[Oneitis]

Hey guys, I met a girl at a wedding last weekend and it turns out we live in the same city. She was there with her boyfriend but we really hit it off and have been messaging on facebook with obvious flirting. It's obviously a delicate situation with her having a boyfriend, but can anyone suggest how I might push it to see if she'd be interested in meeting up?

[Kaii]

(09-16-2015 10:56 AM)Oneitis Wrote:  

Hey guys, I met a girl at a wedding last weekend and it turns out we live in the same city. She was there with her boyfriend but we really hit it off and have been messaging on facebook with obvious flirting. It's obviously a delicate situation with her having a boyfriend, but can anyone suggest how I might push it to see if she'd be interested in meeting up?

Hey man. I just don't ever think a girl with a boyfriend is ever worth pursuing. There are plenty of fish in the sea, go after a single one. You are only asking for trouble.

[eradicator]

(09-16-2015 10:56 AM)Oneitis Wrote:  

Hey guys, I met a girl at a wedding last weekend and it turns out we live in the same city. She was there with her boyfriend but we really hit it off and have been messaging on facebook with obvious flirting. It's obviously a delicate situation with her having a boyfriend, but can anyone suggest how I might push it to see if she'd be interested in meeting up?

"have a drink with me at x bar tomorrow at 8pm"

I don't think it's a delicate situation at all. Try to escalate and then bang. Most of the girls I have banged already have boyfriends and are willing to cheat. The fact is that most good looking women will have a guy in their life of some sorts, you can try to game them anyways, some of them will bang, some won't.

[PapayaTapper]

^^^ This

Question has been asked and answered a 1000 times

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(09-10-2015 04:06 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

Attractive girls that age will change 'boyfriends' like we change socks...sort of like





Remember this: To girls a BF =
1) social status,
2)attention, and
3) meal ticket.


She gave you her number because she's open to "upgrading" her situation. If she was 100% committed to the BF she wouldn't have given you her number/ contact. But she's not going to let go of the last BF (branch) until she's got next one "in hand".

I'd pretend she never mentioned the BF. Plow ahead...but be a man not a weenie chode. She needs to believe you are an upgrade. If you do the next branch she grabs will be your tool.

[GlobalMan]

The fact she has a boyfriend means nothing.

The vast majority of girls I end up banging or dating had some kind of "boyfriend" when I met them. I was the upgrade. Cute, interesting girls aren't single for long, if you're avoiding ones with boyfriends then you're avoiding the largest pool of bangable women.

At least half of them didn't mention it until we were already getting into it. The rest downplayed the fact they had a boyfriend or flat out didn't care. They didn't want to miss the opportunity.

[PapayaTapper]

(09-16-2015 10:59 AM)Kaii Wrote:  

Hey man. I just don't ever think a girl with a boyfriend is ever worth pursuing. There are plenty of fish in the sea, go after a single one. You are only asking for trouble.

From a perspective of personal ethics I agree with you. Never ever ever EVER fuck with a buddy or family member's GF or wife. EVER. There are way too many free range vaginas running around for that

From the BF perspective if I have a "GF" and she's attending functions without me and is receptive to other random dudes?....fuck that cunt. Other dude can have her duplicitous ass and good riddance. He's doing me a favor

[Rawmeo]

A girl has NO boyfriend until she uses it as an excuse to cockblock you. Act like she has no boyfriend.