Quote: (07-04-2016 11:15 AM)Designate Wrote:
Quote: (07-04-2016 06:26 AM)eradicator Wrote:
Trav, are you still in Santa Barbara? I bet you could find a wife in that town: most of the women are lamenting the lack of quality men in the dating pool, surely you have noticed a lot of women flock to the area for the beautiful surroundings, a lot of them are hot, a lot of them are available. Yes there is an obvious hook up culture, but find one that meets your criteria for a wife, she can be from another country, visiting, either in school or for work, whatever. You have options locally.
I really don't want to shit on American girls anymore than necessary, but I think it would be best not to pollute this great thread with that kind of garbage.
So this is what Southern California in general is:
A bunch of 7's with some 8's of diverse nature which is great. The male competition is huge though.
If you date a 7+ she has probably had serious boyfriends or hooked up with several 8+ males often times with family money. Lots of alpha widow syndrome.
The answer is an emphatic no.
You may be able to knab a mid 6 or low 7 in church community if you spend a lot of time, even in those there is a lot of competition.
California has a 70%+ divorce rate I believe for good reason. People have too many options.
I wouldn't want to raise a family here ever.
I think many of the people especially native Southern Californians have hollow personalities, compared to transplants. Growing up half in the Midwest half in SoCal, I can state emphatically growing up in the Midwest was much better for me as a person.
Getting a girl to leave California would be like pulling teeth.
Santa Barbara has a huge hook up culture.
The type that visit Santa Barbara for school or work or whatever are looking to live that Southern California lifestyle of beach, wine, and fucking good looking beach guys which I have been one of and have friends that are so I know what these chicks do.
I am surprised you even brought this up as a question. I have gone through dozens of girls in Southern California in every type of game imaginable. The best one was a cute educated black chick with a divorced mother of course. Not good.
If I had dated two or three girls over my years in SoCal I would consider wife material I may agree, proof is in the pudding. Zero.
You are talking to someone with 1k+ day time approaches here in SoCal. That has to be in the top 1% of any man alive on the planet that isn't Brazilian.
The most damning evidence of all is any guy I have met that has had a 7+ that is younger as a serious girlfriend he is in the top 5% of guys in coolness factors, looks, money (musician, restaurant owner/manager, bartender, artist, trust fund kid... whatever).
If it was top 15-20% to get that I would be fine.
I don't like the odds of 70% divorce, 10 years alimony for life, and needing to be a top 5% male to get what I would consider should be a run of the mill wife material in looks. This isn't even delving into personality.
The odds are against you here for a LTR big time.
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Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
Or
Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems