[trxtangy1]

Hey all

Im pretty new to 'gaming'

So here's my situation, Im a transfer student (22 years old) at a 4 year university

I live in the dorms, and it seems to me the best way of meeting girls is at the dining commons

I always try and scope them out and see if they are by themselves and not their huge network of girlfriends, so once they are alone I go in, BUT here's the problem, Im not sure what to say (other than the generic "mind if I sit here")

Now keep in mind these are mostly freshman girls (18-19 year old) and Im 22


Im just not sure what to hook them in with, without looking like Im a creeper just waiting for a girl to be alone at a table to talk with them


I greatly appreciate any feedback

[Seth_Rose]

(08-29-2015 02:26 PM)trxtangy1 Wrote:  

I live in the dorms, and it seems to me the best way of meeting girls is at the dining commons

I strongly disagree. What's your logic for meeting women here? I never met anyone in college who picked up a chick at the commons. Not saying it can't be done, but I don't think it's nearly as effective as a house or frat party.

If you were to do it, just make casual conversation at first. Then ask her what she's up to this weekend. The key here is to have something going on yourself, invite her and her friends to come with, then run game from there.

[Sonoma]

I try to chat them in line, it was never crowded enough at my school to end up naturally sitting with strangers

[trxtangy1]

(08-29-2015 02:34 PM)Seth_Rose Wrote:  

(08-29-2015 02:26 PM)trxtangy1 Wrote:  

I live in the dorms, and it seems to me the best way of meeting girls is at the dining commons

I strongly disagree. What's your logic for meeting women here? I never met anyone in college who picked up a chick at the commons. Not saying it can't be done, but I don't think it's nearly as effective as a house or frat party.

If you were to do it, just make casual conversation at first. Then ask her what she's up to this weekend. The key here is to have something going on yourself, invite her and her friends to come with, then run game from there.

I should have included a disclaimer, stating that Frat parties are out of question

So Im limited to classroom encounters and dining commons,

I just thought it made sense since its a relatively stress free time (since you are just eating food) and if there's no friends of her nearby then it would be an opportune time to open up a conversation,

and as I said before Im not sure what a good generic hook would be to pull them into the convo

[Captain Gh]

My suggestion is that you start Gaming outside of your university and that do Daygame or Nightgame! Judging by your questions we can tell that you don't know how to create attraction because an opener is mainly just words and it's your aura and body language that keep women interested during a cold approach.

If you haven't already read some game documentation then it's a must that you do because our little posts combined can't provide you with all the info you need just to start to cold approach. Then you actually have to go out and internalize the info. Cold approaching is Hard, and unless you're really a good looking kid, my suggestion would be for you to do some Daygame. You seem to have the personality for it.

[eradicator]

(08-29-2015 02:34 PM)Seth_Rose Wrote:  

(08-29-2015 02:26 PM)trxtangy1 Wrote:  

I live in the dorms, and it seems to me the best way of meeting girls is at the dining commons

I strongly disagree. What's your logic for meeting women here? I never met anyone in college who picked up a chick at the commons. Not saying it can't be done, but I don't think it's nearly as effective as a house or frat party.

You have to be kidding me. If its the first few weeks of college, the girls are just on overload of newness, they are in a new city, new place to live, new friends, new school, new teachers. They are open to being gamed moreso now than ever. The first weekend is best, it is just a goldmine of pussy, hook up central, depending on your school.

And dining commons, yes it is just as valid of a way to meet women, especially at this time of the year for the freshmen girls.

Unfortunately, based on what you said in your OP, you have no idea on how to lead a conversation or even have a conversation. Just practice making small talk for now until you become more social. Eventually you will gain more confidence talking to more people. I suggest you don't just talk to girls, talk to everyone. This is the time to get to know everyone, everyone is new to everyone else. You will want to be social and friends with as many people as possible. Yes, read bang, and day bang, but for now, just learn some basic social cues and how to socialize and have conversations. Just get in the habit of talking to EVERYONE and it won't seem strange to you, the idea of talking to a girl you haven't met before that you are attracted to will be perfectly normal.

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If you were to do it, just make casual conversation at first. Then ask her what she's up to this weekend. The key here is to have something going on yourself, invite her and her friends to come with, then run game from there.

[mammal]

(08-29-2015 04:44 PM)eradicator Wrote:  

I suggest you don't just talk to girls, talk to everyone. This is the time to get to know everyone, everyone is new to everyone else. You will want to be social and friends with as many people as possible.

That's how you learn not to be a "creeper." You talk to her just like you talk to him. You're just being socialwith everyone, making friends, not just trying to get laid.
You're 22? Excellent age. An 18/19 y/o is flattered to be talking to someone who's 22.

[eradicator]

I re-read the OP, it just sounds like he needs to change his total mindset. Get out of the habit of thinking that you are bothering people by wanting to talk to them and socialize with them and be friends with them. You have to actually want to talk to people and be friendly with them in order to be good at socializing with other people. It is more of a chicken and egg problem, stop thinking that socializing with people=bad. It's all good.

As far as not knowing what to say after "is it cool if I sit here", my god, the world is your oyster. Talk to them, get their names, find out where they are from, what they think of their new life, get good at telling interesting or funny stories that just happened to you. We are all storytellers with a story to tell, yours are as valid as anyone else's.