Dont focus on banging her yet...
Seduction
1 eye contact
2 talk
3 physical contact
4 kiss
5 foreplay
6 oral
7 sex
Start mastering each step, you aren't ready for 7 yet but it will be depending on how much time you put in to getting numbers. I believe you are up to 3 or 4.
3. when I talk a woman, if I want to get in close I turn to the side (non threating). If you talk face to face (very close) it's threating at first. So for example you are right next to her, say "what" as if you didn't hear her, move in with your ear and put your hand on her lower back. If she doesn't move away she is comfortable with 3. You can start turning your body towards hers. If she pulls away, move back and repeat (give and go). Giving physical contact then pull away makes a girl hot for more. Make sure you look deep into her eyes as well. Don't look down (beta), look up if you need to look away.
After you take her out to a place, later on just grab her hand when you are going to another location and hold it.
4. Kiss test- talk to her face to face (once she is comfortable with 3) and start whispering in her ear (works best in a loud environment). Now get in very close when u need to say something (your lips and her lips nearly touch) then detour to her ear. If she moves back, she isn't ready to be kissed yet so repeat 3 a bit more. Pull back on 3 for a little then start 3 and redo the kiss test. If she doesn't move her head back, kiss her cause that is what she wants.
ALWAYS go for the kiss at the end of the date. Who cares if she rejects you, 9/10 of the time she is going on a date with you cause she likes you and is just waiting for you to kiss her. If you don't make an emotional impact such as a kiss, the chances of seeing her again is slim.
If you want to take her back to your place, just say "have you seen (something interesting you have at home)." Hopefully she will say no then jump into your car and take her back to your place. It's also always good to get her to drive to your place for a date, that way she has to come back to your place.
For now practice 3 and 4 which is basically foreplay for women which gets them wet. Once you are back at your place it's very easy to escalate into sex. Just start making out with her (you on top), dry rooting, start feeling her up, get her to do the same and just take her pants off and fuck her. I usually skip oral until later these days, I prefer to jump a step