting
-Grab her phone and put it in her purse
-Grab her phone and put it on your farthest side
-JOKINGLY let her know that's one of your pet peeves.
-If she's still being a bitch about it, close YOUR tab out, and leave her with hers when she goes to the bathroom
You actually just reminded me to put my LTR's phone usage in check around me (see even I need reminding !)
I would've laughed at her face if she got mad I didn't pay for her and would've straight bounced without a word.
Another problem, you guys got food, without her investing anything.
Always keeps dates at a bar or drinking venue, keep it to a drink or 2 and maybe an app. THEN venue change if she's cool in your book, or cut your losses and bounce.
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I think you nailed it on the first one though. I kissed her too fucking much and it made me seem thirsty.
Yeah man, I never kiss a chick until the end of the date, especially if I know she isn't coming home with me, keep her guessing, be mysterious.
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Well, I got another one on Sunday. I'll try to pull way back on the physical stuff as it clearly doesn't seem to be working for me, but I don't often have the logistics to pull same day stuff. How am I supposed to "escalate" then?
DON'T escalate with a shit ton of Kino, you don't want to "scare the cat", play "don't fuck up game".
You aren't going to bang EVERY girl you have sex with on the first date. It happens.
Maybe you should only go on dates when you have solid logistics to back home to, that way you aren't worried about it in the back of your head. OR car bang, park bang, whatever, bitches love adventure.
Logistics are important as fuck, and always have a Plan B. I've lost some great notches because of this.
Focus more on
connecting with her emotionally, that's the bridge to a sexual connection, especially in the dating arena.
You can make a bitches gina tingle without even touching her man. I had a bitch yesterday say she was so turned on by me - I haven't even met this bitch, and I got her number an hour before she said that !
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As someone said in another thread:
You hear stories from chicks of bad first dates where guys pushed really hard for sex and they got creeped. Well, if she thinks you're attractive and your game is reasonably tight (and you know when to quit), she's going to want to see you again, even if she doesn't feel comfortable enough to hit it yet. So when women complain about guys who push for sex, they're complaining about unattractive guys trying to have sex with them.
This is correct.
Yeah it's true girls can get creeped out fast with too much Kino. I've had a bitch walk out on me - we got tea, she came over, had her topless, then she had the "wait I'm not a slut anymore" epiphany and walked out on me.
Remember,
it's only creepy if you're unattractive to them.
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For me I think it's definitely false. I know for a fact that whatever 45 year old dude this chick was banging in a threesome however long ago doesn't really have anything on me in that regard - so it's frustrating that he's the one getting the action and I'm not.
It's not false man, stop with the self defeating attitude.
He OBVIOUSLY has something on you if he banged the girl you're on a date with AND another girl.
An old man CAN be attractive to a young woman, that man needs to dress well, be successful, and take care of himself first.
You can't hate on a dude who had a threesome, I'd high five every mother fucker who had one on the threesome thread in person if I could.
That threesome is a non issue, the issue is you working on your game/frame/health/style/looks etc.