At the end of the day this is not a bad thing. You learn a lot about yourself after a break up, and you will get a new girl. Getting over the first girl is always a big deal, but after that it becomes breezy.
I have one method that works particularly well for me and a few, especially if you are a proud person.
Try filming yourself these days during depression. Or record. Then after a few days of filming/recording have a proper sit down and look and listen to that data.
It will probably be uncomfortable but the misery of your situation, seen from a 3rd person perspective, might kick your ego and your rationale brain enough to make you say "Fuck this shit" and forget about this girl.
If it helps, remember that while you are hanging around being depressed, she is getting hardcore sex with random rebound guys. You and everyone here know that for a fact. Channel that anger into energy to approach/gym/hobby whatever and reap the benefits.
I have one method that works particularly well for me and a few, especially if you are a proud person.
Try filming yourself these days during depression. Or record. Then after a few days of filming/recording have a proper sit down and look and listen to that data.
It will probably be uncomfortable but the misery of your situation, seen from a 3rd person perspective, might kick your ego and your rationale brain enough to make you say "Fuck this shit" and forget about this girl.
If it helps, remember that while you are hanging around being depressed, she is getting hardcore sex with random rebound guys. You and everyone here know that for a fact. Channel that anger into energy to approach/gym/hobby whatever and reap the benefits.
Ass or cash, nobody rides for free - WestIndiArchie