Long-time lurker, low-count poster, and new to game as well, but I wanted to share my experience for all the other new guys out there and provide at least a datapoint. The purpose of this thread is to demonstrate the application of multiple concepts scattered throughout the forum.
Although I'm new to game, I have steadily taken the red pill over the years. And just like any practical skill (i.e. gaming women) theoretical knowledge peppered in goes a long way.
I decided to undertake no-fap. After a couple of spread out, failed segments of 3-4 days or 1-2 weeks, I finally lasted about two and a half weeks - the longest I went perhaps ever since I started fapping, which is a long-ass time. It's actually not that bad if you don't look at porn or touch your dick AT ALL. Something happens if you edge even a little bit. It's like it extracts just enough sperm from your balls and fills the pipelines which then congeal and rapidly lead to blue balls. If you don't do it at all this never happens and you will only feel blue balls at like 1-1.5 weeks and if you get over that hump you're basically home-free.
As many have said, you're ready to fuck anything at a moments’ notice. It's also like you see the matrix, the green code you know? So what happened was that this girl who I've known for several years and very occasionally talk to, messages me out of nowhere when it had been a long time since we last talked. Mind you we've never dated or fucked, except I've tried to fuck her a couple times in the past unsuccessfully. She never friend zoned me, but she always found an excuse not to fuck me. I would find out from this experience that she didn't want to fuck me before because I used repulsive beta blue pill game even though she found me attractive. Did I also mention this woman is engaged…?
The second I saw that text I instantly told myself "she's DTF." How did I know? Male instinct, I swear watching porn and fapping suppresses it. I engaged in a crude form of text game. If I were to describe it from a high level to you guys, basically think of a Panzer division pulling blitzkrieg. You're constantly advancing at all costs, but you're smart about it. What do I mean by advancing in terms of text game? Basically going from texting to selfies to nude selfies and building sexual tension for, and arranging, the meetup. What can slow the advancement? Basically girls wanting to talk about bullshit like career, family drama, boyfriend, or in this case her fiancé. If a girl does this do not get discouraged brothers - press on, but be smart about it. Don't say "I don't care show me them titties bitch", instead just talk about it a little bit, and if she drags on for more than a few messages pivot back to your advancement, i.e. "That sucks but focusing on it will not help anything - so what you doin’ today?"
I was eventually able to pull nude selfies from her. Now was the time to advance for a meetup. I knew it was gonna happen even though she threw up defenses before sending nudes, and I knew the defenses would be stronger for a booty call. Remember guys, and I can't emphasize this enough – she was ENGAGED! But if you understand red pill, that shit DOES NOT MATTER. Back to arranging the booty call... As has been mentioned elsewhere in the forum and Roosh's articles, girls need changing dynamics to keep their vaginas moist. This is an example of applying that theory. Essentially early on in the interaction you want to be relentless like the Panzer division. However as the interaction matures, back off a little bit and let her chase you. In terms of text game, just don't respond if she sends a vague or bullshit text message that doesn’t go anywhere. I did this and a couple hours later she said, "so you're not gonna send me one [a nude]?"
Now a quick word on dick pics gentleman. I'm sure many of you know this, but as a man who didn't understand very basic things at one point, I just want to mention this for those that might not know - this is the newbie forum after all. Girls are not attracted to an up close picture of your dick and hairy balls. In fact, I don't really care for an up close picture of a vagina - I want to see the woman's body and shape. Same with women. Advice for pic: trim/shave, get hard and throw it over the bathroom sink to make it look bigger, include your torso, soft lighting etc.
It went over well with her and she made sure to let me know. At this point it was time to finalize the meetup. This is where you go back on the offensive and go in for the kill. Now she was throwing up defenses left and right, everything she had, "I have such and such tonight" "I'm engaged!" "I have such and such tomorrow" "we can't do this!" Smash through those walls like the fucking kool-aid man. If you haven't busted in a couple weeks - you'll know what to do.
I’d also like to add something else – I’m currently unemployed and living in my mom’s basement, so guess what? I didn’t have a place to bang her, AND I didn’t even have to drive my ass to see her - she picked up me up! I ended up getting the SNL, and actually never had one before, this was my first one. So what are the takeaways from this?
•Red Pill & The True Nature of Women: Just because a woman is in a relationship, engaged, or married with children does not mean shit, especially in today’s society. This is not by any means intended to suggest that you should go out and game women who are in relationships or marriages and try to be a homewrecker, but if a woman is expressing interest in you even though she is in a relationship/married do not think that she is simply being playful or whatever. She is interested, and if you don’t give her dick someone else will. As Roosh has stated throughout his writings, the girls he/we bang are already sluts, we are not by any means turning them into sluts. You are merely capitalizing on the effects of modern-day feminism instead of being part of the majority of men who are on the losing end – and there is no in between. What this also goes back to is never EVER judge a woman by what she says. It means absolutely nothing. Many times in the interaction you will literally find yourself ignoring what she says and continually doing your own thing. It feels unnatural, almost like walking onto an invisible bridge like in Indiana Jones, but it works. In fact, in some ways it turns women on since it shows dominance.
•Modification of Behavior: This relates to red-pill above. Basically there are probably a number of women in your life who are willing to have sex with you, but if they don’t, it’s probably because your behavior is repulsive, beta, and blue-pill. Also women are emotional beings with little to no logic. In this instance, this girl wouldn’t fuck me in years past even when she was single, but once I modified my behavior she fucked me when she was engaged. Go figure.
•No-Fap: I know there are those in the no-fap thread that say no-fap is absolutely insane and that they still have success with women, etc. I’m not refuting those claims by any means. However, what I am saying is that everyone is different. I believe that those who have marginal success with game and who masturbate frequently will find significant success by undergoing no-fap. You might as well change another variable and see if it works right? The Roosh Program™ also recommends this – do it!
•Escalation of Text Game: Every interaction is different, and I am by no means an expert in this arena. However, I have found that I’ve had the most success when I don’t stress over details like timing my responses. In this case, success was an SNL, other times it’s just a date or simply the girl not going radio silent. You want things to flow naturally. If you play hard to get too soon, she will probably lose interest. If you respond to her normally and she goes radio silent, then she probably wasn’t all that interested in the first place anyway. So why stress over details at all? Respond normally at first, and if that means responding in under a minute if you’re not busy, go ahead and do that. Just remember to always keep your eyes on the prize and have each text message serve a purpose in advancing your cause – don’t waste your own time. Be a man on a mission. As the interaction matures, don’t feel like you have to respond to every single thing she says like a sucker (because she WILL know).
All in all this goes back to fundamentals laid out by Roosh and others throughout the forum, articles, and videos. This is an example of my success by applying these techniques, and all the more reason for those who have not done so yet to do so.
Although I'm new to game, I have steadily taken the red pill over the years. And just like any practical skill (i.e. gaming women) theoretical knowledge peppered in goes a long way.
I decided to undertake no-fap. After a couple of spread out, failed segments of 3-4 days or 1-2 weeks, I finally lasted about two and a half weeks - the longest I went perhaps ever since I started fapping, which is a long-ass time. It's actually not that bad if you don't look at porn or touch your dick AT ALL. Something happens if you edge even a little bit. It's like it extracts just enough sperm from your balls and fills the pipelines which then congeal and rapidly lead to blue balls. If you don't do it at all this never happens and you will only feel blue balls at like 1-1.5 weeks and if you get over that hump you're basically home-free.
As many have said, you're ready to fuck anything at a moments’ notice. It's also like you see the matrix, the green code you know? So what happened was that this girl who I've known for several years and very occasionally talk to, messages me out of nowhere when it had been a long time since we last talked. Mind you we've never dated or fucked, except I've tried to fuck her a couple times in the past unsuccessfully. She never friend zoned me, but she always found an excuse not to fuck me. I would find out from this experience that she didn't want to fuck me before because I used repulsive beta blue pill game even though she found me attractive. Did I also mention this woman is engaged…?
The second I saw that text I instantly told myself "she's DTF." How did I know? Male instinct, I swear watching porn and fapping suppresses it. I engaged in a crude form of text game. If I were to describe it from a high level to you guys, basically think of a Panzer division pulling blitzkrieg. You're constantly advancing at all costs, but you're smart about it. What do I mean by advancing in terms of text game? Basically going from texting to selfies to nude selfies and building sexual tension for, and arranging, the meetup. What can slow the advancement? Basically girls wanting to talk about bullshit like career, family drama, boyfriend, or in this case her fiancé. If a girl does this do not get discouraged brothers - press on, but be smart about it. Don't say "I don't care show me them titties bitch", instead just talk about it a little bit, and if she drags on for more than a few messages pivot back to your advancement, i.e. "That sucks but focusing on it will not help anything - so what you doin’ today?"
I was eventually able to pull nude selfies from her. Now was the time to advance for a meetup. I knew it was gonna happen even though she threw up defenses before sending nudes, and I knew the defenses would be stronger for a booty call. Remember guys, and I can't emphasize this enough – she was ENGAGED! But if you understand red pill, that shit DOES NOT MATTER. Back to arranging the booty call... As has been mentioned elsewhere in the forum and Roosh's articles, girls need changing dynamics to keep their vaginas moist. This is an example of applying that theory. Essentially early on in the interaction you want to be relentless like the Panzer division. However as the interaction matures, back off a little bit and let her chase you. In terms of text game, just don't respond if she sends a vague or bullshit text message that doesn’t go anywhere. I did this and a couple hours later she said, "so you're not gonna send me one [a nude]?"
Now a quick word on dick pics gentleman. I'm sure many of you know this, but as a man who didn't understand very basic things at one point, I just want to mention this for those that might not know - this is the newbie forum after all. Girls are not attracted to an up close picture of your dick and hairy balls. In fact, I don't really care for an up close picture of a vagina - I want to see the woman's body and shape. Same with women. Advice for pic: trim/shave, get hard and throw it over the bathroom sink to make it look bigger, include your torso, soft lighting etc.
It went over well with her and she made sure to let me know. At this point it was time to finalize the meetup. This is where you go back on the offensive and go in for the kill. Now she was throwing up defenses left and right, everything she had, "I have such and such tonight" "I'm engaged!" "I have such and such tomorrow" "we can't do this!" Smash through those walls like the fucking kool-aid man. If you haven't busted in a couple weeks - you'll know what to do.
I’d also like to add something else – I’m currently unemployed and living in my mom’s basement, so guess what? I didn’t have a place to bang her, AND I didn’t even have to drive my ass to see her - she picked up me up! I ended up getting the SNL, and actually never had one before, this was my first one. So what are the takeaways from this?
•Red Pill & The True Nature of Women: Just because a woman is in a relationship, engaged, or married with children does not mean shit, especially in today’s society. This is not by any means intended to suggest that you should go out and game women who are in relationships or marriages and try to be a homewrecker, but if a woman is expressing interest in you even though she is in a relationship/married do not think that she is simply being playful or whatever. She is interested, and if you don’t give her dick someone else will. As Roosh has stated throughout his writings, the girls he/we bang are already sluts, we are not by any means turning them into sluts. You are merely capitalizing on the effects of modern-day feminism instead of being part of the majority of men who are on the losing end – and there is no in between. What this also goes back to is never EVER judge a woman by what she says. It means absolutely nothing. Many times in the interaction you will literally find yourself ignoring what she says and continually doing your own thing. It feels unnatural, almost like walking onto an invisible bridge like in Indiana Jones, but it works. In fact, in some ways it turns women on since it shows dominance.
•Modification of Behavior: This relates to red-pill above. Basically there are probably a number of women in your life who are willing to have sex with you, but if they don’t, it’s probably because your behavior is repulsive, beta, and blue-pill. Also women are emotional beings with little to no logic. In this instance, this girl wouldn’t fuck me in years past even when she was single, but once I modified my behavior she fucked me when she was engaged. Go figure.
•No-Fap: I know there are those in the no-fap thread that say no-fap is absolutely insane and that they still have success with women, etc. I’m not refuting those claims by any means. However, what I am saying is that everyone is different. I believe that those who have marginal success with game and who masturbate frequently will find significant success by undergoing no-fap. You might as well change another variable and see if it works right? The Roosh Program™ also recommends this – do it!
•Escalation of Text Game: Every interaction is different, and I am by no means an expert in this arena. However, I have found that I’ve had the most success when I don’t stress over details like timing my responses. In this case, success was an SNL, other times it’s just a date or simply the girl not going radio silent. You want things to flow naturally. If you play hard to get too soon, she will probably lose interest. If you respond to her normally and she goes radio silent, then she probably wasn’t all that interested in the first place anyway. So why stress over details at all? Respond normally at first, and if that means responding in under a minute if you’re not busy, go ahead and do that. Just remember to always keep your eyes on the prize and have each text message serve a purpose in advancing your cause – don’t waste your own time. Be a man on a mission. As the interaction matures, don’t feel like you have to respond to every single thing she says like a sucker (because she WILL know).
All in all this goes back to fundamentals laid out by Roosh and others throughout the forum, articles, and videos. This is an example of my success by applying these techniques, and all the more reason for those who have not done so yet to do so.