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Wife Hunting Abroad

Bizarrely the most stable couples I have known were the ones where a woman was Dutch or Scandinavian.Or Polish.Polish wonen are just lovely.
The rest is a trainwreck.

This is purely anecdotal evidence.A little bit supported by the divorce statistics.
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Chinese tourist chicks aren't as good looking as Viet chicks. Horrifying enough I have seen a few chubby Chinese ones.

Viet chicks just have a more defined facial bone structure, bigger eyes, more chance of dick sucking lips and some curves.

No lady boys here yet which is great. Also haven't noticed any outward gays.

Still a little confused at attraction level I have had from several foreign Asian chicks vs. the lack of eye fucking or flirting here.

Both the city and highway from airport seem much cleaner and well organized than Bangkok in 2008. Though there is no metro here.

When I try practicing some Vietnamese people don't give a fuck. Even in Mexico people appreciated any Spanish effort. In Colombia they were oftentimes delighted or at least charmed and amused. Here it feels like they feel I am wasting their time.

Haven't had any time for game yet.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
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Quote: (07-26-2016 10:29 PM)hydrogonian Wrote:  

...That button-cute Asian midget that you fell in love with because you can throw her around so easily and because her massages are so good is likely going to turn into an unrecognizable ewok by 45.
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quickedit: the only thing -relatively- tall girls often have against them is the raised shoulder hunch. They'll often stand straight for photos but when you meet them IRL they look like this...

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Keep in mind that the phenomenon of women becoming fat and less attractive personality-wise is not limited to the US or even the Anglosphere. However very very often a daughter will follow in her mother's footsteps. If her mother is a blimp at age 45, chances are your wife will be too. Since you're considering marriage, meet and get to know her family, see family photos, etc.

Language is a huge barrier also. It's one thing to be able to learn it to transact everyday errands ("how much are the apples?" you can even say "what to be the costing of ayples" and be understood. It's quite another to have communication skills good enough for work (you're competing with native speakers.)
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Will be in Da Nang for the next few days anyone wants to meet let me know. Nha Trang and HCMC are on the list over next few weeks hit me up.

Side note, Viet girls are very diligent workers and very kind natured. White girls in the U.S. can be like this too just not nearly as common. Maybe 1/5th as many. Seems like almost every Viet girl is this way.

Small instance Chinese girls seem to work hard too at least when I was in Hong Kong and the GZ airport. Yet, they don't have any outward shy sweetness.

They seem more business.

I just learned Viets here in Hanoi hate Chinese tourists. Kinda makes sense. They do the bus and camera thing. March around in big groups and speak louder.

They aren't nearly as cool as Vietnamese.

Just like Mexicans aren't nearly as cool as Colombians.

As G would say, there is a lesson in there somewhere.

I am in a hostel - not by choice - right now.

Scottish - cool as fuck like always
North Irish - cool, first one I think I have met

Englishmen - well half are cool (especially Indian English guys seem to be great), other half suck and have no life in them and are stuck up cunts when you can't understand their soft whisper Mary Poppins accents.

Scandanavian and Dutch chicks: part of soul missing no sense of humor, anti-social

Australians, especially fat greasy ones are dicks you want to take out back and beat sense into.

Canadians. Never fail to act like Canadians. Polite and strange is a weird charming way. Canuckin'.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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Quote: (08-01-2016 12:16 PM)mammal Wrote:  

Keep in mind that the phenomenon of women becoming fat and less attractive personality-wise is not limited to the US or even the Anglosphere. However very very often a daughter will follow in her mother's footsteps. If her mother is a blimp at age 45, chances are your wife will be too. Since you're considering marriage, meet and get to know her family, see family photos, etc.

As a younger person (I'm mid 30s now) I was always unsure what to think about this, because I saw early 20s girls and thought "she's hot, nah, that won't happen to her" ... until I aged and it is an absolute recipe.

The mom is what they will turn into, literally 99%, if not the whole lot.

Choose wisely.
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Met another cool Indian English guy today.

Also met a decently cool Swiss chick. She reminded me what German and Scandanavians chicks could be if they got their act together.

Got 3 custom linen suits, extra shirts, silk pocket square with great color and patterns and a pair of shorts in Hoi An measured. About half the price of Colombia custom which I already thought was a bargain. $80-150 a suit depending on material.

Da Nang has a ton of construction on the beach front. It seems like a fantastic real estate opportunity.

Saw more Western high 7 low 8 males. Some with their mid 6 Western girlfriends some not. Still trying to register how Vietnam attracts fairly above average Western men. Seen plenty of dumpy female backpackers, also some hot ones, only a treat though.

Vietnamese girls are whip smart. One drew a map with 8 intersections very well drawn for directions in 30 seconds. Most guys I know couldn't do that let alone women. A 20yo cafe girl gave me a 5 minute monologue about the market of suit buying in Hoi An. I am trying to even imagine a Western woman doing the same let alone a young cute one. Three young girls also looking about 20 ran a bar on the beach. They were very diligent, happy, no slut signs. Very sharp with orders and service. When I said they were my favorite bartenders in Vietnam they didn't like it and corrected me they were just staff. I like that mindset. The last thing they want to be considered is a bar girl. Young Vietnamese girls are smiley, kind, and somewhat outgoing which is a great LTR combination.

There are cute doll girls consistently. The Chinese tourist girls in comparison almost always look uglier.

Vietnamese seem curious about the world. Their culture is modest in sexuality.

Vietnamese girls make Mexican girls look like pet rocks when comparing in the personality department.

Have no idea why anyone on this board likes Mexican girls' personalities. Some of the most boring I have come across.

Online girls are bottom of barrel here Vietnam Cupid and Tinder are horseshit.

Make income out here is doubly hard though because of time zone difference to U.S..

Either way unless I find a more endearing places I would give Vietnam a few months of time at least to see if it sticks if I get the opportunity.

I saved Asia for last in my original plans because timezone difference is the hardest.

I'd like to find a Western Hemisphere country with good quality, I think it is a tall order though if I hate Mexico. Brazil maybe my last chance at a good timezone country. Realistically it makes life much easier.

A loophole I can think of is working remote for a big corp that has offices I would report to in Australia or China. Don't know anything about Vietnam expat work.

My friend answers the hostel room door when a new girl had a hard time getting. Couldn't see them around corner. Needed 1 second to know hearing her voice she was a short ugly chubby Asian chick. Probably Chinese or Singaporian. I am now a jedi. She gave me a sour polite smirk as we made eye contact of course.

Why are Chinese chicks starting to get fat? This is a nightmare.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
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Quote: (08-03-2016 07:53 AM)Travesty Wrote:  

I saved Asia for last in my original plans because timezone difference is the hardest.

I'd like to find a Western Hemisphere country with good quality, I think it is a tall order though if I hate Mexico. Brazil maybe my last chance at a good timezone country. Realistically it makes life much easier.

A loophole I can think of is working remote for a big corp that has offices I would report to in Australia or China. Don't know anything about Vietnam expat work.

Great reports.

I had a hard time working or sometimes conducting a video meeting due to the time difference.

Think about it...only like 5 Starbucks in HCMC in a city of like 7 million maybe. That will change.

Still like most countries I rarely saw hot 8-9 quality with foreigners unless they were paying for it. Social circle is key opening better quality locals if you have the time.

How are you managing in the humidity ?

I would only go back in the Winter time.
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Since your are looking to have children and live abroad, race is going to be an important consideration.

Mixed race children in Asia are often the object of ostracism and ridicule by their peers (I know of this happening in Japan and Vietnam, and would not be surprisedif this were the case in Asia in general.) So yeah, I know the argument that dealing with rejection builds character and all that, but do you want your children to be social pariahs an have no friends their entire childhood?

Of course I'm not saying that it should be that way, but it often is. If they were to grow up in the US or Canada it would be an entirely different situation.

In Latin America it would much less of an issue, since many people are of mixed race (European, often Spanish, mixed with Native American (Mayan, Aztec, etc.)) Having more European blood is often considered positively. Again, I am not saying that this is how it should be, soplease don't kill the messenger; I'm just mentioning an unfortunate reality.

In Europe (Poland, Ukraine or wherever) there would be no mixed-race issue since you (I'm assuming) are of European race.
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Quote: (08-03-2016 01:41 PM)mammal Wrote:  

Mixed race children in Asia are often the object of ostracism and ridicule by their peers (I know of this happening in Japan and Vietnam, and would not be surprisedif this were the case in Asia in general.) So yeah, I know the argument that dealing with rejection builds character and all that, but do you want your children to be social pariahs an have no friends their entire childhood?

Which parts of Asia are:
1) Least-open minded about mixed race children
2) Most-open minded about mixed race children?

Being Asian myself, I should really know about this due to my background & experiences spending time there with relatives, family friends, etc back in the day.

Unfortunately...I do not.
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Quote: (08-03-2016 02:00 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  

Which parts of Asia are:
1) Least-open minded about mixed race children
2) Most-open minded about mixed race children?

Least-open minded is probably Korea or Japan.
Most-open minded is definitely Philippines without a doubt. Almost every Filipino star is mixed. Either Chinese/Filipino or Filipino/White.
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Strangest thing about Vietnam. No one plays music! Not cafes, not tea stores, not hotel lobbies, not restaurants, not hookah lounges, not taxis. Not unless you ask. It makes for a very quiet experience at any venue and I really need to tone down my American brashness. I am not too bothered, it makes things more peaceful. The excuse from locals is they don't want anyone to be unneccessarily disturbed. Still, only country I have ever been with the amount of lack of music in public spaces.

People in Da Nang give 5x the appreciation for speaking some Vietnamese. Hanoi people don't care in comparison. Da Nang seems like it has a million restaurants and plenty of beer garden places. High rise construction everywhere. Ocean helps the humidity situation especially at night. People rushed the beach assuming they were a local crowd because it happened at 5-6pm on a workday. Before that beach was a ghost town except for a few tourists. I like that they are a bit active like that. In California the water is often too cold and the people to lazy to go rush the beach after work at have fun. Hoi An has 400+ full service custom tailor/cloth makers including many custom shoe makers.

Another great option I could see living in Da Nang is to take a break from you apartment and go stay at a really great hotel resort on the beach for a weekend for I am imagining not too much money and just lounge at the pool and get a massage. Probably great for date weekends with local Viet chicks.

Champagne is relatively expensive here compared to beers or hard liquor and it seems rare to serve. $5+ a glass. Beers can be less than $1, hard liquor mixed drink $2-3. Sticking point.

@Rish: Humidity is ok. If you are used to Midwestern U.S. summers it isn't much different. I think I could get used to it. It does give incentive for better hygiene and to be leaner. Being even slightly overweight in this weather would be hell.

@mammal: With Asia I would probably bring the chick back most likely. As I have said before in the thread I think compared to EE or Latina girls there is less chance of them getting egos by being competed for by other U.S. thirsty guys or forming bad habits in general. U.S. guys for the most part would treat a sexy cute Colombiana or Russian with a sexy accent as a goddess. An Asian chick not so much. Most U.S. guys wouldn't know what to make of them which is a good thing.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
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I'm curious, and it may have already been covered, but why are you against bringing them back to the USA?

On the surface, you could get the best of both worlds: marry a loyal, beautiful foreign wife with good values, move back to the USA because of the higher standard of living. Sure, there is some risk she will become westernized(i.e. fat and entitled) but arguably the increase in quality of life here in the states is worth it.
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^ Are you trolling? Enough with the C- questions.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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Quote: (08-03-2016 04:59 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

@mammal: With Asia I would probably bring the chick back most likely. As I have said before in the thread I think compared to EE or Latina girls there is less chance of them getting egos by being competed for by other U.S. thirsty guys or forming bad habits in general. U.S. guys for the most part would treat a sexy cute Colombiana or Russian with a sexy accent as a goddess. An Asian chick not so much. Most U.S. guys wouldn't know what to make of them which is a good thing.

I think most American guys would overwhelmingly go all in and treat local American women in front of them as goddesses with first priority as well. That includes entitled cunts because hey..they were programmed that way for 20+ years of their life so why "change their thinking" if they haven't been exposed to a world outside of it?

I remember those days in high school, college, and the couple of brief years after undergrad...where I'd run across hot foreign women & not really feel compelled to pursue them bc it just felt different from what I was accustomed to. What I would give to go back in time to rectify that [Image: dodgy.gif]

With regards to what you said, certain American guys with Latin fever at least in Texas don't really know any better so they'll go all out for what's in front of them..it could be ugly Peruvian gals, soso Northeast Brazilian chicks, subpar Colombian gals not even close to the level of quality in Miami/Colombia, and other scraps as these "desired Latinas" get off on the attention riding different cocks on the carousel with no remorse.

I've met certain Russian gals here in Dallas/Ft. Worth but they seem to be a little more distant from everything & carry introverted tendencies. Cool gals, but they don't really put themselves out there like the Latinas or American White/Black/Asian, etc gals.
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More spectacular food.

More friendly locals that give bright smiles when I say holler hello in Vietnamese from across the street. My friend an I walked to find an ATM one morning there was a guy sitting barefoot on the ground in the middle of sidewalk by himself looking like a lower class worker. I thought he was going to ask us for money or haggle for something. He just wanted to say hi.

More ugly & plain Chinese tourists.

More doll-faced Viet girls riding around on motor scooters.

Vietnamese girls I would describe as adorable above all, and much better at it than any other foreign girls I have met.

I was at dinner with my friend and a Swiss 21yo 7 face 6.5 body. We met the Swiss girl the day before and exchanged numbers that morning in the hostel lobby.

She had many reminders of them though in the looks department. Long blonde natural hair highlighted beautifully by the sun. Big round blue eyes. Decent rack. Though like many German chicks I have noticed they can have great hair, eyes, and a very cute face often times they can be a bit stocky especially with their legs.

The sand on the beach is beautiful in Da Nang and very clean. There are sets of beach chairs with umbrellas that serve beers and juices. The water was very blue that day.

The beach is a ghost town during sunlight hours. After work the locals rush the beach during sunset to workout and go in the water. The sun is intense here.

There are some very nice resorts on the southern half of the beach. Like $200 USD a night nice at the cheapest room.

Jet skiing in the ocean here is fun. There are many jellyfish. Mostly white, a few blue. Everyone says watch out for the red. My friend was too scared to come waist deep in the water because there were enough. The first day in Da Nang they are scattered on the shore, some a large as a softball.

I went swimming deeper with out him, a different experience trying to body surf while avoid the jellyfish.

No fucking rocks or seaweed here like in Southern California. Nice bottom to the ocean, clear water, seems very clean.

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So I make contact with a local Viet CouchSurfer girl. A 22yo 6.0, a pixie in stature. She out of possible contacts seems like the best to learn more about Vietnam and local girls. She meets us last minute where the three of us are having dinner before going clubbing.

She dressed adorably in a black summer dress with yellow flowers and a white undershirt with some light jewelry and very light or no make up. She has a 9:30PM curfew so she can only spend an hour with us.

I am at my 15th drink of the day starting 11 hours earlier. Mostly 4.3% Tiger beer out of a can, though some mojitos and vodka mixed in.

She is an angel. The first girl in long time where here personality gave her a +1.5 in my eyes.

By the time Viet arrives the Swiss girl has been sitting next to me and is starting to flirt heavily. We are both sitting on what seems stools meant for a doll house make believe tea party. My friend sits across me, the Viet sits next to him. Swiss had mentioned on the way walking to dinner she has a boyfriend who is a chef at a Michellin something star restaurant in passing conversation about food. She is abroad for 5 weeks without him it seems. I don't ask or care.

I have 5 empty Tiger beer cans on the table. And I don't smoke anymore. The Swiss has cigarette I like so now I am a smoker again. I feel about 2 beers deep because I have been sweating, trekking around, in the sun, no work, no orgasm in almost a week. I usually need 8-9 hours of sleep to feel good. Not having to work and not having had sex I need about 5 hours and I feel like a champion. Add on working out in the morning and my energy is on overdrive. These drinks are now water.

My friend had to start drinking water at dinner because he was getting to buzzed.

I feel almost sober.

I concentrate on making the Viet girl feel welcomed. She is thoughtful, soft, and gentle. Down to the details of her hand gestures. She has a sweet smile.

I want to hug her and buy her a gigantic teddy bear.

Her father died it seems. She has one other sister. Her extended family looks down on them as a large burden because there is no son. She had both another brother and sister miscarry before they were born.

She almost starts to cry when she talks about this.

She says she won't let that stop her dreams.

She knows how to read and write Korean. She is the accountant at a restaurant.

I compare this to the Swiss girl next to me chain smoking. The Swiss girl was very cool I will admit, she had lived abroad, travelled extensively, and spoke 4 languages. She was very polite and always wanted everyone to have fun. Though there is a vast chasm between her Western Girl Light behavior and the Viet girl.

The Viet girl doesn't like to drink or go to bars much so she can't give us recommendations for much nightlife more than two names.

When she is leaving on her motor scooter I pick her up two feet off the ground and spin hug her. She weighs the same as a puppy.

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On the way walking to SkyBar36 a hotel open air rooftop club on the 36th floor Novotel, the Swiss girl is starting to add some porn innuendo into conversation. It has a spectacular view of the bay and city lights.

At the club there is a half and half split of tourists and locals it seems. I think we are the only white people, and probably the tallest by far.

We have a round, a cigarette and view, a round of shots, dancing in between. There is a lot of fire spinning, fire bottle juggling by bartenders. Two pairs of ballarina bodies Asian 8s go-go dancing on raised platforms with poles. A black rapper out of nowhere on center raise stage. A DJ.

Some hot girls in the crowd of about 100 mostly tight social circle around standing tables. I already felt like I wanted to go for the sure thing with the Swiss girl. I give my friend the go home whisper once I had grinded enough with her and knew it should be on.

I've roughly groped her tits, rubbed in from the outside in the front and from under the back, grabbed both ass cheeks, spanked her, light lip biting.

She talked about being an adventurous girl and seemed very sex positive. I played that angle saying while we made out that I wanted to be alone with her. She seems down in her voice her words say she wants to dance and have fun more. It is only midnight. We would need to go downstairs to the lobby to get a room. So I figure ok. A few more drinks. A little more build up and she will be good. We have a few rounds.

I am now at drink 25 for the day starting 15 hours earlier. Been 2 years since I have done anything like this. Back to my old self.

I have no idea what she is at. I am barely buzzed. Probably drink 9 over a 2.5 hour span.

I keep escalating and it is getting the point we are having dry sex at the back by the balcony rail. She says she has to go the bathroom. I sit for two minutes and my gut knows she has left. I would have been angry at this 2 years ago and asking why?

This time I have no anger. I simply wait to the 10 minute mark. In case I am wrong. I go out to the elevator staff and ask if my blonde friend left. She had.

I get a text from her when I am taxing back that she got sick from alcohol and felt too weird to be on the verge of puking around me and that she really wanted to enjoy the whole evening. Again old me would care or not if it was the truth. Does the answer matter in the long wrong? For this trip? What I am really trying to achieve here?

I tell her I am the hostel and hope she gets back safe and sound. Apparently she got back a few minutes after I did. You have the wake the front desk to get in that late and the guy hadn't seen her come in.

I wake up having blue balled no sex for almost a week. Her juicy tits and ass haunt my dreams. She is the definition of curvy without being fat. I think 5 years from now she will be fat. Coulda had her when she was still in great condition at 21yo.

The one point as I wake is what could I have done differently for logistics. I could have slowed the drinking. She showed zero signs of being drunk though. I could have told her we were going to go for a night walk on the beach by our hostel. Beach bang.

Lastly I could have tried to drag her in the communal small bathroom to bang. Aha.

It is morning I leave for a day trip at 11AM.

It is 7AM. She leaves the hostel and forever from my life while I am gone that day. I have until 11AM.

I do a quick work out, shower, eat. How am I up after a day that included 25 drinks, sunburn from jet skiing on the open ocean, and 5 hours of sleep or less? I don't know.

I put on a tank top it is hot I want to show my physique. I put on some light cologne. I give this my best small shot I can.

The game plan is when she wakes up for breakfast I tell her I have a surprise gift. The surprise gift is the last cigarette in her pack I still have her lucky cigarette.

I have that as bait to get her back to my bedroom. Then if there is no one in the bedroom escalate there and drag her into the room's private bathroom. If someone is there as soon as we leave the room pull her into the communal bathroom.

When I see her downstairs around 9AM I get her to come up to the room. She has no make up on and looks very hung over. Still looks good though. There are 6 beds. So possibly 4 others to fuck me over, my friend has another bed and I tell him the game plan.

No one in the room. Can in be true? She is surprised that I have her cigarette and laughs. I escalate immediately we are making out. I grab her tits. I slide her tank top over and suck her left nipple while playing with the right. She does the soft no no no. I cup her pussy. The private bathroom door is 3 feet away. I push us toward the door and her in first, I get more verbal LMR.

I am Walter Payton jumping over the defensive line for the touchdown at the 1 yard line.

Middle linebacker comes out of no where and stuffs me. She gives me a hard no. Not an LMR fake one. A real one. She isn't gonna do it at 9AM hung over as fuck. If it was gonna happen it was gonna happen last night if she didn't get sick.

Again I would have been much more upset at this 2 years ago. Big picture this is a just funny story. I am proud I gave it my best attempt.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
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Quote: (08-03-2016 05:13 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

^ Are you trolling? Enough with the C- questions.

Travesty, solid report on Vietnam. I have been curious about this country and the women there. Enjoy your time there!

I didn't interpret Eradicator's question as trolling. Although, you may have already covered this topic in this thread.
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Quote: (08-03-2016 03:29 PM)username Wrote:  

Quote: (08-03-2016 02:00 PM)Brosemite Wrote:  

Which parts of Asia are:
1) Least-open minded about mixed race children
2) Most-open minded about mixed race children?

Least-open minded is probably Korea or Japan.

I'd be far more concerned about raising a mixed kid in the West. In Asia? You have got to be kidding me!

Japanese halfies often become models or celebrities. Otherwise, the girls get put on a massive pedestal and the mixed race guys become studs who get laid with the hottest Japanese girls. I was seriously jealous of mixed race guys there. Too easy for them.

Korea is still a backwards place socially speaking but I imagine it will catch up in a decade or two.

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^ Interesting you mention that. A lot of Japanese people worship Texas Rangers pitcher Yu Darvish...not just as an athlete..but they specifically think it's so cool that he's half Middle Eastern/half Japanese & always remind me of that:

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Another interesting point is about Vietnam is the lack of police presence. In Hanoi you see more than Da Nang (seems near non-existant). I have seen only one instance of a police car with its lights on seemingly making a peaceful arrest or transport of a guy.

I have heard maybe 2 or 3 sirens the entire time I have been here.

In Colombia you hear sirens constantly every night especially. Cops on motorcycles everywhere. Every city square park has a police booth and guys standing around with machine guns. Even out in the rural towns I saw more police or state military with machine guns. Mexico the cops look like SWAT team and either driving around with their lights on at all times. Make ludicrous looking pull overs with 3 cars taking up the street in both directions. Or the cruise around slowly and almost silently like sharks.

I haven't interacted with a cop a yet here. It seems like the citizens have a good relationship with them.

Customer service here has been tremendous so far.

In Hanoi at a restaurant the owner came out and let us up to a private party room and turned on the A/C for us. Things like that and going the extra mile.

In Colombia it seemed the male waiters were very friendly and jovial.

I'd say the vast majority of women hostesses and waitresses in Colombia were stuck up or cold and acted like they didn't want to be there. Like we were a problem for them to deal with.

Mexican customer service seems in between the two, much better than Colombia as I remember.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
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Colombian customer service is indeed shitty! Travesty I'm really enjoying this thread and am paying keen attention to it since we have similar tastes in women. I've dated women in Colombia and Mexico too and find your reports on those countries very interesting. I also did the SE Asia thing a few years ago and had a great time in Thailand and the Philippines although I dont' think that I'd marry an Asian chick, personally, if I was to marry a girl from a different race like that, it would probably be an African chick, two of the best girls I ever dated were Nigerian and Tanzanian.

One question I have for you and others who are interested in wifing up a foreign girl is, what is your time line to get hitched? We often hear that the ideal time to wait is 2+ years, but as some of us are in the 30+ age range, we may want to get married and start having kids sooner than that.

What do you guys think of this? Some people may think its crazy to wife a girl up within a year of meeting and especially to start breeding her. I remember that old ROK article by the RVF OG Hooligan Harry who made the case that the majority of marriages between foreign women and western men are successful in the long term as opposed to the western marriages we see today which too often (50%) end in divorce.

I'm of the mind that a western fella would have a better chance in marriage if he met a foreign girl in her country who ticked off the essential wife list boxes, wifed her up and bred her than putting in a few years with a western woman and living the typical keeping up with the Jones's lifestyle that we often see ending in divorce.
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Scotian,

I think answering questions with zero wisdom on a subject is both a fool's errand and a negative hit to the forum.

The only guys that should answer this question are ones that are happily married for at least 15 years.

I have heard the same wisdom as you. You need 2 years to go through all the holidays, all the family visits to know what you are in for.

I guess I will follow that unless I hear a more convincing argument.

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There are two kinda of girls that almost guaranteed escalate on me physically on a date or friendly encounter before I even think of it.

Chinese born raised and living girls or black American girls.

I don't know what it is they can't help themselves.

There is a Chinese girl that is now a roommate in our 6 bunk hostel room. Met her this morning early 20s 6.0, very thin well dresses and kind. She took an 18hr sleeper bus from Hanoi yesterday.

She offered to help carry up the custom gear I had delivered from Hoi An.

By the way buy a Dakine brand roller bag for 2 week+ trips. Offroads over curbs and down stairs like a fucking dirtbike and turns like an ice dancer. Light as fuck. $150 on Amazon. It is easily expandable and compartmentalized with zipper mesh and outer pockets.

Highly recommended. I am pack muling both me and my friend's custom gear back home because he brought a carry on bag for a one month trip like a bitch vagrant.

As G would say there is a lesson in there somewhere. Don't fight a retarded battle to lose a war.

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Back to the subject at hand.

This Chinese girl that looks Viet immediately asks to hang out when I introduce myself.

Get the number she meets us at a beach bar. I have nothing on except Hoi An custom lavender linen shorts hot off the presses, some casual beach jewelry, and casual canvas shoes.

She asks me where my clothes are. She touches my shoulder and arm that has light sunburn. She sprays sun tan lotion on me unannouced when she thinks I am going back in the sun. Back in the hostel she stands behind me and grabs my shoulders.

Black chicks arm real warm to me and stand 2 inches from me at the beginning of a date.

Chinese chicks escalate in the first 10 minutes.

Lesson is evwn though Viet chicks are nice I really need to look more into Chinese and Black chicks.

They aren't my favorites, I think I can score the hottest girl that will be the sweetest and most loyal from those pools.

It is like they smell my pheremones and get the greeb light.

Small story a while back I had a 2nd date with. 7.5 Chinese 27yo.
She told stories about getting hit on all the time by high rolling Chinese govt. officials as her fathet and her business tied into that.

On date 1 I got a light makeout on a casual date. She touched my arm from the beginning.

Date 2 I pick her up she is now dressed to the 9s and inside 5 minutes cups a tight feel on my dick to see how big it is while I am driving.

She had a N couny of 1 and no sex for over a year before I banged her that night. I believe her from all my wisdom with women.

No slutty college white chick has ever escalated on me like that on a normal date or even at a nightclub where I got a ONS.

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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  
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Quote: (08-06-2016 06:08 AM)Travesty Wrote:  

Scotian,

I think answering questions with zero wisdom on a subject is both a fool's errand and a negative hit to the forum.

The only guys that should answer this question are ones that are happily married for at least 15 years.

I have heard the same wisdom as you. You need 2 years to go through all the holidays, all the family visits to know what you are in for.

I guess I will follow that unless I hear a more convincing argument.

I've seen the following being a trajectory many people follow when it comes to LTR/Marriage.

1) Have an internal sense of lack, that something is missing. A faceless image of the ideal mate is created within that would be an answer.

2) Meet someone who has some of those qualities. A person who "feels" right.

3) Put blinders on so we don't see the negative qualities of the other and the relationship. We now only see the parts that fit into Stage 1. This is what's being referred to when it's said "Love is blind"

4) During the "In Love" stage all is great and the negative we originally suffered in Stage 1 is gone. This lasts about 1.5 - 2 years.

5) Towards the end of Stage 4 the original sense of lack we had in Stage 1 comes back. The blinders begin to come off and the negative aspects of the other and the relationship begin to appear. The can't stay hidden forever and it becomes unsettling. At this point the couple will either breakup or decide what's missing....what will fix everything..... is Marriage.

6) Get engaged, blinders are reset and firmly put back up into position. Now the couple spends 1 - 2 years planning the wedding and how great things will finally be once they're married. The planning is enough to preoccupy them so they can ignore all the other stuff about their relationship that will inevitably torment them later on.

7) Get married. Yay! Honeymoon and all the rest is enough to keep the blinders on for a little while more. Enough to stave off the question, "What is missing?"

8) After the honeymoon phase is over the blinders start to fall off, and soon after the negatives start to appear again, along with the sense of lack. What's missing? What will make all that go away? Wait...I know....Children!

9) So now the excitement of having a child, the planning of the nursery, the name, clothes, etc is enough to keep the blinders on for another year or so. Especially if they can avoid hard and in-depth conversations about how they will raise and discipline their child.

10) A child is born. Euphoria for a little while again until the child gets old enough to crawl, walk, talk, cry, get into mischief, etc. Then a whole new set of negatives appear in addition to all the old stuff they've been keeping themselves blind to.

11) Sense of lack comes back, loss of freedom, tons of responsibility. What can shake this all off and bring back the happy days again? How about another child? This way they can play with each other and the parents can have more free time.

Marriage and Family are tough. It tests both people in many ways they hadn't considered. Doesn't mean one shouldn't do it, or avoid the standard trajectory of things.

It also doesn't mean waiting 3, 4, or 5 years before marriage will be a guarantee for success. Though it may improve your odds significantly because the blinders can only stay on for so long during a specific Stage.

The only real thing I think helps is knowledge of the trajectory. The knowing/seeing of it helps a person navigate it and see when they have the blinders on. That's the most important thing. Along with knowing and accepting the negative and suffering are always waiting for us down the road.

Most people seek out an LTR to be free of the suffering of being single/alone. Once they've been in the LTR for awhile they are yearning to be free of that suffering and single again.

It's natural and knowing that about oneself can help immeasurably when confronted with it. At least that's been my own experience. Engaged twice, never married, but do still long for the idea of it and a family.
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I counted I have banged 4 Chinese born and raised girls and 2 Chinese American with traditional Chinese parents.

I have also banged one Indonesian born and raised girl for a small SEA comparison.

Last night the 6.0 Chinese girl was nice and tried to be fun. It was her first time going to loud bars. She wanted to learn to dance, when I start showing her simple steps she got too shy.

She did a few inconsiderate things though that reminded me of some Chinese traits in general. She was very direct and almost a small bitter whine when didn't like something like a drink she ordered. She ended up getting too drunk after 1 beer and 2 small glasses of wine. When we gave her water and she started feeling a little better she gulped down the last third of a glass when I tried to snatch the glass away and then she was now needed to be babysat back to the hostel.

This morning we set an alarm for her at 6AM to catch a day trip bus. I woke her up and it's not like I wanted to be up that early. She seemed a little disgruntled I woke her.

I know she is young and inexperienced, I cannot imagine Viet girls acting out these little selfish displays of lack of manners.

This harkens back to some experiences with other Chinese where they can be a little snippy with their words and use some passive aggressive light questions to be a little bossy.

This girl then leaves room without her key to take a shower. 5 other people are trying to sleep. She comes back from shower and repeatedly knocks louder and louder until someone gets up and answers at 6:30AM.

There is a front desk she could have asked them to open the door.

Also couldn't imagine a Viet girl doing this so far.

One of the Chinese girls I banged took a 45 minute shower spontaneously right when our foreplay was turning into guaranteed sex. Can appreciate the showering, not the selfish 45min making me wait on the bed with my dick in hand.

Chinese girls just exhibit a bit of selfishness and single-mindedness I don't enjoy and it seems this attitude stretches to how they act as tourists and why local Viets tire of them.

Chinese girls are light years ahead of Western, Vietnamese girls completely topple them in basic grace, manners, and thinking about the well-being of the
group in a head to head comparison.

Not only mentally I find physically Viet women move with move grace in hand gestures, dance, and are a bit more demure in their overall appearance. Chinese girls are a little bit more fidgety with movements and their laughs are more of a giggle and cackle.

For instance how sweet Viet girls are the 6.0 CouchSurfer girl we saw one more time last night tried to pay for all of us for a $25 USD meal, and she has never had the chance to leave Vietnam. She was barely on her phone especially compared to the Chinese girl. I can say all the Chinese girls but 2 were very connected to their phone. The Viet girl almost was tearing up from sadness saying her last goodbye to us.

Can never imagine a Chinese girl from my experience doing the same.

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