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Strong desire to have children
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Strong desire to have children

Quote: (09-16-2015 04:22 PM)The Wire Wrote:  

Quote: (09-16-2015 03:14 AM)The Beast1 Wrote:  

Remember, nature doesn't care what your opinions are.

If you don't pass your genes onto the next generation, you're a failure in the cold eyes of evolution. It's a shame that many solid dudes with good life experience have basically eliminated themselves from the gene pool.

You've basically shown that your genes are unfit for procreation via means of mental disabilities as opposed to physical ones. Disabilities are anything that prevent your genes from passing onto the next generation.


Remember, doing exactly what nature wants you to do in a first world modern society is basically the worst thing you can do. When you get cut off in traffic the monkey part of your brains wants you to pull the other driver out and beat him to death. Nature wants you to overeat because it still thinks it's 5000 BC and you don't know when your next meal is coming. Nature wants you to ejaculate in as many woman as you possibly can for the rest of your life. We all know doing those things will lead you to being put in jail, overweight and having 15 baby mommias with child support leaving you in jail, fat and or broke. Irony is that these are traits you tend to see in under-develop ghettos in the US which nobody wants to emulate. It's not a coincidence that countries with the highest birthrates are the worst places to live in the world by a large margin.

Some people are obsessed with perpetuating the family line since they think this is the road to immortality. The only way to immortality is death. Within only a few generations you will be forgotten.

This isn't anti-children post and i'd like to have kids at some point but using mental masturbation points like "you're a failure in the cold eyes of evolution" isn't exactly compelling in modern society IMO.

You completely proved my point. Nature is the expression of ones genes in the outer world, nothing more. Nature is dictating that the more basal elements of human behavior are being selected instead of traits like intelligence. Which by the way, high intelligence is dysgenic as we can see in these posts by obviously very intelligent men and women saying, "I never want kids because women are trash!" or "I don't want a family, I want to work!"

You want to stop the tide of dumb people ruling the world? Find a smart chick and turn that birth rate around. This has nothing to do with immortality of ones name and more to do with doing what is right to further ones society.
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#27

Strong desire to have children

I intend to have 3 children (4 if my 'economic condition' allows it but this is doubtful). I don't see what else exactly will give my life meaning in my 40s and beyond.
Have you met an older guy who has no children? Most of them are pretty miserable. Unless, of course, they are mindless hedonists which I am not.
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Strong desire to have children

Quote: (09-18-2015 06:40 AM)johnfortunebg Wrote:  

I intend to have 3 children (4 if my 'economic condition' allows it but this is doubtful). I don't see what else exactly will give my life meaning in my 40s and beyond.
Have you met an older guy who has no children? Most of them are pretty miserable. Unless, of course, they are mindless hedonists which I am not.

Shaming troll huh
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Strong desire to have children

Quote: (09-15-2015 04:19 PM)XXL Wrote:  

To the point. I'm 30 now. I had a lot of time to meditate about women, life lately and my big regret is not having kids 10 years ago.

I've always thought that I have to do very well financially first, that I have to be "ready" for it, that the girl has to be outstanding, etc, basically that it had to be well planned and well timed for the baby's good. However now I'm thinking it was just a mix of excuses, fear and rationalizations. Truth is there is never a perfect moment for having kids. All I had to do was just to do it, go with it and take care of it like a grown man. Besides, I think it's cool to be young father as there is no as big generation gap between you and your kid.

Now that I have such regrets I feel this strong urge to have kids. I look at women differently now. I noticed I'm paying attention to their personalities and mother/wife qualities much more than their looks/sex appeal etc.

Anyone relate?

Yes. This was the age that I looked for a wife, found one, got married, and had kids. I was very very lucky in some ways but less lucky in many other ways.

It's like climbing a mountain. Here are the odds any time you climb a mountain:

20% chance it might be glorious.
60% chance you'll struggle through and feel that...you did ok...glad to have made it and glad I did it, even if it wasn't perfect.
20% chance it will be a disaster and you will be fucked for life, and your kids too.

But the alternative is..what? You are 50 years old and realizing that you're now headed down towards death in 20 years, with no kids to smile at? I would rather chance 20% disaster, rather than never take the plunge, which is 100% guaranteed to produce regret.

That being said, the quality of potential wives is horrible. You will have a tough time choosing. If there are no qualified candidates, you might have to give up anyway, since you don't want to be in the 20% disaster zone.

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Strong desire to have children

Quote: (09-18-2015 06:40 AM)johnfortunebg Wrote:  

I intend to have 3 children (4 if my 'economic condition' allows it but this is doubtful). I don't see what else exactly will give my life meaning in my 40s and beyond.
Have you met an older guy who has no children? Most of them are pretty miserable. Unless, of course, they are mindless hedonists which I am not.

Guilty as charged

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