Quote: (09-18-2017 11:15 PM)Paracelsus Wrote:
The only thing I find illuminating about that article is that the hamster wheels didn't start rolling until the women found out what the guy really thought about them.
Remember, not one of these women were looking for a relationship. Each and every one knew and accepted that the relationship was "casual", i.e. bumping uglies.
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“Having my heart broken by someone I never had an emotional investment in — it’s awful,” said C.
It is awful, but not for the reason you think it is, love.
Quote: (09-19-2017 10:00 AM)John Michael Kane Wrote:
I'm guessing these girls were saying that they didn't want to relationships only to save face. They originally went causal in hopes of locking him down. It didn't happen, so they go angry after his writings w the discovered. They are the classic jilted lover. If it was casual, they wouldn't have bothered with the witch hunt. Their actions betray their words.
That, and they just had their world view blown apart.
Grandma always said that men don't respect easy women, and stuff like "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" But grandma didn't know what she was talking about, she was a victim of the patriarchy, having been married to the same man her whole.
Mom on the other hand, grew up weaned on
Sex Positive Feminism articles in magazines and books. The world view that taught that being a stripper or a porn "star" is empowering for women. Casual sex with multiple people is empowering so long as all are
ethical and honest. That is why these actively girls encouraged each other to fuck that coffee shop owners. Nevermind that Mom is now alone and buys wine by the box, she is still pretending her way worked out. She believes it so long as she is drunk and occasionally gets fucked by 3 am slump-busters.
So these girls read the now-exposed blog and learned that grandma was right all along, these guys have no respect for them whatsoever, and in fact do see themselves as committing too, but not to an aging thot. But to admit it to themselves is an admission of failure and would require self-improvement and a new world view. Instead they double down and get angry at the men.