[Maxitwist]

This is more of a dating question then game advice, so hence the title of the post.
Im looking for advice on 2 specific women im interested in,
I know them both through a good friend, they are both friends with each other also, although they dont see each other often.
They are also both virgins, at 22, which makes me a bit apprehensive because I am not looking for a LTR with either but i am into both of them, theyre lovely girls.
The fact that they are both virgins gets me a bit. What are they looking for that they havent found yet? Ive met both of them on maybe 2-3 occasions previously when i had a girlfriend, which i no longer have. Everytime i meet either of them our mutual friend is also there, so it is more of a 'friend' environment.
Is it okay for me to just get one on her own, say something nice to her and then try to kiss her and see how she reacts?

[WestIndianArchie]

Maybe.

Avoid 22 year old virgins

WIA

[Engineer]

(07-12-2015 01:00 PM)Maxitwist Wrote:  

This is more of a dating question then game advice, so hence the title of the post.
Im looking for advice on 2 specific women im interested in,
I know them both through a good friend, they are both friends with each other also, although they dont see each other often.
They are also both virgins, at 22, which makes me a bit apprehensive because I am not looking for a LTR with either but i am into both of them, theyre lovely girls.
The fact that they are both virgins gets me a bit. What are they looking for that they havent found yet? Ive met both of them on maybe 2-3 occasions previously when i had a girlfriend, which i no longer have. Everytime i meet either of them our mutual friend is also there, so it is more of a 'friend' environment.
Is it okay for me to just get one on her own, say something nice to her and then try to kiss her and see how she reacts?

Don't overthink it, be a man of action.

My 2 cents: Approach the less attractive one, assuming she's not hideous. She'll be more appreciative and try harder, hopefully. If she gives you any hassle, after some appropriate time move to #2. In the meantime develop others. I detect a hint of oneitis from you, really hope I'm wrong. Abundance mentality above all. You are doing them a favor not the other way around.

Virgin is a yellow flag for me due to all the excess potential baggage, but you know what you're willing to tolerate.

Your thread title is potentially ambiguous but my advice stands either way. This is exactly the correct internet forum for you. Massive return on time invested. If you meant forum as in location to approach the lady i.e. "get one on her own" away from the mutual friend, then game on as well, of course.

Last piece of advice, the forum is pretty heavily moderated to maintain high quality. Search for the forum rules threads to avoid a premature or unnecessary ban.

Good luck and report back!

[Maxitwist]

Yes, yes you do. I am not trying game atm, although i will get into it eventually, but not right now, right now i prefer to focus on specific people, so very much one itis. Which, i can see the inherint problems with success wise, because it makes me seem needy and like i dont have options, and ive lurked enough on the forum to know these are bad things when it comes to overall game.

Nevertheless, this girl is coming from out of town tomorrow, and she doesnt come up much so i dont get to see her often.
Im meeting her, itll be me her and the mutual friend, shes was planning to get a bus back at 5am. So I invited her to stay with me at my house at least until then. So i could totes try something then if she does indeed come back.
Well be spending all day together and then night too, or that was the plan, but i might arrive later because thats too much time, i will get sick of them and run out of energy if i spend all day with them.


Edit i did mean correct internet forum as this is more of a personal question than a game question.
Its just a bit strange situation because im very good friends with the mutal friend and i was introduced to these as friend, not sure how itll altercate things. And shes so inexperienced, its weird.

[amusedmastery]

Does she come from a very strict religious background? Did her parents keep her from dating and now she continues to remain chaste? If so, you possibly have found two unicorns. Tell us more...

[Engineer]

OK, have some more specific advice for you but it really hinges on your characteristics. Just roughly what is your current plan and more background info on you and the targets.

For example I'd suggest you demonstrate high value by getting an urgent business-related phone call or something that requires you to leave her and the friend alone in your house 30 minutes. "I'll be right back", and when they ask what's going on maintain ambiguity with "I was taking care of something", etc. when they grill you.

You've been lurking 6 months, you should know this is a perfectly fine question that happens frequently.

[Maxitwist]

This one im meeting tomorrow is reclusive, but no reason for her not to get anyone other than her not going out or ever trying as far as i can tell.
I know, these people are rare, nothing wrong with her, she just doesnt know many people and keeps to herself.

Do we still call it approach style when we know the person?
For a randomer I would just start talking to her and then invite her to go out later or something.. but i dont see how thats relevant here.
I am recently (like 3weeks) out of a 2.5 year relationship, during which i did not cheat.
Other misc information about myself; I believe i am decently good looking, funny (in the right circles, which this happens to be), compasionate and caring. I love holding eye contact, it is probally my most favourtist thing. I think that most alternative/queit girls like me, genuinely, im honestly a pretty unique catch, so some people tend to like me.
Others tend not to, I cannot stand cool people (he says on the forum for bros), I find it false and i like people to just be real and honest.

Im not sure if any of that is usefull information, but hey, if you want to give me advice ill gladly inform you on the situation to the best of my abilities.

[Engineer]

(07-12-2015 04:06 PM)Maxitwist Wrote:  

This one im meeting tomorrow is reclusive, but no reason for her not to get anyone other than her not going out or ever trying as far as i can tell.
I know, these people are rare, nothing wrong with her, she just doesnt know many people and keeps to herself.

Do we still call it approach style when we know the person?
For a randomer I would just start talking to her and then invite her to go out later or something.. but i dont see how thats relevant here.
I am recently (like 3weeks) out of a 2.5 year relationship, during which i did not cheat.
Other misc information about myself; I believe i am decently good looking, funny (in the right circles, which this happens to be), compasionate and caring. I love holding eye contact, it is probally my most favourtist thing. I think that most alternative/queit girls like me, genuinely, im honestly a pretty unique catch, so some people tend to like me.
Others tend not to, I cannot stand cool people (he says on the forum for bros), I find it false and i like people to just be real and honest.

Im not sure if any of that is usefull information, but hey, if you want to give me advice ill gladly inform you on the situation to the best of my abilities.

PM sent.

[WestIndianArchie]

(07-12-2015 02:57 PM)Maxitwist Wrote:  

Yes, yes you do. I am not trying game atm,