I have a lot of free time at the moment and so I decided to get serious with game. I am going to do the 100-approach program this month (Currently, I am at around 50).
Background:
I am 23 and I graduated college last June. I moved back to my parent’s place in Los Angeles.
Appearance:
I am not handsome, yet I do not think I am ugly either. I probably say that I am a 5 or a low 6. I also know that I haven’t maximized my looks yet. I am tall and lanky, and I haven’t been hitting hard the gym due to the fact that I have a hip impingement (FAI) on my right hip. This condition has been really annoying since I can’t really go hard on the squats or deadlifts. Last summer, I had a surgery to treat the condition and so far it is improving. Nonetheless, progress is slow and my doctor said that my hip might not ever fully recuperate.
Unlike my body, I have much more control over my style and wardrobe. I have made some recent improvements on my wardrobe by buying new a pair of new shoes, namely a pair or dark brown chukka boots. Nonetheless, my wardrobe still needs improvement, i.e. new pants and better shirts. However, I think that in few months my style will be a lot better.
A few final notes on my appearance: I started to drink juice (thanks Mike from D&P) and have started to seen some improvement on my face. Some of the acne is disappearing and my facial tone is improving. Furthermore, I am also doing his alpha posture exercises which have helped my overall appearance and confidence.
Game, Personality, and Social Skills,
In college, I took the Myers-Briggs Test with a counselor. I scored between an INTJ and ISTJ. Overall, I agree with the test and it explains why I have always been the oddball in middle and high school. I have always struggle to communicate properly with people given that I am usually direct and blunt in my interactions.
As for my social skills, I think they are a lot better than a few years ago. However, I still have trouble with some of the basics. For example, I still struggle with eye contact. Half of the time, I remember to make eye contact and maintain it. The other half I completely forget about it.
I have practiced game before. However, I was never consistent with it. I am getting better at approaching and quelling my approach anxiety. Nonetheless, I still have difficulty on what to do after I approach a girl. Furthermore, I have always had trouble in successfully showing sexual intent towards a girl. Currently, building comfort and showing sexual intent are the two obstacles I am having difficulty with.
Plan of action:
The majority of my approaches are going to be from day game since I currently do not have enough money to go out at night on a weekly basis and, more importantly, I want to really develop my game and self-confidence without the aid of alcohol or other drugs. I really want to develop the extroverted part of my character.
Anyhow, I am not going to write down all of my approaches since in a lot of them I don't really go anywhere (mostly because the girl is in hurry to go somewhere). So, I am going to write down the ones that went well or horribly wrong.
I would also like to add that, although the main objective is obviously get laid, the main takeaway I want to get from the first 100 approaches is to beat my approach anxiety as well as the ability to build, hold, and lead a conversation.
At the moment, I can say that I am in better control in my approach anxiety and I am making good headway in the conversations I have.
Background:
I am 23 and I graduated college last June. I moved back to my parent’s place in Los Angeles.
Appearance:
I am not handsome, yet I do not think I am ugly either. I probably say that I am a 5 or a low 6. I also know that I haven’t maximized my looks yet. I am tall and lanky, and I haven’t been hitting hard the gym due to the fact that I have a hip impingement (FAI) on my right hip. This condition has been really annoying since I can’t really go hard on the squats or deadlifts. Last summer, I had a surgery to treat the condition and so far it is improving. Nonetheless, progress is slow and my doctor said that my hip might not ever fully recuperate.
Unlike my body, I have much more control over my style and wardrobe. I have made some recent improvements on my wardrobe by buying new a pair of new shoes, namely a pair or dark brown chukka boots. Nonetheless, my wardrobe still needs improvement, i.e. new pants and better shirts. However, I think that in few months my style will be a lot better.
A few final notes on my appearance: I started to drink juice (thanks Mike from D&P) and have started to seen some improvement on my face. Some of the acne is disappearing and my facial tone is improving. Furthermore, I am also doing his alpha posture exercises which have helped my overall appearance and confidence.
Game, Personality, and Social Skills,
In college, I took the Myers-Briggs Test with a counselor. I scored between an INTJ and ISTJ. Overall, I agree with the test and it explains why I have always been the oddball in middle and high school. I have always struggle to communicate properly with people given that I am usually direct and blunt in my interactions.
As for my social skills, I think they are a lot better than a few years ago. However, I still have trouble with some of the basics. For example, I still struggle with eye contact. Half of the time, I remember to make eye contact and maintain it. The other half I completely forget about it.
I have practiced game before. However, I was never consistent with it. I am getting better at approaching and quelling my approach anxiety. Nonetheless, I still have difficulty on what to do after I approach a girl. Furthermore, I have always had trouble in successfully showing sexual intent towards a girl. Currently, building comfort and showing sexual intent are the two obstacles I am having difficulty with.
Plan of action:
The majority of my approaches are going to be from day game since I currently do not have enough money to go out at night on a weekly basis and, more importantly, I want to really develop my game and self-confidence without the aid of alcohol or other drugs. I really want to develop the extroverted part of my character.
Anyhow, I am not going to write down all of my approaches since in a lot of them I don't really go anywhere (mostly because the girl is in hurry to go somewhere). So, I am going to write down the ones that went well or horribly wrong.
I would also like to add that, although the main objective is obviously get laid, the main takeaway I want to get from the first 100 approaches is to beat my approach anxiety as well as the ability to build, hold, and lead a conversation.
At the moment, I can say that I am in better control in my approach anxiety and I am making good headway in the conversations I have.
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