Hey all,
I had a crazy experience tonight where I was embarrassed and disgraced in front of an entire bar crowd for no reason. I basically got banned from the bar and am now trying to brainstorm ways to fuck them over. This bar is arguably my top pickup spot so it definitely stings. I'll share my story below.
It was at the end of the night, close to bar close, and I was shooting the shit with one of my buddies. A bartender leaves his post and comes up to me and says "Finish your beer, you need to leave." I responded in a reasonable manner, "Ok, I respect your decision as an employee here, but can you tell me why I am being kicked out?". His response was "Stare at some guys instead". Confused, I said, "what?". He repeats the same thing a few times before saying, "You've been staring at that girl and you gotta go." Next thing I know, this girl comes up to us and points her finger in my face. "That's him!" she says. I have never seen this girl in my life, and after seeing her for the first time I would assuredly never stare at her. It's the end of the night so I don't even fight it and I leave. However, I made sure to turn around and flip that bitch off before I left.
Me and my buddy end up chilling outside the bar, maybe about 100 yards away. Next thing I know, this same girl is running out of the bar following us, talking shit. I basically tell her to fuck off when a bouncer from the bar comes up to us and tells us that we need to leave the area. In a very calm and reasonable manner, I say "Hey, I don't know what I'm being accused of here, but your bar does not own the sidewalk where I am currently standing, so you can't tell me to move. What is the issue here?" He responds with, "Hey, they're talking to the manager about you guys now, and I just want to help you guys not get banned from this place." This bouncer was a cool and reasonable dude, and I end up asking him why he takes this girl's word for gospel and why I am being attacked for no reason without anyone hearing my side of the story. He basically tells me to leave if I know what's good for me.
Fine. Me and my buddy walk a little bit down the road and cross the street where we run into a girl we know. We end up chatting with her for a bit when all of a sudden the original bartender that kicked us out has now walked down the street, and is yelling at me trying to start a fight. "Hey!! you got something to say?!!" he yells repeatedly. I'm a big dude but no fighter. I raise my hands and turn my back to him basically saying "leave me alone." He continues to talk shit and yell at us until our girl goes over to him and calms him down. My buddy and I leave at this point.
Afterwards, I find out why this all went down. It turns out that the crazy girl is the bartender's gf. A girl who I had a fling with was also at the bar and apparently was an ex-gf of this bartender. Earlier in the night, crazy girl tried fighting fling girl. I talked to fling girl for a bit, and crazy girl must have seen me associate with her. Due to her jealousy, she got her bartender bf to kick me out.
I can never go back to this bar again. The bartender is always there and was legitimately dropping his work responsibilities to walk down the street to fight me. The fact that this crazy girl is running around getting whatever she wants at this bar sickens me. I was not overly drunk, and was just chilling having a good time. She saw me talking to fling girl, flagged me as an "enemy", and got me kicked out and embarrassed in front of the bar staff.
I'm pretty fucking pissed off right now and I'm wondering what actions I can take from here. I really dislike being disrespected. My friend and I were considering talking to the manager during the early afternoon, but he'll probably just back his staff. I'm also thinking about just destroying them on yelp with a bunch of bad reviews from various accounts. Anyone got any advice on how I should proceed? I'm definitely a little riled up right now, but I'd love to destroy this place.
I had a crazy experience tonight where I was embarrassed and disgraced in front of an entire bar crowd for no reason. I basically got banned from the bar and am now trying to brainstorm ways to fuck them over. This bar is arguably my top pickup spot so it definitely stings. I'll share my story below.
It was at the end of the night, close to bar close, and I was shooting the shit with one of my buddies. A bartender leaves his post and comes up to me and says "Finish your beer, you need to leave." I responded in a reasonable manner, "Ok, I respect your decision as an employee here, but can you tell me why I am being kicked out?". His response was "Stare at some guys instead". Confused, I said, "what?". He repeats the same thing a few times before saying, "You've been staring at that girl and you gotta go." Next thing I know, this girl comes up to us and points her finger in my face. "That's him!" she says. I have never seen this girl in my life, and after seeing her for the first time I would assuredly never stare at her. It's the end of the night so I don't even fight it and I leave. However, I made sure to turn around and flip that bitch off before I left.
Me and my buddy end up chilling outside the bar, maybe about 100 yards away. Next thing I know, this same girl is running out of the bar following us, talking shit. I basically tell her to fuck off when a bouncer from the bar comes up to us and tells us that we need to leave the area. In a very calm and reasonable manner, I say "Hey, I don't know what I'm being accused of here, but your bar does not own the sidewalk where I am currently standing, so you can't tell me to move. What is the issue here?" He responds with, "Hey, they're talking to the manager about you guys now, and I just want to help you guys not get banned from this place." This bouncer was a cool and reasonable dude, and I end up asking him why he takes this girl's word for gospel and why I am being attacked for no reason without anyone hearing my side of the story. He basically tells me to leave if I know what's good for me.
Fine. Me and my buddy walk a little bit down the road and cross the street where we run into a girl we know. We end up chatting with her for a bit when all of a sudden the original bartender that kicked us out has now walked down the street, and is yelling at me trying to start a fight. "Hey!! you got something to say?!!" he yells repeatedly. I'm a big dude but no fighter. I raise my hands and turn my back to him basically saying "leave me alone." He continues to talk shit and yell at us until our girl goes over to him and calms him down. My buddy and I leave at this point.
Afterwards, I find out why this all went down. It turns out that the crazy girl is the bartender's gf. A girl who I had a fling with was also at the bar and apparently was an ex-gf of this bartender. Earlier in the night, crazy girl tried fighting fling girl. I talked to fling girl for a bit, and crazy girl must have seen me associate with her. Due to her jealousy, she got her bartender bf to kick me out.
I can never go back to this bar again. The bartender is always there and was legitimately dropping his work responsibilities to walk down the street to fight me. The fact that this crazy girl is running around getting whatever she wants at this bar sickens me. I was not overly drunk, and was just chilling having a good time. She saw me talking to fling girl, flagged me as an "enemy", and got me kicked out and embarrassed in front of the bar staff.
I'm pretty fucking pissed off right now and I'm wondering what actions I can take from here. I really dislike being disrespected. My friend and I were considering talking to the manager during the early afternoon, but he'll probably just back his staff. I'm also thinking about just destroying them on yelp with a bunch of bad reviews from various accounts. Anyone got any advice on how I should proceed? I'm definitely a little riled up right now, but I'd love to destroy this place.