[LeeEnfield303]

If I'm getting what I want....it's ok by me *shrug*

[LeoneVolpe]

I used to think I wouldn't mind a girl doing whatever she had to do during sex to get herself off, but then I hooked up with a girl that mentioned she wanted to use her vibrator during sex. As it turned out, her "vibrator" was actually a vibrating dildo and not some compact little sex toy. It left me psychologically feeling like the third wheel, like I'd been cucked by a fucking fake dick. I didn't like it one bit and I think she picked up on that because we never included it again.

[eradicator]

If she has a vibrator for her clit, that is great, use it on her clit while banging. If all she has is a standard vibrator and she wants clitoral stimulation, turn it on and jam it in her ass while you are fucking her pussy. This shit works to get her off and feels freaky.

[infinitejest]

Few things are sexier than fucking a girl while she rubs her clit and you see her face contorted in ecstasy. I wish more girls did this.

[AboveAverageJoe]

Dont allow women to establish sexual frame. Next she will be wanting to put one of her little vibrating dildos in your ass. It is about you and your pleasure, she should be about pleasing you, after that if she wants to rub one out its fine. Most modern women have a variety of sex toys that can give them orgasms. Often the become spoiled because a dick or a tongue just cant do what a rabbit or an egg can. A woman that needs a variety of sex toys to get off is clearly an experienced carousel rider who needs more than what you can offer in order to be sexually fulfilled. You will never satisfy this woman because she needs a greater number and variety of cocks in her whether they be latex or human. There was a time when banging girls that you had to be very careful around the clit because it was extremely sensitive. Now these girls have buzzed the hell out of that little guy to the point that only a real sledge hammering will have any effect.

[MMM]

Update. No toys, but she rubs herself every now and then. I couldn't care less. "Show me a beautiful woman and I'll show you a guy that's tired of banging her."

[Incubus]

I love a girl who is open about her own sexuality and needs to improvise (in today's world) to get off. Of course if guys like sex with only virgins with crossed legs that's fine. (for them). Most guys are so fat now two pumps and they are done.(there are 20 year old super beta males now using viagra which can go the distance..which kinda freaks me out)

But put the vibrator in my ass too. Sharing is caring..but hey I'm old school

( I like the post attach the vibrator to my dick...LMAO)

I also liked the post on the "anatomy of a woman" ...yes the clit is the female version of the penis...but the school lesson missed one point that only women know,,,,,women orgasm in the same amount of time as a penis.

A girl rubbing one out...alone in private that is aroused (by a romance novel or TV or likes on FB) takes 7 to 10 minutes
A guy jerking off (fantasy over god knows what)..takes 7 to 10 minutes

A guy humping a real live girl (if not pakistani or Indian...2 pumps is my understanding from a hooker..easy money) may go for 5 minutes max (typical hard up western male)

Although most western males were raised on CAM whores who can rub there clit for days and moan, real women realize a toy is needed to get off (selfish I know) to try to orgasm WITH a male who has a 5 minute wad blow window. (ladies remember need 7 to 10 minutes)

Please note I capitalized "WITH" a male...the reason is powerful super tools are needed to get the job done quick for a chick.....because most chicks use there fingers privately like guys use there two finger grip (just kidding)....yes most water buffalo males can find a way too pump from behind and reach around and finger her but it is not consistent the way a chick does in private with herself

The other issue is women's orgasms are directed by there mind...you have to be an attentive lover so she stays focused...only cam whores can vibrate and chat...LMAO

I had a chick today that kneeled on her dildo and leaned over and gave me a blowjob at the same time (hard to do and keep in place on a bed..god bless her). a mix of buzzzzzzz-ing and foreplay, I clued in she wanted me ready to go when she got off (for round 2 her, round 1 for me)

Be an attentive lover has always been sound advice. PAY ATTENTION!

[Brendan]

The main problem with rubbing your woman's clit during sex is it trains her to be clitorally dependant. That means she won't have actual orgasms through her cunt when you're banging her. Vaginal intercourse orgasms are a LOT more powerful than clit orgasms which are pretty tame. You want her to enjoy those vaginal orgasms. Those are the sort that help make her keen to please you in bed. Although being an all round masculine guy is more important.

Don't rub her clit during sex and don't let her rub it either. Be the boss. Dominate her and talk dirty to her. A lot of sex is mental for women. Do enough of the other good stuff and she'll come from her cunt alone. Obviously takes more work, but it's worth it. Especially after all the work you put in for the bang. If need be, make her come from her pussy with your fingers first to warm her up.

[torridon747]

I'm covertly a pretty considerate sex partner. I don't outwardly show that my goal is to make the girl cum at least 3-4 times but I damn sure get it done and then some the vast majority of the time. There have been times I've been with a girl who is really really difficult and I maybe get 1 and call it a day but those are exceptions to the rule.

If a girl reaches down to rub her clit while I'm fucking her I pull her hand away and say something sexy/clever if I'm prepared for it. I want to be in charge of the girl's orgasms, I want her to associate that particular pleasure with me and me alone. I've met a few women who can only get off on cliterol stimuatlion or it's really difficult for them to get off without some. And I can do that myself in numerous positions, so the answer is still no.

Requests to involve a vibrator are typically denied, although I have granted it a few times after a significant amount of begging/pleading/promising to do something devious I want to do but only after she's pretty vetted with numerous sexual encounters previous.

[questor70]

I have been with women who claimed to either have difficulty or found it impossible to have sex through normal intercourse. Most of women's perception of their sexual potential is simply a function of the quality of the lovers they've had. This is because they will not work with their lovers. They merely lie there and hope and pray for fireworks. So if they had a string of bad lovers, they may assume their wiring is defective and/or that all guys suck at it.

So I see it as part of the job description for guys to upgrade a woman's sexual response because she'll never do it on her own. I never treat what she says she can or can't do as gospel. Women are a lot worse at understanding their bodies than they're given credit for.

[Vill@in]

(11-07-2017 11:50 PM)Incubus Wrote:  

But put the vibrator in my ass too. Sharing is caring..but hey I'm old school

[Sisyphus]

I had a fuck buddy who used a vibrator during sex. I didn't see it as a criticism of my performance. The reason I didn't mind is because I wanted the girl to associate having sex with me with pleasure and coming which seemed to be the case. I would usually fuck her multiple times and blast inside so I didn't see a reason to let pride interfere with that.

[RatInTheWoods]

Its all about the woman, not really much to do with you, unless you let your ego get in the way.

Some women can come twenty times when you bang them, others can not come no matter what you do.

But most need their love button played with. Its quite common (around 30%) that she can not come with vagina alone.

So let her fiddle off while you are up there, don't be selfish.